BitaTruble
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Joined: 1/12/2006 From: Texas Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Noclueand62 I have taken what everyone has said and I think my best course of action is to remove myself from any connection with this world. As for setting my wife down and having a conversation about this, well I do not see where that will do her any good, it might help me but I cannot see it helping her. I really appreciate all the input and I wish you all well. Fred You are taking out your inner crap on your partner already. Not violently to date, the caps convinced me, but emotionally and this while you are actually indulging. Your idea now is to completely suppress everything in the hope that some X thing will happen? You have capped yourself into believing your ability to take out emotional crap on her won’t turn physical once you stop indulging on the sly. emotional withdrawal < physical corruption Too bad it’s not a math problem and people are more complicated. If nothing else maybe you can gain at least a small clue that emotional withdrawal makes it difficult if not impossible to engage in a healthy, fulfilling relationship. What is your X? What are you hoping will happen? It doesn’t seem as if you are willing to put any effort except to make this thread over and over again always with the same end result. You want to have your cake and eat it, too. ssdf
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