RE: Mens Nipple play

Join Our Community

Collarchat.com

Home Login Search

RE: Mens Nipple play

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: Mens Nipple play

Page: << < prev 1 [2] 3 4 5 next > >>

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: Mens Nipple play - 11/12/2006 1:20:15 PM

drflox

Posts: 3
Joined: 8/26/2004
Status: offline

male nipple play for a large percentage of men is the frosting on the cake of BDSM... thats if thier nipples are wired - there is a percentage of men who have nipples taht are not sensative to anything which is terrible.
DrFlox

(in reply to DommeChains)

Profile

Post #: 21

RE: Mens Nipple play - 11/12/2006 5:11:49 PM

AlexAussieSub

Posts: 70
Joined: 10/13/2006
Status: offline

Even though I'm into some "edgey" things like electro play it's just never seemed very "Domme-like" to target a sensitive area to cause pain, for this reason nipple play and CBT are both absolute turn-offs. Kind of like how if two guys are fighting and one smacks the other in the nuts you wouldn't call him a good fighter.

(in reply to Dnomyar)

Profile

Post #: 22

RE: Mens Nipple play - 11/12/2006 11:55:04 PM

BlkTallFullfig

Posts: 5585
Joined: 6/25/2004
Status: offline

I love to play with nipples, but my experience has been more men hate it. My favorite lover/toy loved it. I love mine played with, but NEVER in a painful way, so the radio dial thing is out with me.

M

_____________________________

a.k.a. SexyBossyBBW
""Touching was, and still is, and will always be, the true revolution" Nikki Giovanni

(in reply to Dnomyar)

Profile

Post #: 23

RE: Mens Nipple play - 11/13/2006 11:21:25 AM

zumala

Posts: 1121
Joined: 6/16/2005
Status: offline

I don't know about other guys, but I found out that Pup absolutely loves to have his nipples played with. Makes it easy for me to keep him pleased on days when my jaw is giving me trouble.

zuma

(in reply to BlkTallFullfig)

Profile

Post #: 24

RE: Mens Nipple play - 4/7/2007 11:43:21 AM

solvr70

Posts: 425
Joined: 8/8/2005
Status: offline

i still remember the first time a gf sucked on my nipples, then started little nibbles on one, while pinching the other....omg it just about put me over the edge without touching me anywhere else!

years passed, then i had my first exposure to nipple clamps in a turn-about is fair play kind of way with a gf that loved them. i've been hooked ever since

(in reply to Dnomyar)

Profile

Post #: 25

RE: Mens Nipple play - 4/7/2007 2:14:11 PM

arayofsunshine55

Posts: 545
Joined: 8/1/2004
From: San Francisco, CA
Status: offline

Daddy loves it. And my desire it to have a malesub whose nipples are overly sensitive from continual play and torture. Who moans sweetly in my ear from just sucking on them. I LOVE nipples -- girls or boys.

_____________________________

Sunshine

Is it not most transformative, most earthshaking, to pierce the veils of self-deception and illusion, and crack the eggshell of ignorance, to most intimately encounter oneself? Lama Surya Das

(in reply to solvr70)

Profile

Post #: 26

RE: Mens Nipple play - 4/7/2007 2:27:13 PM

SlaveBlutarsky

Posts: 491
Joined: 10/10/2005
From: Upstate, NY
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: arayofsunshine55

Daddy loves it. And my desire it to have a malesub whose nipples are overly sensitive from continual play and torture. Who moans sweetly in my ear from just sucking on them. I LOVE nipples -- girls or boys.

I'll be right over.

Basically my nipples are an on switch to my submission. Just a gentle pinch or tug will completely clear my mind and start me in my descent into subspace.

_____________________________

Strong for all, weak for one

(in reply to arayofsunshine55)

Profile

Post #: 27

RE: Mens Nipple play - 4/7/2007 2:54:48 PM

pinksugarsub

Posts: 1224
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Some men me included like to have their nipples played with. I know some men and women who are turned off by the ideal. What's your feed back on it.

My lovers have run the gamut on this. i know a Dom who had His nipples pierced to heighten sensation when they are touched. i also know Men who have completely squorked out when i have tried to touch T/their nipples.

Myself, i love sucking, biting, fingering, etc. my Man's nipples but will not insist.

pinksugarsub

_____________________________

(in reply to Dnomyar)

Profile

Post #: 28

RE: Mens Nipple play - 4/7/2007 3:01:58 PM

TexasMaam

Posts: 1467
Joined: 6/22/2005
Status: offline

Up front and personal?

