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PantyhosedDomina -> RE: difference of opinion (6/16/2017 11:29:47 AM)
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Hello marongloria69.
I appreciate your situation and I empathise.
A person that has it in them to behave inconsiderately and or to be dismissive towards another's concerns may likely do so if allowed to as many do not have absolute integrity when dealing with others. . A submissive has choice. You should have stood your ground in a calm and respectful way and informed the people you serve that you do not want to be naked in front of other family members and that is the choice you are comfortable with.
Now that it has happened, if you feel upset, exposed, not well treated, disregarded etc you need to reflect on how you feel with them. If you feel resentful or untrusting, unsafe etc, you need an opportunity to inform them (ideally in a planned discussion manner so that they are actually listening to you) . You can give them a chance to consider all the issues involved, to consider you're perspective and to reflect and to try to remedy what has happened, make improvements and address errors, alleviate your hurt feelings and discomfort etc.
Don't forget you have choice and power and much needed assets also and they need you or you would not be there with them. Mutual respect and trust is crucial for any bonded connection to be successful.
Good luck and all the best and stay safe ☺.
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