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LadySeraphina -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/9/2006 1:05:07 AM)
I don't receive oral during my period, but my boy and I have sex during it the whole time. The first time we did, I was a bit squicked, but I love it now, not because it's my time of the month, but because I don't have to stop having sex. I don't have heavy periods either, though. TammyJo, I know you have your reasons for disliking tampons, but I find that they work very well as long as you have the right level for your flow at the time. When you don't it's like if you used a pantyliner on the first day of your flow - of course it will leak. I used to be nervous about using tampons, but when I switched I would never want to go back - I don't have to feel the fluid pressed against my girl bits. For whatever reason I've always found that when I wear a pad, the fluid in the pad made my outer labia ache like the way your scalp feels if your ponytail is too tight. To each their own, but I thought I'd present another POV. Hrm, I don't know if that came across the way I intended - I'm not suggesting you should try tampons, but addressing your comment about them not working. [:)] Good night all - I may actually go to bed sometime soon.

UnvailedPurpose -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/9/2006 6:54:44 AM)
I do not understand the reasoning behind clumsy attempts to intellectualize acts or actions that bring us to a state of euphoric ecstasy or justifying the deprive ourselves of those raptures by cloaking them in the shroud of a menstrual cycle.

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/9/2006 1:41:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UnvailedPurpose I do not understand the reasoning behind clumsy attempts to intellectualize acts or actions that bring us to a state of euphoric ecstasy or justifying the deprive ourselves of those raptures by cloaking them in the shroud of a menstrual cycle. I hope I wasn't conveying that, lol. I don't need to justify why I enjoy it at all... I admit to loving it because it feels good, and I don't feel women are dirty for having the ability to cycle and reproduce. The reason I don't demand it is because I don't want anyone anywhere near my body if he doesn't thoroughly enjoy being there. When connected with the right lover for me, I feel him when we connect physically/emotionally; so if he is squicked by performing menstrual servitude or is at all hesitant about the act, he will turn me off and in fact irritate me thereby killing any desire I might have had to have sex with him. So I need an willing/enthusiastic lover when having sex, at any time of the month... M

pixelslave -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/9/2006 4:29:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig The reason I don't demand it is because I don't want anyone anywhere near my body if he doesn't thoroughly enjoy being there. When connected with the right lover for me, I feel him when we connect physically/emotionally; so if he is squicked by performing menstrual servitude or is at all hesitant about the act, he will turn me off and in fact irritate me thereby killing any desire I might have had to have sex with him. So I need an willing/enthusiastic lover when having sex, at any time of the month... M That makes perfect sense to me! It's one thing to have a sub do something he may find unpleasant like cleaning a stopped-up toilet, but another to have him do something that would involve your body that he doesn't desire to do. If I were you, I'd want my sub to desire me as a woman any time I were with him whether during a cycle or not; just as a man, I'd want my Mistress to desire me as well. [:D] Being with a woman who isn't an enthusiastic partner that didn't have a strong desire to be with me on an emotional, mental and physical level would leave me feeling empty and unfilled. - pixel

UnvailedPurpose -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/9/2006 5:11:50 PM)
Hell I don't give a flying F*** about emotional attachment, if the woman is capable of submerging herself in the abyss of those raw raging passions fueling her own desire, driven by lustful longnig and learned enough to withstand every nerve ending in her body screaming for release, emotion attachment can wait until she can walk again.

mnottertail -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/9/2006 5:16:09 PM)
Agreed, but spelling is always in style.................... FYI

MstrssM4u -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/9/2006 5:28:37 PM)
that is just pure nasty. I don't care what anyone says. and if a sub or slaves gives her that while she is bleeding he is just as nasty as she is. thre are other things that can be done while she is on her cycle other than oral while on her cycle. I play while on Mine, but that is My hard limit with a sub or slave. he is not allowed to even touch Me in that way. that is just yuky. but that is just Me. Ms M

lunamor -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/9/2006 5:36:48 PM)
Unless blood is part of the turn-on, I find menstrual cups are a good solution: no obstacle, no inhibitions and no mess. Lunamor

SweetDommes -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/9/2006 5:39:16 PM)
Well then ... don't hold back your feelings or anything - or use any tact, for that matter. In my opinion, it's no worse or better than any number of other fetishes that people have - including, but not limited to, ass play (even just rimming ... scat carries far more in the way of bacteria than menstrual flow), golden showers (more likely to have a uti than a vag inspection), etc. It's not my thing, as I don't like the vampire look (blood smeared on the face - which, with my flow, is definitely what would happen) - but I'm not against it either. I give a boy one warning that I'm ragging, and if he wishes to continue, I'm not going to argue.

MasterDoc1 -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/9/2006 6:37:26 PM)
Obviously this is a high risk activity in terms of transmission of viruses such as HIV, Hep B. Indeed depending on how much blood there is, I wonder whether this activity is LESS safe than unprotected vaginal intercourse from the males viewpoint given that female to male transmission of HIV during intercourse is relatively inefficient.In terms of it being somehow "dirty" or "unclean" there is NO rationale that makes it any LESS clean than any other blood. If a sub had posted how he got excited licking a cut his mistess had gotten we might think it a little wierd but I doubt we would hear "disgusting" to the same extent. I would argue that religious or cultural indocrination is the only reason why this inspires such an "ewww" reaction.