I cannot refrain from playing with, torturing, sucking, teasing a man's nipples.

It is a drive that I am unable to suppress when I am with a man I care about.

While I can be, and often am, sensually gentle with any pair of mantitties, My nature is to tweak and torture them first, suckle them later.

I pity the poor man who DOESN'T crave nipple play if he plans on being with Me for the long run.

TexasMaam

_____________________________

~ My opinions are not necessarily those of the management... ~

(in reply to Dnomyar)

Profile

Post #: 29

RE: Mens Nipple play - 4/7/2007 3:03:02 PM

TexasMaam

Posts: 1467
Joined: 6/22/2005
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: SlaveBlutarsky

quote:

ORIGINAL: arayofsunshine55

Daddy loves it. And my desire it to have a malesub whose nipples are overly sensitive from continual play and torture. Who moans sweetly in my ear from just sucking on them. I LOVE nipples -- girls or boys.

I'll be right over.

Basically my nipples are an on switch to my submission. Just a gentle pinch or tug will completely clear my mind and start me in my descent into subspace.

slave blutarsky, you are a treasure among men!
; )

TM

_____________________________

~ My opinions are not necessarily those of the management... ~

(in reply to SlaveBlutarsky)

Profile

Post #: 30

RE: Mens Nipple play - 4/7/2007 3:03:08 PM

farmlandsub

Posts: 35
Joined: 1/6/2007
Status: offline

i love to have my nipples played with, the harder the better.

Maam and i are discussing the possibly of having them pierced.

(in reply to Dnomyar)

Profile

Post #: 31

RE: Mens Nipple play - 4/7/2007 3:03:14 PM

MsBearlee

Posts: 1032
Joined: 2/15/2006
Status: offline

Okay then... what about MY pleasure with men's nipples? I am soo oral...gawd, I'm so amazed I don't suck my thumb!

I LOVE to mouth and tongue and gently bite a man's nipples between teeth and tongue! I find that soooooo yummie. If they don't respond to that kinda stimuation...I'm sorely dissappointed.

<sigh>
MsB

(in reply to SlaveBlutarsky)

Profile

Post #: 32

RE: Mens Nipple play - 4/7/2007 3:04:24 PM

TexasMaam

Posts: 1467
Joined: 6/22/2005
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: farmlandsub

i love to have my nipples played with, the harder the better.

Maam and i are discussing the possibly of having them pierced.

Woo Hoo! I can't wait! TM

_____________________________

~ My opinions are not necessarily those of the management... ~

(in reply to farmlandsub)

Profile

Post #: 33

RE: Mens Nipple play - 4/7/2007 3:16:29 PM

SlaveBlutarsky

Posts: 491
Joined: 10/10/2005
From: Upstate, NY
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

slave blutarsky, you are a treasure among men!
; )

TM

Oh stop, you're going too make my nipples blush.

_____________________________

Strong for all, weak for one

(in reply to TexasMaam)

Profile

Post #: 34

RE: Mens Nipple play - 4/7/2007 3:58:41 PM

paulthesub

Posts: 59
Joined: 2/9/2007
From: Calgary
Status: offline

I love it.

Fingernails, clothespins, clamps, foreceps, teeth, needles, you name it and it puts me on my knees and a smile on my face.

_____________________________

Don't drink from the mainstream

(in reply to SlaveBlutarsky)

Profile

Post #: 35

RE: Mens Nipple play - 4/7/2007 7:56:47 PM

talltxsub

Posts: 173
Joined: 11/10/2005
Status: offline

I have often wondered why this did not appeal to more women. Mine are so sensitive that the assumption that it felt the same to a woman would mean that any touching would just drive her wild. It is impossible to think of anything other than the sensation when they are being touched or sucked.

quote:

ORIGINAL: DommeChains

I can't tell you the number of men I have converted to the joys of nipple play.....whether in a vanilla context or a kink one. It's all of matter of persistance. And, with enough play and stimulation, the nipples will grow larger which in turn makes them more sensitive and easier to do certain wicked things with <WEG>

(in reply to DommeChains)

Profile

Post #: 36

RE: Mens Nipple play - 4/7/2007 9:27:09 PM

WhiplashSmile

Posts: 1472
Joined: 6/8/2004
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: KeirasSecret

Sir enjoys having his nipples played with very much. my only problems with it is...

