EbonyFtshGoddess
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Joined: 1/1/2006 From: Hollywood Hills, CA Status: offline
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Ebony - what you said about buying all this (expensive) stuff really struck a chord with me. If I were charging, then yes I'd buy and supply as part of the "firm's assets", and depreciate them and recover the cost in charges to the client, like in any business. I've come across two males so far, (one here, one elsewhere) who seemed to think that I "should have" the stuff they wanted, or else should go out and buy it, without any contribution whatsoever from them. Needless to say, they were both confused and then disappeared when I appraised them of the situation as I saw it. Lets face it, anyone interested in you, is going to be interested primarily in you, and not what equipment you might have for their delight. If he's only interested in what specialist furniture you have and how high your heels are, its probably time to forget him! Would this sort of guy only marry a wife who comes with own kitchen utensils and bed I wonder? E if i were charging for my time, then it's a given that i should have all of the equipment. but seeing as i'm not, i don't see why i should foot the total bill if we BOTH want these things to make our experience more fun. let's face it.. beating someone's ass with a spatula wearing a mu mu get's real old, real fast. on the flipside, some of the fetishes i engage in we need those sorts of things to make the scene more *realisitc* and sets the mood better.. for me at least. i know when i'm doing a med play scene, i want to have them on my gyno table. true, i could do it on a couch, but it just is more fun for me if i'm wearing a rubber nurse uniform with my slave strapped to my table. it's not necessary, but it sure makes things interesting. i don't mind people asking what equipment i have or whatever.. but to DEMAND i have it is a totally different thing- especially since they aren't tributing for my time. some guys want pro quality sessions from lifestyle dommes. and that's fine if he's willing to contribute to her toy collection, wardrobe and gear. otherwise he either needs to take what he can get.. or go pay a pro.
< Message edited by EbonyFtshGoddess -- 9/28/2006 8:59:33 AM >
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