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How do I meet people in my community that are into the ... - 9/18/2006 12:16:57 PM

MistressNanc

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Hello, I just joined this site today. I have been living the Fem/Dom life style 24/7 with my husband of 13 years. We have been 24/7 for the past 5 of them. I would like to other couples who enjoy the same thing. I have tried to find groups in the area but have not been successful. We are in SE Michigan. I found a group once, but it was all male doms. I would really like to meet some female doms to talk with and share ideas. I would appreciate any info that you could give me. Thank You.

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RE: How do I meet people in my community that are into ... - 9/18/2006 12:22:04 PM

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RE: How do I meet people in my community that are into ... - 9/18/2006 12:29:12 PM

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I usually go to google.com and put in the nearest large city, the acronym BDSM and perhaps the word "group". I got this result using just your state:
http://domsubfriends.com/cgi-local/wwwdir/db.cgi?db=org&uid=default&state=MICHIGAN&view_records=View+Records&ww=on

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RE: How do I meet people in my community that are into ... - 9/18/2006 12:50:44 PM

Phoenixandnika

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I would suggest finding local munches, clubs, or lifestyle groups in your area. That is the best way to connect with local lifestylers.

If you don't know if there is a group in your area simply google bdsm group then your county or variations of that.

I wish you luck.

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RE: How do I meet people in my community that are into ... - 9/18/2006 6:23:08 PM

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You dont. sit at home staring at the door and eventually they will find you.

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RE: How do I meet people in my community that are into ... - 9/18/2006 6:52:33 PM

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In addition.. if you don't find one that fits you.. Start your OWN. The like-minded will start coming out of the woodwork.

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RE: How do I meet people in my community that are into ... - 9/18/2006 7:41:25 PM

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The group I'm in found me. The woman who runs the group saw that I was in Dallas and emailed me on CM. It could work.

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RE: How do I meet people in my community that are into ... - 9/19/2006 7:59:33 AM

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I'm fortunate to have one of my sister Ms World Leather's up there in Detroit who has been able to refer some decent groups there in Michigan.

MI ChatOHs (munches, socials and demos)
http://www.michatohs.org/

Power and Trust (Toledo, OH, close to SE MI)
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/powerandtrust

Michigan Rope (obvious!)
http://www.michiganrope.com

GRALE (Grand Rapids Alternative Lifestyle Enlightenment)
http://www.gralemi.com

Lansing BDSM Munch
http://groups.yahoo.com/groups/LansingBDSM

Detroit Area Leatherwomyn's Dinner, meets at the Detroit Eagle
http://groups.yahoo.com/groups/DALWD

DSSG, meet in Toronto & Hamilton. (Hamilton isn't that bad of a drive for some parts of Michigan.)
http://www.dssg.org/

Fetish Odyssey (pansexual monthly play party, metro Detroit)
http://www.fetishodyssey.com

And just a helpful tip.....you might wish to fix your profile from being a "dominate" (verb) to "dominant" (noun.)

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