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Daddysredhead -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/11/2006 8:58:00 AM)

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ORIGINAL: undergroundsea

Going down on a woman during the cycle is said to earn red wings


I just heard this expression a few weeks ago and I was totally grossed out by it.  But to each her own.




TexasMaam -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/11/2006 9:02:40 AM)

I always heard the term as 'Crimson Wings'.

Sounds weird to Me as 'red wings'.

lololol

TexasMaam




mnottertail -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/11/2006 9:09:44 AM)

The beatles did:

Take these crimson wings and learn to fly, all your life; you were only waiting for this moment to arrive.........

Whereas, SSG Barry Sadler did:
Put Red Wings,
on my son's chest,
make him one,
of America's best....


This could possibly be the source of all the confusion.

D. J. Fontana




pixelslave -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/14/2006 11:42:41 AM)

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ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

Sounds weird to Me as 'red wings'.



That's quite understandable to me TexasMaam.  Having lived in Michigan for a great number of years before moving to Texas, its probably because the Red Wings are also a well known professional hockey team in Detroit. [:D]

- pixel




zigg -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/15/2006 6:20:49 AM)

If you attach yourself to her clit and just lick that how much blood to you actually swallow. I wouldnt think very much.




MisPandora -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/15/2006 6:48:23 AM)

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ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

I always heard the term as 'Crimson Wings'.

Sounds weird to Me as 'red wings'.

lololol

TexasMaam

As funny as it may seem to you because you know them as shoes or a hockey team, I assure you that the outlaw biker clubs (Hells Angels, Warlocks, Banditos, Outlaws, Pagans) take their colors very seriously.  People have died over them......

OMCs were known for awarding patches for display on colors.  These patches might include 1%, 13, MC, DFFL, DILLIGAF, FTW, various wings, white fist, etc.

The red wings were earned for performing the act of cunnilingus on a menstruating woman IN THE PRESENCE of at least one other club brother.  These are "expert" marks.  Not many of the big four still issue these types of "badges" however, I've recently seen wings on a Warlock at a bar in my local area.

If folks want more information about outlaw MCs and their colors, you might check out http://www.segag.org/ (Southwestern Gang Activities Group.)  They have alot of typos on the site, but their motorcycle section is fairly accurate concerning the MCs and their current language.  And this site is old, but it's still got a fairly decent detail of the MC activity here on the east coast -- http://www.mafianj.com/mc/index.shtml




pixelslave -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/15/2006 6:49:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: zigg

If you attach yourself to her clit and just lick that how much blood to you actually swallow. I wouldnt think very much.


In my experience, you don't swallow much blood at all.  Depending on the woman, the amount of her flow, and your approach (from above as vs. from below) it may just appear on your face as though you're wearing a lot more of it.  Putting down a disposable depends makes things much tidier for easy clean-up afterward and to protect the bedding from stains as well. 

Remember its not just the blood, women *do* respond with their own natural juices that mix with their menstrual blood as well, making it appear to have more volume.  As to attaching yourself to her clit and just licking, perhaps you might want to think about adding a bit more variety in your reportoire of techniques, according to what your mistress prefers. [;)] 

- pixel




mons -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/16/2006 2:25:34 AM)

greetings
 
the sight of blood is something i do not care for even my own so this would not be something i would want done at that time of month i may fiant at the sight of him coming up cover in blood no not for me at all
 
mons




LadyKmtl -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/16/2006 9:33:11 PM)

Like many here, I think that everyone should play the way they want to play...To me, I find that since I'm usually extremely excitable while I'm menstruating. I'll have a sub eat me if that's what I'm craving, but otherwise, I may just ask him to simply fuck me or fist me...There are so many options out there, how can a Gal chose just one?




mons -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/17/2006 2:50:10 AM)

no




Nikolette -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (11/17/2006 6:34:40 AM)

I have allowed this to happen whenever it came up. Its not usually a big bloody issue for me, and since I prefer clit stimulation the menses aren't really involved. But its not like I go out of my way to do it, or avoid it. Its more like if it happens it happens.

I have involved it in blood play on purpose though. That is a long story.

And I dated a more vanilla guy ages ago who had a HUGE fetish for it. I mean huge. He loved it. And him getting off on it so much got me off on it, but that was pretty situational.

