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"Reverse Cuckoldry". - 8/17/2006 11:37:34 PM   
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I'm curious if my desires are so rare and unique as they may appear to me (and others). Anyone?
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RE: "Reverse Cuckoldry". - 8/18/2006 6:49:08 AM   
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Define reverse cuckoldry?  Is that a man taking another woman into his bed and making the first woman watch?

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RE: "Reverse Cuckoldry". - 8/18/2006 3:10:27 PM   
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No, rather the male that is "cuckolded" is the boyfriend (as a sub) rather than the husband (who retains the Dom or Bull status).
Really the term might make little sense but its essentially a male sub that serves a married couple but along the "themes" of a cuckold related relationship.

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RE: "Reverse Cuckoldry". - 8/22/2006 5:15:51 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: reversecuckold

I'm curious if my desires are so rare and unique as they may appear to me (and others). Anyone?


I'm not at all sure...would you care to explain yourself?  (You know...like something along the lines of actually asking a valid and complete question?)

< Message edited by LTRsubNW -- 8/22/2006 5:18:01 PM >

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RE: "Reverse Cuckoldry". - 10/31/2009 5:53:24 AM   
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I wouldnt call that reverse cuckoldry, I would simply call that another version of it. No matter what if there is a male that is a cuckold and a male that is a "bull' then it is cuckolding.
reverse to me would be as the other poster stated-having the female watch, and being the sub/cuckold.

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RE: "Reverse Cuckoldry". - 10/31/2009 6:50:20 AM   
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OP;

a cuck is a man who's wife fuks around( basic back in the day meaning)
a cukquean is a woman who's man fuks around

So how is your idea a reverse.?
You are the bf..so then your married gf fuks her husband..and you prepare..and clean up?
This sounds like a DOM couple with a sub..plain and simple??

Is it that you are feeling deeply for her..? then the cucking becomes an intimate
interaction where the bull has serviced her but she comes back to you as her one and only?
or
is it that you do not want sexual interaction with the woman you serve...but to see her happy?

It is hard to name/re-name/label or put ourselves into boxes here but I think your
CM name may be a detriment to finding someone...if you are having a problem???

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RE: "Reverse Cuckoldry". - 10/31/2009 8:07:19 AM   
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It's reverse in the sense that it's typically the primary male being cukolded, i.e., the cuckolded is the primary partner, the cuckolder is the third party - in this case, he's seeking to join and established relationship as a cuckoldee.

Whew, it is kinda hard to describe. In a sense, it isn't cuckolding at all, since the word usually applies to people in an established relationship, one of whom is getting sex outside the relationship with the compliance of the other - this is more like a service submissive who want's to be taunted and denied sex with whatever partner he's presumably attracted to.

It is however, pretty much a cuckolding dynamic, for all practical purposes, so I won't quibble with the choice of phrasing, although you might want to find a better way to explain it.

i.e., it could be seen as a form of service/worship.

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RE: "Reverse Cuckoldry". - 11/20/2009 2:46:21 PM   
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Reverse cucking...well..i am looking something almost like this...as it says on my profile I have met so many woman who just want a hump... but i love control not just in the bedroom but deciding what your going to wear, hair cut, when you sleep, your diet...and of course sexually i want control as well. I like to share, i am a one-woman-man ( why do woman here find that so hard to accept!) but i would like to watch my partner perform with other men for my pleasure :).

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RE: "Reverse Cuckoldry". - 11/20/2009 6:24:07 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Define reverse cuckoldry?  Is that a man taking another woman into his bed and making the first woman watch?


That's hot.


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RE: "Reverse Cuckoldry". - 12/3/2009 1:33:45 AM   
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youre comment caught my eye..... 

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RE: "Reverse Cuckoldry". - 12/13/2009 6:28:25 PM   
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There are so many diverse desires and sexual needs i am sure you will find what you want. Keep an open mind, maybe what you want is exactly what someone else wants, just worded a bit differently (as some people have just stated). Look around, maybe you will get what you want, or find something better!

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RE: "Reverse Cuckoldry". - 1/9/2010 8:34:50 AM   
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I love it! That would be an ideal situation for me

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RE: "Reverse Cuckoldry". - 1/25/2010 11:39:30 AM   
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So what if I am not a husband , but I rent apartment with a girl , who constantly change her boy friends. I do not openly say that I love to serve , but I think she guess it and some times leaves me unwashed dishes , or let me clean the house , make the loundry .
I like her new and new boy friends and I usually offer coffee or some sweets at the kitchen and make the room nice , but we are not a huband and wife , but just the people who rent the flat and pay for the flat. I actually already pay now full amount and she just lives there with her boy friends , letting me pay a lot of bills
so , i am not a husband , but indeed i am a cuck , right ?

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RE: "Reverse Cuckoldry". - 1/25/2010 2:40:41 PM   
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Could be that also....

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RE: "Reverse Cuckoldry". - 1/26/2010 8:53:35 AM   
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I thought reverse cuckoldry would be an insanely monogamous relationship.

Go figure


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RE: "Reverse Cuckoldry". - 1/26/2010 3:38:31 PM   
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A few people who read that I am into cuckolding think my husband might be cuckold. For me, the cuckold-bull relationship would be outside my relationship. But, I am the type of girl who definitely prefers both the bull and the cuck to be people that I have deep and meaningful relationships with. Not really a hit it and quit it type girl.

One variation of "reverse cuckolding" could also be that the typically dominant male is the cuckold and the typically submissive male is the bull. That is one form of "reverse" cuckolding that appeals to me.

As in.. Oh daddy.. I thought I loved you.. but now the adult baby is here and he is all I can think about... :)

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RE: "Reverse Cuckoldry". - 1/26/2010 8:39:57 PM   
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Eh, it isnt that rare since Fox and I get offers for it pretty constantly. I ust cant wrap my head around it, since you cannot be cuckolded if you are not the one who is in the primary relationship. If you are the secondary relationship and are being tossed over for the primary, thats not cuckolding, thats just an uneven relationship.

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RE: "Reverse Cuckoldry". - 1/26/2010 11:07:07 PM   
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This "cuckold", "bull" terminology disturbs me a bit.  It seems like a bad mixed metaphor or mixing art usage with literary.  Calling someone a cuckold is comparing them to a bird where the female builds a nest with one male bird and finds another to provide the genetics.  Horns/bull imagery seem like a completely different expression of the same concept.  The horned man/bull in art represents a "cuckold" relationship.  I don't know anyone who uses the expression "he has horns that everyone can see but him" at all.  Perhaps the "bull" idea comes from breeding and being a "stud" animal.  When the cuckold, and bull are used in a relationship together, the metaphor is lost, as when I think of a bull having sex with a small bird, infidelity seems the least of its problems.  Also, a reverse cuckold, would be the bird standing backward for some odd reason and have no bearing on the sexual relationship that I can imagine.  Seems that if you would like to use a metaphor from the animal kingdom, perhaps you should find an example that fits your situation.  Personally, I think most people fit the bonobo metaphor.

If you would like to take the reverse of the situation though, perhaps having a "baby's momma" would fit.  The reverse of the BDSM/kink usage of  "cuckold" would be a woman watching while the husband has sex with many women.  I think that most call that just about "vanilla" or perhaps the most common goal of newcomers to kink (usually the "I want to see you with other women" thing is just a cover for vanilla guys who want new sex partners).

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