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RE: Why do people from soooo far away keep messaging me? - 10/12/2017 9:19:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sadisticsienna
Why are they messaging me?

You're going to find that some people are so desperate to talk to anyone that they will email everyone they think has even the slightest chance of getting a response. They will either not read your profile at all (other than your basic stats, such a female and role) or disregard your profile and think they are the exception to the rule. (Such as, if you say local only, they think you'll find them just oh so special that you'll exchange messages anyway.)

I know it's not much consolation, but truthfully, it happens to every female on this site. Heck, my profile is set to middle of nowhere Alaska and I get emails from darn near everywhere. If I get what I consider 'cold calling, first contact' email, I just delete it unread.

If you aren't aware, there's a hover feature that allows you to screen emails without reading the message. It will save you a lot of time.

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ORIGINAL: MsLadySue
Set your mail controls so messages from other countries don't go to your inbox. It helps some.

While I agree that this helps some, I don't agree with the method. I don't think a person should have to penalize themselves from the friendly conversations that they have with people from the forums who happen to be in other countries, just to avoid the idiots that can't understand that not everybody wants to respond to someone they've never interacted with that is half way across the world. To me, it's easier to delete the email that I don't want, rather than stuff going to my bulk mail folder from people that I enjoy exchanging messages with. It's just a different personal preference.



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RE: Why do people from soooo far away keep messaging me? - 10/13/2017 3:56:25 PM   
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Oh heck, I got to send you an update...

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RE: Why do people from soooo far away keep messaging me? - 10/16/2017 3:39:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sadisticsienna

So I'm looking for someone in my area, as I thought you pretty much were meant to do unless you specifically looking for online,
and I keep getting messaged by people literally
in other countries.

Most people that message me are actually from other countries.

I don't get it?

Why are they messaging me?

How can I possibly be their domme if they are literally in another country? ?


Will you Domme me?

I'm in Seattle...barely a 23 hour flight.

I have some time this Saturday.

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RE: Why do people from soooo far away keep messaging me? - 10/17/2017 5:41:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sadisticsienna

Thank you :)

Its just redicilous because 90% that message me aren't even in my country



It is redicilous. :)

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