I've never had any taboos about it, or any weirdness in general. When I was little I asked obvious questions to my mother and she gave me obvious and open answers in response. Maybe it helped having a mom with a few degrees in science who went to med school and had one in biology? I just never learned that the body is "gross" or that body related subjects are "gross".




goodmanners -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/2/2007 9:10:40 AM)

The comment about the similarity between a tampon's string and a teabag's brings back the memory of an experience I had in Germany in the '80's. I was serving tea to my Mistress and a female guest. She asked me to fetch a third cup, empty, and excused herself for a moment. When she returned she handed me the cup with a very used tampon and told me to fill it with the boiling water. She told her friend that she likes to occasionally serve 'red tea' to deserving slaves! I appreciated the compliment, and found the 'tea' very refreshing.
gm




cjenny -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/2/2007 9:28:19 AM)

As a concept I have no problems with it. As a reality it is a no-go however. During my period I am sick, miserable, crampy etc etc & the thought of any sex is a huge turn off. Chocolate & a heating pad are the things I really want!
I think if I had lighter periods it wouldn't matter as much & I see no taboo with red wing play.

Just the opinion of a female that isn't Domme :)




subfever -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/2/2007 6:35:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: goodmanners

The comment about the similarity between a tampon's string and a teabag's brings back the memory of an experience I had in Germany in the '80's. I was serving tea to my Mistress and a female guest. She asked me to fetch a third cup, empty, and excused herself for a moment. When she returned she handed me the cup with a very used tampon and told me to fill it with the boiling water. She told her friend that she likes to occasionally serve 'red tea' to deserving slaves! I appreciated the compliment, and found the 'tea' very refreshing.
gm


Sort of reminds me of the old Q & A chuckle:

Q: What good are used tampons?

A: Teabags for vampires.

Okay... sorry for the hi-jack. Couldn't resist.

Now back to our regularly scheduled program...




jthorne -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/2/2007 6:58:51 PM)

When I did menstruate (on Depo-Provera and have been since 2002) my partner at the time really did not care either way. I was slightly squicked about it, but found once he got me going I didn't want to stop. Had more stamina and was much more horny while on my period. We just laid a towel down and got on with it. I believe his only response regarding it, ever, was the first time. He just fingered me, and when I'd finally gotten exhausted, he examined his hand and said "Cool! I look like I've been in a war!" then went to wash up and get me a wet towel.

I think, personally, that I'd want to use protection if I were performing oral on a menstruating woman. Just because, while I don't think period blood is ewwickygross, I don't really want to end up swallowing it, you know?




devoT -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/2/2007 7:46:06 PM)

One (of many) reason I got into this scene in the first place is because of my interest in ummm... 'unorthodox' religious practices. It is a feature in sexual magick of most kinds for male and female sexual fluids to be mingled, and the combined fluid to be ingested by one or (preferably) both parties. It's a major feature in Tantric sex, for example (real Tantric sex, as practised by South Asian Tantrics, not the kind that ends up in your local bookstore). In most of these traditions, a woman on her period is regarded as being the most powerful she can possibly be (which is probably the original reason patriarchal cultures segregated her, not because they they regarded her as unclean, but because they feared her power). In magickal terms then, it makes much more sense to combine and ingest the fluids of a menstruating woman than at any other time. My Mistress and I have done this many times, and it's really no big deal. In fact, as I write, we currently have a small sample in our freezer for use when she's not on her period LOL.

As a previous poster (sorry, can't remember the name without going back a couple of pages) recommended, I too heartily recommend Penelope Shuttle and Peter Redgrove's book "The Wise Wound". It's THE definitive book on menstruation and all its symbolic associations.




Vendaval -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/3/2007 3:57:56 AM)

This activity is not my personal preference. 
I would rather have a nice warm bath,
herbal tea and a full body massage with
relfexology on the feet to relieve the cramps.
 
Once my cycle is over, oral sex and intercourse
take top priority. 
 
YMMV,
 
Vendaval




TigressOfDs -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/3/2007 4:15:01 AM)

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ORIGINAL: I5corridor

My question is, Do most dominant or domme women enjoy it when their sub male pleases them orally during their period? It seems to me that if a woman wants to be pleased that way at that time then it shouldn't change a thing except perhaps a towell on the surface. I know many will be revolted by this but I'd love to hear a bit about it especially anyone with personal experience. Thanks. 


If it harms none do as thy will ...
proceed with caution and a lot of knowledge about your partner (as others have probably posted already)  because this IS an act that could potentially Harm !!

Ms.Kat
Listen carefully to what is said,take what you need,then blow the rest away with a breath of kindness. But always watch what they do, for in action there is always a clue. kd2003




MissyRane -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/3/2007 4:54:09 AM)

Why do I always read these menstruation posts just after I ate or while I'm eating dammit![:'(][:'(][:'(][:'(][:'(]




BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/3/2007 12:16:46 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MissyRane
Why do I always read these menstruation posts just after I ate or while I'm eating dammit![:'(][:'(][:'(][:'(][:'(]
Oh Missy how can something that makes you a wonderful vehicle for procreation turn your stomach.
I agree with what DevoT wrote above that a woman on her period is a wonderful and powerful thing, so why continue with the ugly/bad period teaching?    M




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