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Aged Out or Lack of Appeal? - 3/13/2024 2:14:54 PM

WeSeek3rd4Play

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I reviewed the possible categories for this post and ths seemed the most apt.

Now in my (early) 60’s, I do feel that the general demographic of this site is considerably younger (perhaps, 20-40, on average?).

Is that just my imagination? I’m happy to hear that this profile garners NO interest.

The very few exchanges with what seem interested parties quickly fade, which leads to a growing cynicism.

Judging by some of the posts in these forums, the health and well being of CS itself does appear to be in question.

I maintain this profile, optimistically, since it IS a “free” site, and out of a sense of nostalgia.

It seems entirely necessary to say, I welcome ALL perspectives, but would prefer they be respectful.

P.S. I selected notification by email, however, that facility has not worked in years.

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RE: Aged Out or Lack of Appeal? - 3/13/2024 2:42:46 PM

OsideGirl

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You're looking for a very small segment of the CS population, it's called Unicorn Hunting for a reason. And add to that your profile reads like you're not looking for something permanent, which further whittles away possible partners.

If they fade away after taking to them, they have decided that you or your situation doesn't fit their needs. Be happy that they are doing it for you, rather than wasting more time.

Good luck in your search.

< Message edited by OsideGirl -- 3/13/2024 2:44:54 PM >

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RE: Aged Out or Lack of Appeal? - 4/6/2024 6:21:39 PM

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I was gone from here for a few years and the place looks abandoned. I live in Washington State and have been watching the listings in Washinton and Oregon for the last 2 months and not a single female has signed up in either state in that time. Where is everyone going to now?

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RE: Aged Out or Lack of Appeal? - 4/10/2024 1:03:34 PM

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I believe most have gravitated to phone apps.

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RE: Aged Out or Lack of Appeal? - 4/10/2024 2:39:08 PM

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AS OsideGirl has said, there are very few looking for what you have to offer. It's just a fact. Has nothing to do with aging out.

What is also making it difficult for you to find your unicorn is that this site is not considered very useful to those who are into WIITWD. Very few come here anymore. At one time it was a great place to visit. Now it is a shadow of what it once was. These forums used to have many questions asked daily and many answers posted.

My advice is to go to other free sites. Look for events and munches in your area. Attend them. Make friends.

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RE: Aged Out or Lack of Appeal? - 4/11/2024 7:18:24 PM

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Good to see you Miss P.

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RE: Aged Out or Lack of Appeal? - 4/20/2024 2:36:16 PM

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Thank you, OsideGirl. Always good to see some familiar names around here. Not many left.

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Yes, I am crazy about feathered creatures. I have a dozen chickens, 3 ducks, 5 geese, and 2 parakeets.

Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.

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