slaveofKat
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ORIGINAL: amilyn I'm hoping someone with more experience than I can help me with this. My dominant tends to use a training method that uses negativity to try to encourage me to do things right. I get praise for doing things right, but the negative side is more prevalent. Heh, I get the opposite, and sometimes it frustrates me a little. My Mistress gives me praise and affection far more than any negativity. I guess both are important, and I don't think it is possible for your Master/Mistress's basic personality to change, but it would be very discouraging to get a constant diet of negativity. Does your Master know that this is discouraging for you? Do you have an open line of Communication? If you can find a way to respectfully communicate your feelings in a manner that is positive, for example spend some time telling your Master about all of the things that you love about Him/Her, and how they make your life so complete, and how wonderful they are, and if there was just one thing you could change, this would be it. By the way, I know you were asking for answers from an Experienced sub/slave. I'm fairly Inexperienced, but do know some about life in general.
< Message edited by slaveofKat -- 5/1/2004 5:54:17 AM >
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