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MissyRane -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/3/2007 2:14:35 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig
Oh Missy how can something that makes you a wonderful vehicle for procreation turn your stomach.


How on earth can you make it sound this beautiful ..or..nice..or.. not sure what word to use[8|]   ..it's gotta be because my name is in the sentence..it's gotta be...I refuse to think otherwise[&:]

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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig
I agree with what DevoT wrote above that a woman on her period is a wonderful and powerful thing, so why continue with the ugly/bad period teaching?    M


I swear if I were to serve someone orally down there on their period..I'd start throwing up as soon as they pulled off their pants =| I guess I'm just prude[X(][:)]
These times make me feel the most disgusting bad feeling person on earth in general lol and it happens once a month gosh [:D] I can kiss the person sure but do they dare approaching my center ..I think not




slavekal -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/3/2007 6:55:29 PM)

I perform this at that time of the month.  I am a little squeamish about it, I admit, but not so much that I will not do it.  To me, submission means getting out of my comfort zone, whenever possible, for Mistress' pleasure.  It it's not on my hard limit list, I will do it.




DiamondDiva -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/3/2007 7:10:06 PM)

I am all for the beautifulness of the body but sex during a menstrual cycle is disgusting to me so oral sex is just out of the question.




bandit25 -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/3/2007 7:13:17 PM)

It's funny how strong the opinions are on this particular topic.  I've always found that it helped cramps...sex that is, oral or otherwise.




cris1 -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/3/2007 7:25:57 PM)

for those who indulge in vampirisim, the cycle is the best time of the month to have sex, especially oral. As long as the blood is fresh and the person is clean, there is nothing wrong with it. I, for one, get especially horny during my cycle and love that there are men out there who are actually turned on by my cycle, seems a match made in heaven to me.




akbarbarian -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/3/2007 7:31:17 PM)

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ORIGINAL: bandit25

It's funny how strong the opinions are on this particular topic.  I've always found that it helped cramps...sex that is, oral or otherwise.

Really?  I've done oral during a period, no problem about it.  As far as helping cramps though, it always seemed like good hard g-spot orgams are what make a difference.  It's like all those cramps are really saying is give me a hard, deep massage from the inside until I'm all cummed out and relaxed.  It seems like a cultural taboo because otherwise sex during the period is good.  Anyway, what man in his right mind would want to give up sex for that much of the month?  I have needs!




DominaSmartass -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/3/2007 9:17:05 PM)

I have pretty light periods (damn cystic ovaries...) and I feel pretty clean if I take a shower and wash thoroughly. I also find that am most horny the week before my period and during it but lose sexual interest for a few days directly after it. I've rationalized this as a biological function (damn body trying to get me pregnant when I'm most fertile.) Anyway, since my boy is completely squicked out by the bloody mess, we haven't explored this since that one time I could have sworn I was done with it and he pulled out some bloody fingers...(talk about TMI!!) I don't want to traumatize him just yet. But in general, I don't see a problem with it assuming you can shower directly before and do it during a time when the blood is not really flowing.




BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/3/2007 11:14:55 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MissyRane
How on earth can you make it sound this beautiful ..or..nice..or.. not sure what word to use[8|]   ..it's gotta be because my name is in the sentence..it's gotta be...I refuse to think otherwise[&:]
Girl, you just don't know what you're missing... [8D]   It is beautiful...  It's a part of you or the person you love, and it is part of what makes women unique...
Besides, haven't you heard that sex is only dirty if it's done right?!    M




pixelslave -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/4/2007 9:26:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

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ORIGINAL: MissyRane
How on earth can you make it sound this beautiful ..or..nice..or.. not sure what word to use[8|]   ..it's gotta be because my name is in the sentence..it's gotta be...I refuse to think otherwise[&:]
Girl, you just don't know what you're missing... [8D]   It is beautiful...  It's a part of you or the person you love, and it is part of what makes women unique...
Besides, haven't you heard that sex is only dirty if it's done right?!    M


To me it is also about a woman learning to accept, appreciate & love all that nature gave her that is part of who she is as a woman.  Once she has done that, I can then be free to love her unconditionally, appreciating everything about her, including learning to love and accept the things that might annoy me about her as well. [;)] 
 
There is nothing quite as intimate for me as sharing the experience of perfectly natural things that are unique to a woman and her body.  It is incredibly exciting and satisfying for me to be with a woman who has no hang-ups about her body or its natural functions; allowing me to appreciate everything about her that makes her a woman and share the most intimate experiences imaginable related to those things with her in countless pleasurable and creative ways. [8D]  I just can't begin to tell you how deeply that pushes my buttons and how much I hope it does the same for the woman I eventually wind up sharing my life with when the right one comes along.
 
