Spellbinder83
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Joined: 7/4/2008 Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote:
ORIGINAL: Spellbinder83 I'm not trying to beat up anyone. I was attempting to fulfill my duties as a master. quote:
You're not their Master and even if you were, there's nothing you could do to MAKE someone leave her alone on the internet. Period. Look I wasn't offering to help anyone. That was for the girl who would become my slave. I know I don't own anyone. And...block button? He'll eventually give up. I think any decent slave should know that, but I still feel I should offer. quote:
The grafs were an attempt to inform what it would be like to serve under me. A couple of points about this: The first being is that [quote relationships and people aren't made from cookie cutters. So, that's your fantasy of what it would be like to serve under you. #2 - since you have little to no experience - it's your fantasy of what it would be like to serve under you. We must disagree. Since I have little experience, this was an attempt to inform what life might be like under me. Doesn't matter. It's gone. quote:
Not arrogant enough to come up with that. Got it from a Mistress in her 20s. Left that one in. Remove it? Her experience is vastly different from yours. The ratio of female D's to males identifying as "s" on this site is about 1:1000.And what's the ratio for m/s? quote:
And no, it's not any better: It starts of with negativity. The scammers don't care what you put in your profile and for everyone else it starts out with a rant. Don't know how to make it better other than deleting the rant. Thanks for answering me. quote:
"I may be new to being a master" - I'd argue that you're not new to being a master, you're not a Master. It might be your goal, but you've never been there. I know you're not a fan. I have to list myself as something. I have been there. She was totally new. I loved her and scared her away like an idiot. Found out I like this tho. So I'm here. quote:
It's still a lot of blah, blah, blah about a relationship that doesn't exist. I feel it's about me. I'll look at it again. quote:
The reality is that M/s and TPE relationships don't happen right out of the gate. They take time (and trust) to establish and the dynamics of that relationship are based on the personalities and needs of the people involved. You're trying to define that relationship wihout the second half of the equation. You're defining the relationship and discussing limits while she's trying to figure if she likes you enough to hit reply. I said I'm looking for TPE...I could be wrong, but where did I talk about limits? You seem to think that engaging in BDSM has prepared for you for a D/s relationship - it hasn't. And physical acts don't define Dominance or submission. I don't think that. Why would I ask for help if I did? quote:
And Greta is right...if you start off by talking to me about D/s, BDSM, sex or limits, I'm not going to answer. I haven't even decided if I like you enough to hit reply...and you're asking/talking about very personal things. No offense, but could we drop that? Not trying to hide it, but I haven't done that in a long time.
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