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aimdb12001 -> Interest (4/23/2004 8:47:25 AM)
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Being a male of 54, I have enjoyed shairng my cbt, bdsm, sub interest since I was 16. Yet to this day I have a difficult time discussing my specific interest with a woman. I share my interest with a woman friend from time to time but not as much as could be. My friend is 200 miles from where I am so it's difficult to find the time to share.
My wife of over 10 years knows of my interest and of which she has none. We have long agreed to go our separate roads when it comes to my sub interest, just something that works for us.
Ok... I'm seeking to share with a pro or non pro in my area. that being said and as we all know, one simply has to seek and they will find. Now the question is, even though I beleive in communication, I have always found it difficult to to discuss my interest in cbt and ball play. I certainly do not to bring an end to the start of the conversation. I have long ago found that women have much more open minds then men do. Yet men have a difficult time in expression themselves. We always seem to thing that the woman knows what we need and or want.. vary not true.
I want to try new things.. I love and hate ball play but I find it The most personal thing I can give and share with a woman... it's so personal fot me, as any of my cbt interest. So how do I open up... it's tough.. I need to move past this mind block and just ask.. I guess. Maybe I should bring a completed quiz form and mark everything that I want and desire to share...lol.
Most of all and most important for me.. is that the woman enjoy herself. I f she does not enjoy say, hitting the balls.. then why would she do it? I certainly would not want her to do anything that does not fulfill her desires and needs. If the woman does not enjoy herself, does not enjoy her fulfillment, her desires, finds the shairng errotic.. then whats the point?
I know... rambling...
looking for more in Wi
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