 - pixel




lleslie7 -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/5/2007 8:57:21 AM)

I love it during my period--intercourse or oral--because it  not only helps ease cramping but turns me on, the sheer idea of it, of someone licking me during this very womanly time. I guess I've recognized that this is when I crave sex the most, so I certainly want to get as much as possible!




deeddlit -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/7/2007 2:59:43 PM)

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ORIGINAL: pixelslave
TammyJo,
I tend to share your subs views on taking care of his Mistress and particulary that what comes from my Mistress has to be okay and must be beautiful.  I find it sad that so many women have been raised with such negative views about their bodies and the natural functions of inherent only to females.  Too many often feel dirty, unclean and ashamed of their bodies for a huge variety of reasons varying from religious teachings , taboos, control issues as well as plain and simple misinformation and lack of education going back to the dark ages.[:o]

I'm not certain that your views on tampons are medically correct, having been with a former Mistress who could easily saturate one.  There was always a certain amount of menstrual blood present following insertion of a fresh one as well. 

I used to frequently provide service by washing her with warm water applied with a squeeze bottle which she found quite refreshing when either changing pads or tampons, the former of which I'd normally be responsible for removing from her panties and applying a fresh one in its place.  It was an intimate service that I personally found rewarding in that it often brought us closer at an ucomfortable and awkward time of the month for her.  I regularly used reflexology and massage to provide additional relief for her.  You might say she'd had somewhat of a similar upbringing to yours in regard to the views which were impressed upon her by her mother with respect to her body and sexuality; in particular, the purposes behind what I view as the perfectly natural functions that normally occur in the female body. 


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He has this great difficulty in accepting my "no" when it relates to me continuing to feel pain or be hurt -- we agree that his duty as my slave is to care for me even when I'm too stupid to realize I'm doing somthing to hurt myself. So he just keeps making his logical arguments until I'm convinced.

Now I love it.


I happy to hear that your sub has your best interests at heart and cares about you enough to help you overcome your upbringing along with helping you discover the added benefits of ways to relieve your monthly symptoms as not to forget helping you become open to exploring other aspects of your sensualty. [:)]  I'm especially glad that you didn't view this as him "topping from the bottom", when it appears that this was not the case. [;)]

- pixel



All I have to say is...Lucky is the Mistress whom holds the key to your shackels!!





lunamor -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/8/2007 3:47:55 AM)

"The red wings were earned for performing the act of cunnilingus on a menstruating woman IN THE PRESENCE of at least one other club brother. "

Proof that the candidate was strong enough to engage in something considered (by the brothers) as DISGUSTING.

Not too flattering when you think about it.

Lunamor




LadyIce -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/8/2007 3:55:05 AM)

Maybe this is an act of total devotion.




tamponpig -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/10/2007 7:16:07 AM)

as a sub i enjoy pleasing my mistress at th at time




canupleaseme -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/10/2007 7:48:07 AM)

[&:] ive been reading this post since it started and tbh i dont know where i stand with it !!
I dont like blood play its not my thing, i wouldnt want thim to do it for me to push his limits.  And i think tbh i would feel a bit uncomfortable about the mess afterwards but only becasue i would be embaressed.  I have a lot of vanilla friends who alwasy indudlge in full sexual activity when they have their period and ive alwasy been a bit eurgh.  Having said that if i have ever been with someone i trust sand i really am horny or have bad cramps and i am very light with my flow i havent said no to intercourse or a clitorally induced orgasm becasue it does work wonders.  But the thought of having someone please me orally during a heavy period just doesnt appeal.  I prefer a nice warm bath and a nice massage to my back and tummy. But then  if you like it then go for it I say [:)]




tamponpig -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/10/2007 7:54:16 AM)

it will please you to no end




tamponpig -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/10/2007 3:59:59 PM)

being a sub ithink the domme should make her sub do all the time




PsyVamp -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/10/2007 4:18:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

Very much not my thing.  I am completly disniterested in sex during that time of month, anyway, though.

DV

It is also "not my thing" mainly because of the hereditary heavy bleeding that I endure.  I am, however, still very interested in sex no matter what day of the month it is and just find ways around it. 
Mistress Psy




tamponpig -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/10/2007 5:29:48 PM)

 as a sub that enjoys it i say that they do the same job as a pad or tampon does and it give you more pleasure




pixelslave -> RE: Oral Sex During Menstruation (1/10/2007 10:59:46 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PsyVamp

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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

Very much not my thing.  I am completly disniterested in sex during that time of month, anyway, though.

DV

It is also "not my thing" mainly because of the hereditary heavy bleeding that I endure.  I am, however, still very interested in sex no matter what day of the month it is and just find ways around it. 
Mistress Psy


Regardless of how heavy your flow is, some women I've been with have simply inserted tampons and washed themselves up before they indulge themselves in some oral stimulation from their partners without having much of a mess to view after their pleasure is over.  You'll also find that certain techniques for massage and using reflexology on the ankles above the feet can reduce the symptoms from menstruation and greatly improve how things might feel for you at that particular time of the month. [:)]
 
 - pixel




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