SubNY278
Posts: 50
Joined: 2/6/2006 Status: offline
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While I'm not necessarily defending all that sissytoserve has written, I can attest to his frustration as a fellow male sub. I think for many subs like me, it's gotten to the point where you've done everything you possibly could. You take the time to write to each Domme you are interested in with a specific, detailed letter written in response to Her profile. If you have the opportunity to meet in real-life you always show up, ready and on time. You don't flake out and don't demand sex or just use Dommes to have something to jerk off to when you're bored. You have a sincere desire to serve, and the thought of serving is a turn-on for you. You try all that, and fail, and many times, don't even receive a response from many of the Dommes you write to, even if you write a mature, well-written letter, not pushy, not demanding, not coming out with a laundry list of things the sub enjoys or asking for sex, not copy and pasting the same exact letter over and over again, etc., but a letter that specifically addresses the profile of the Domme being written to. All that, and nothing to show for it. So yes, it is frustrating. Yes, there are many more male subs than female Dommes, but as many Dommes will also admit, many of the letters they do receive from so-called subs are garbage. Surely, a genuine submissive should stand out? Except that's often not the case at all. As far as cross-dressing and generalizations, I think it's even wrong to say that out of, say, 30 cd's, only 1 or 2 "are not like the others." Have you actually met 30 cd's? Were they all submissive? One could be a cd without not even having other submissive desires, or a desire to serve a woman. Also, just because one enjoys crossdressing doesn't mean that they can't otherwise fit the "alpha male" type that another Domme spoke about earlier. I for one look like any average male 99% of the time...I don't really have any effeminate mannerisms and besides being a bit shy and reserved (which can be a trait anyone has) and not acting like a disgusting chauvinist pig, there's nothing feminine or unmanly about me in my vanilla life. I think that the contrast from that into a cross-dressing male submissive is quite striking and can certainly add some excitement to a scene, but again, it is up to the tastes of each specific Domme and sub.
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