DesFIP -> RE: Are "slaves" control freaks? (9/26/2017 12:47:38 PM)
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Someone has to be in control. If she can't trust you to be that person, then don't bitch when she fills the power vacuum that you left. Or, in Harry Truman's phrase, if you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen. When problems occur, I can trust him to rise to the occasion. He doesn't claim that his switch is off so he can't fix this. He's always the dominant, even if he's taking a nap. If you just want to top on occasion, don't lie to people about being dominant. The two are not the same. It's like being a good parent. Doesn't matter that you were enjoying some down time, when you get a call about a sick kid, you go get them to the doctor.
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