LadyConstanze
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ORIGINAL: thorneyone I know very little of the Master Slave Dynamic. What I do know is that money equals personal power. It is just inconceivable to have a slave with a bigger wedge than its Master. You can argue till your blue in the face, but I wouldn't be convinced. As you said, you know very little, and if for you money equals personal power, you also seem to have some really screwed up values. In a healthy relationship, no matter which leaning, money is only an issue if there is so little that it does create a lot of problems, like paying the rent. If somebody is so insecure as a D type, that he or she need to justify themselves by their pay check, then they're possibly pretty poor dominants anyway. Btw I'm doing quite well financially, however I never asked anybody I engaged in any kind of BDSM activity with how much they earn, however I do know that the "slave" I had for the past 3 years seems to be doing considerably well, as Bentleys don't come cheap, nor do horses. Should I start feeling really insecure now that he has a bigger "wedge" (and house, I live in a 4 bedroom house, he lives on a country estate). You know we engage in a bit of S/M because we both like it, but I don't think you can understand that. No worries, I won't argue until I'm blue in the face, I'm too busy laughing at your naive approach.
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