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FinDom - 7/23/2017 2:20:53 AM   
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why not give them an area of there own
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RE: FinDom - 7/23/2017 11:41:34 AM   
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Obviously, because they don't want to. Just like they don't see the need to give whiners an area of "there" own.

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RE: FinDom - 7/23/2017 11:54:31 AM   
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You are aware most of those profiles are scammers and men?

Now for the real ones - Why because thanks to them and anyone who feels the need to enable a bit of untidy diseased shit are often married and will say anything so someone may like them. Most of them are so fuking hideously ugly I would not afford them the time of day let alone visit them with a big stick

Why don’t they have their own verified section – oi OWNERRRRRR where art thou?


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RE: FinDom - 7/23/2017 1:46:05 PM   
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I'm all for giving findommes an area of their own . . . somewhere near the center of the Sahara Desert.

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RE: FinDom - 7/23/2017 5:09:37 PM   
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Obviously, because they don't want to. Just like they don't see the need to give whiners an area of "there" own.


Now if it was a woman complaining about men only wanting a fetish delivery system and/or easy sex, you wouldn't be responding like this. Right little steffy?

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RE: FinDom - 7/23/2017 5:35:33 PM   
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any fin doms?

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RE: FinDom - 7/23/2017 9:27:08 PM   
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The misogynist pipes in yet again with his usual gibberish. How fucking insecure do you have to be to resort to ridiculing and belittling a movement aimed towards equality?

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RE: FinDom - 7/23/2017 10:09:05 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: respectmen


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Obviously, because they don't want to. Just like they don't see the need to give whiners an area of "there" own.


Now if it was a woman complaining about men only wanting a fetish delivery system and/or easy sex, you wouldn't be responding like this. Right little steffy?

One has nothing to do with the other, but thanks for stopping by and crying Nicky.

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RE: FinDom - 7/24/2017 2:11:09 AM   
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One has nothing to do with the other, but thanks for stopping by and crying Nicky.


Ohhhh but it does, little Stefy.

Men get ridiculed for wanting a fetish delivery system/easy sex because they are being self entitled. Being a findom is exactly being self entitled. In fact, a thousand times more self entitled than just wanting sexual pleasure exchange. Asking for money is a bigger loss to the giver than just simple sexual pleasure. So the bigger sense of entitlement gets given a pass while the smaller sense of entitlement gets ridiculed to death.

You're priorities are so wrong but that's due to your female favouritism and stupidity.

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RE: FinDom - 7/24/2017 8:13:24 PM   
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You are aware most of those profiles are scammers and men?




Is there any proof, citations, that most of them are men?

It seems that people assume this because society makes out that women are pure and never do such a thing, only men do it because men are evil.

It's no better than assuming its only black people who are doing it. White people would never do such a thing!

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RE: FinDom - 7/24/2017 9:45:14 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: respectmen


quote:

ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

You are aware most of those profiles are scammers and men?




Is there any proof, citations, that most of them are men?

It seems that people assume this because society makes out that women are pure and never do such a thing, only men do it because men are evil.

It's no better than assuming its only black people who are doing it. White people would never do such a thing!



Most everything on the internet is scammers and men, what citations do you need ? Do you take P. Greenspun ?

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A lot more men than women choose to do seemingly irrational things such as become petty criminals, fly homebuilt helicopters, play video games, and keep tropical fish as pets (98 percent of the attendees at the American Cichlid Association convention that I last attended were male). Should we be surprised that it is mostly men who spend 10 years banging their heads against an equation-filled blackboard in hopes of landing a $35,000/year post-doc job?


That aside, there does exist a female type that tends to pretend "findom". It's usually a younger girl, socially marginal, and the "fin" part offers the ready excuse as to why she's not had any in a long while -- she's not selling it cheap you see.

About same reason every 50yo dork with a SSDI and a bunch of empty takeout cartons pretends to be a "Dom". It's not that he can't find a girl period, it's that he can't find a girl that'd ... meet his standards.

People are funny like that.

But back to reality, the sort of girls that do the sort of things internet "findommes" bray about usually call themselves call girls, and usually work out of either a bar or a hotel. So if you're actually looking for the arrangement, probably your best bet these days is Macau. Book a flight is all it takes, once there you can probably find the right floor by following the scent.

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RE: FinDom - 7/25/2017 12:40:20 AM   
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Okay Jackass, firstly, I see a total disconnection between criminology compared to remote control toys, video games, pets. Seriously, dude, using that as an argument is comical.

Secondly, your quote also hasn't got a connection whatsoever with what goes on in a BDSM website.

If you can't come up with actual proof that most scammers or all scammers on this site are male, your claim is pretty much fallacious. It's not based on fact. A fact is when you show irrefutable evidence to your claim.

As I mentioned earlier, it's no better than claiming it must be black people doing it. That holds just as much water as the claim that it's men doing it. There is no proof.

Are you under the spell of WAW?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fhm_HZ9twMg

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RE: FinDom - 7/25/2017 5:29:57 AM   
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Okay Jackass, firstly, I see a total disconnection between criminology compared to remote control toys, video games, pets. Seriously, dude, using that as an argument is comical.


Criminology ey ? I see.

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If you can't come up with actual proof that most scammers or all scammers on this site are male, your claim is pretty much fallacious. It's not based on fact. A fact is when you show irrefutable evidence to your claim.


Here, spot the hussy : http://trilema.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/nigerian-scammers.jpg

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RE: FinDom - 7/25/2017 9:48:23 AM   
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why not give them an area of there own

Why do you think one is needed?

Over the years, I've posted about things a lot of people aren't into. For example, I enjoy needle kink. It's not everybody else's kink, but I engage in it.

So, because I engage in a type of kink that other people aren't into, maybe even have hard limits about, would you think I need a 'special segregation' section on a discussion forum? What if I'm a wax player and you don't like that? How about if I enjoy CNC? Do you get to tell me that I can't be here because I don't please you?

Here's something really neat about kink. Nobody is forcing any random person on a message board (or in real life at a dungeon) to engage in any kink they don't want to. If something doesn't appeal to you, don't do it. Hit the little "x" on the right, walk away from that scene you don't want to watch, go to the next profile, hang out with different kinksters, or whatever it is that most suits you.

Seriously, DO that. While you are doing it, keep in mind that some of your fellow kinksters aren't thrilled with your kink, either.



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RE: FinDom - 7/25/2017 1:33:19 PM   
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Findoms are the female equivalent of the crude obnoxious males on this site. They even out the gender gap, giving awful women a place beside the awful men.

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RE: FinDom - 7/26/2017 12:25:34 PM   
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Because nobody really gives a fuck about them.

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RE: FinDom - 8/1/2017 4:51:39 PM   
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Just don't send them any money. It's that simple. It's not rocket science.

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RE: FinDom - 8/2/2017 4:48:44 AM   
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why not give them an area of there own

Because Finns can already use both the German board and the rest of the website, so don't need a Finnish language section as well.

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