1. i have very little experience with it so im not sure what he means when he says "Put some passion in it"
2. he usually has me doing two other things at the same time and i tend to lose track of what im suposed to be doing to his nipples. (never was good at the rubbing my head and patting my tummy thing)
3. when it comes to biting them, they'er so tiny it is hard for me to get a hold on them and judging how hard is too hard (too hard gets me punished)

i can only imagine the expression on my face when he told me to play with his the way he plays with mine

k

Sounds like your Sir and I have a lot in common... it will take a little time and practice for you to get the feel for it though. Just don't be fearful of your lack of experience.

Take his nipple betwen your index finger and thumb.. gently squeeze or pinch.. small tug and release motion. Double check with him. i.e. Do you wish for me to do that harder Sir? Hopefully your Master permits you to ask questions such as these. Because it's important to get feedback from him, if he punishes you for being too hard. Generally I enjoy this as part of body worship, I don't know about your Sir though. I know, I love to feel my stomach and chest being caresses and kissed along with nipple play and oral service.

I'm a bit of a Masochist, if a submissive pinches too hard for my liking.. I am very Quick to express it. I'm really vocal when it comes to telling one what I want done, How it's making me feel, and what to do next. Some Doms are not so vocal, so you may have to feel it out by asking questions. I know one thing, I myself have never punished one for lack of experience that was trying hard to please me. The last thing I want is for her to become fearful of messing up and facing punishment.

If you are having issues, you could simply express to your master that you are fearful from your lack of experience and fearful of unintentionally fucking up and getting punished for it.

When your Master requests for you to do the same thing he does with you, he might not realize this includes the same kind of pain you feel from his own play! LOL... I suspect this is in part what is getting you into hot water with him and confusing the living hell out of you. Perhaps you yourself have a higher tolerence for pain compared to him as well. These are all things to take into consideration.

(in reply to KeirasSecret)

Profile

Post #: 37

RE: Mens Nipple play - 4/7/2007 9:34:34 PM

WhiplashSmile

Posts: 1472
Joined: 6/8/2004
Status: offline

I love having my nipples played with at times. Hell, I have managed to get a few strippers to do this for me when having a private dance! While they might not be able to touch certain other parts of my body legally... my nipples are not illegal limits!

The last time this was happened, I actually had a stripper/dancer down in a body worship position, caressing my chest.. playing with my nipples.. and feeling her hands rub up and down the inside of my legs. I was giving out commands.. telling her what I wanted.. Wow.. that was my private dance!

She commented upon how different it was, and that she never had anybody request this of her before. Oh.. nothing like corrupting an innocent soul with a little BDSM body worship... Yes, she was down on her knees even. Just had to keep everything sane and legal though.

< Message edited by WhiplashSmile -- 4/7/2007 9:35:38 PM >

(in reply to drflox)

Profile

Post #: 38

RE: Mens Nipple play - 4/8/2007 11:17:39 AM

malloves69

Posts: 913
Joined: 9/15/2006
Status: offline

boy do i have some sensitive nipples ...and yes my mistress knows this ...smile probable the 3rd most sensitive part of my body ....first is my cock ....2nd is my ass and 3rd is my nipples ...and she loves playing with all of them ..smile when she plays with my nipples sometimes this drives me crazy ..ok most of the time --lol ..and she loves doing it to me to see how well my cock responds to her playing with my nipples ..smile ...usually gets me hard as a rock as she loves that ...love a lady in control ..smile ...have fun mal

(in reply to WhiplashSmile)

Profile

Post #: 39

RE: Mens Nipple play - 4/8/2007 11:35:56 AM

littlesarbonn

Posts: 1710
Joined: 12/3/2005
From: Stockton, California
Status: offline

Nipple play does absolutely NOTHING for me. What used to cause me to wonder constantly was that every time I played with someone and stated that "nipple play does absolutely nothing for me, and can sometimes even make me feel less submissive" they ALWAYS attempt nipple play, as if by stating it does nothing for me, I'm unconsciously trying to cause nipple play to happen.

_____________________________

<---- FYI, this picture looks JUST like me

http://www.littlesarbonn.com/Stickman/Stickman.htm
The Adventures of Stickman and the Unemployed Lego Spaceman

(in reply to Dnomyar)

Profile

Post #: 40