MasterDoc1 -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/9/2006 6:47:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetDommes In my opinion, it's no worse or better than any number of other fetishes that people have - including, but not limited to, ass play (even just rimming ... scat carries far more in the way of bacteria than menstrual flow), golden showers (more likely to have a uti than a vag inspection) Oh boy... u REALLY have to watch out for those "vaginal inspections". And FYI: urine is sterile unless infected whereas there are always some bacteria living in the vagina (kinda like there are on skin). However the NORMAL bacteria in the vagina, like the normal bacteria on the skin, are NOT likely to give an infection when in contact with a mouth or lips.

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/9/2006 7:09:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pixelslave If I were you, I'd want my sub to desire me as a woman any time I were with him whether during a cycle or not; just as a man, I'd want my Mistress to desire me as well. [:D] Being with a woman who isn't an enthusiastic partner that didn't have a strong desire to be with me on an emotional, mental and physical level would leave me feeling empty and unfilled. - pixel You make perfect sense to me as well. I realize that a lot of people dominate differently... Indeed love/lust/desire are not necessary in order for anyone to dominate anyone else; but for myself, the only way I enjoy wiitwd is with emotional/physical connection between me and mine. I am colder than a cold fish trying to relate to a guy on a purely physical level, no matter what he looks like or his social status. quote: UnvailedPurpose Hell I don't give a flying F*** about emotional attachment, if the woman is capable of submerging herself in the abyss of those raw raging passions fueling her own desire, driven by lustful longnig and learned enough to withstand every nerve ending in her body screaming for release, emotion attachment can wait until she can walk again. I know there are people who can do this, and be detached emotionally. However, it is safe to say that I am all about feelings evoked by connecting with another. I would prefer to play with battery operated toys any day than a man with whom I didn't have mutual emotional investment. quote: SweetDommes Well then ... don't hold back your feelings or anything - or use any tact, for that matter. I agree. [;)] M

Noah -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/9/2006 7:47:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UnvailedPurpose I do not understand the reasoning behind clumsy attempts to intellectualize acts or actions that bring us to a state of euphoric ecstasy or justifying the deprive ourselves of those raptures by cloaking them in the shroud of a menstrual cycle. Fair enough. Where do you stand on clumsy attempts to invalidate the interests and sentiments of others? As long as they are done with a minimum of punctuation, I mean.

Hercuckslave -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/9/2006 8:09:56 PM)
It was something that had always grossed me out. Something I had always counted as a "limit". When my relationship with Mistress moved to a collar, slavery, and my final consent to give up my limits to her, Mistress begain training me in that capacity. She is very easily arroused during that time (well, pretty much all the time), and expected to be served whenever SHE wanted to, not whenever I decided it was a "good time." Nearly 6 years into my collar, I have come to not only accept this, but have actually come to crave it, and look forward to that special time when I again can be her period slave (sorry if i squicked anyone out). M's m

Jeniluscious -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/9/2006 10:41:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: imtempting Stuff that. That is just disgusting. I feel like going to the bathroom and throwing up. Thats just made me speechless, and this is me with nothing to say... I would find nothing rewarding doing it. Just editing this and writing it makes me want to go have a 2 hour long shower even then i dont think the dirt will come off FABULOUS! This is the very reason I read these forums. makes notes

MyNameisMaam -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/10/2006 4:58:45 AM)
I am not crazy about oral during that time - but sex seems to be really great during that week. -M

MissyRane -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/10/2006 5:31:53 AM)
Personally I find it disgusting and I couldn't imagine sticking my tongue up in there eww nor would I want to have sex or be touched down there during that time it's just a definite no no! but then 80% of the time I'm sick the first few days or even the whole time so I can't count periods as a favorite in any way..guess that might effect my opinion.[8\|] what goes out goes out not in

LaTigresse -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/10/2006 12:10:25 PM)
I don't really have strong feelings either way to be honest.

SweetDommes -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/10/2006 3:24:07 PM)
quick reply change "vag inspections" to "vag infections" for those who aren't swift enough to make the change themselves [sm=rolleyes.gif]... I was tired - switching to night shift sucks. And for the record - I'm well aware that urine is sterile ... however, from past experience, UTIs are still more common than vaginal infections - and this is personal experience and experience as a nurse working in a clinic (with plenty of both ... work in a jail for awhile and you'll see EVERYTHING). And as you said, the normal flora and fauna that live in the female genitals are not likely to cause any kind of infection in/on the skin/lips/mouth. So, despite the fact that you mocked my relatively minor typo, and tried to make me look stupid - you suported my theory ... so thanks.

TexasMaam -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/11/2006 8:54:07 AM)
Crimson Wings! My first husband was a bit daft about 'Crimson Cleanup' play...only man I ever knew who absolutely craved it. Some men do, some men don't. For those of you disgusted at the very thought: go read a different post! Menopause will blissfully relieve a woman of the monthly horror anyway; having been down that road already, Crimson Wings are now a moot point with Me. There ARE some things about growing old gracefully that a woman can truly look forward to! I gleefully sold all of My stock in Johnson & Johnson and can now happily bypass the feminine mop up products anytime I shop...it's a wonderful freedom, just knowing I can drop My panties any moment the mood strikes without ever having to worry about that again! TexasMaam

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