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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

I train them for my pleasure not theirs.


Diane

medical intervention.

feeling as though he has been raped, that damages him emotionally

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ORIGINAL: pixelslave
And that's the problem I personally have with your approach.  My concern is that it could be emotionally and physically damaging to an inexperienced sub.  Granted, some people like "rough sex", but any tearing of the of the sphincter, rectum or the colon has severe consequences for a sub that would require medical intervention.   If a sub is left feeling as though he has been raped, that damages him emotionally which could have other long term affects as well which could take years to recover from.  Its my opinion that your approach is what I'd refer to as "edge play" and could have serious consequences for the sub.

A sub who has been damaged in such a manner is not likely to be coming back for more of your kind of play.  Instead, it will most likely become a hard limit for him in the future.   What he could potentially enjoy as part of his normal sexuality that is inherent as a natural pleasure center in his body once his mind has been opened to it, is fragile and could easily be destroyed , which I personally think would be a shame.
- pixel

 Very well done Pixel.    While I don't consider myself an extreme player by any stretch of the imagination, and am a subscriber to the school of risk aware consensual kink, I am a little disturbed by the assertion that everyone can be trained to do a mega dildo in such a short time...  The idea I'm sure will sound massively appealing to the boys who seek forced strap on play/rape play, but I hope all of them read and heed your advice as it might save their lives one day.     M

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ORIGINAL: CuteIrishM4F

Diane B269,
pLEASE TELL ME yOU ARE KIDDING!!!
[My new strapon is only 11" long and 6.5" around]

A.

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ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion

Now, you can not apply things like painfull sex isn't enjoyable to ALL females. You nor she  can not possibly know wha every single female in the whole wide world would like.

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ORIGINAL: ElginSub

Ms. Diane,
i don't  doubt that  9 inches on day two could be done, but i would still say that  there would be pain.    My mother in law started training me with small strap ons and used butt plugs to train me.  i may be able to accept a large  dildo but as she explained to me that it was not about pain to me.  This was about learning to totally submit myself to her and my wife, a process that she took her time with.  The first few times she also used a process  of using a warm  water enema to partially fill me before enetring me.  The warm water sloshing was quite a feeling and  made it easier on me.  I have  not seen that process talked about in training before.  But she has used it for  years.  She has trained me so that my wife can now use the strap on now.  

My favorite and hers is a 7 inch  jelly or  semi hard.   I would not find pleasure in being stretched or pounded hard.  

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ORIGINAL: fender2398



Ms. Diane,
i don't  doubt that  9 inches on day two could be done, but i would still say that  there would be pain.    My mother in law started training me with small strap ons and used butt plugs to train me.  i may be able to accept a large  dildo but as she explained to me that it was not about pain to me.  This was about learning to totally submit myself to her and my wife, a process that she took her time with.  The first few times she also used a process  of using a warm  water enema to partially fill me before entering me.  The warm water sloshing was quite a feeling and  made it easier on me.  I have  not seen that process talked about in training before.  But she has used it for  years.  She has trained me so that my wife can now use the strap on now.  

My favorite and hers is a 7 inch  jelly or  semi hard.   I would not find pleasure in being stretched or pounded hard.  

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ORIGINAL: Nick19WV

I have a question for any of you Mistress's. I have good experience with strapon's for five months, but my question is. Is it possible for a guy to get double penetration by two Mistress's with two strapon's?