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zzzstinky -> 24 Hours of "real" slavery... (11/23/2006 5:15:02 PM)
Hi all, As always i appreciate any thoughts or suggestions anyone has to offer.... While talking with my Domme/Owner last week we started down to chat about full 24/7 and saw the excitement, but we also I believe noticed some of the real difficulties. I guess what I was wondering, is have any of the Dommes had a "slave" for a full 24 hours... and if so what did you do? What would that dynamic look like? I'm sure the answers could be varied, however I would appreciate any insight. I think, that my Domme is worried about keeping me busy... Thanks again, robby. PS Happy holiday's :)

gooddogbenji -> RE: 24 Hours of "real" slavery... (11/23/2006 5:36:31 PM)
I think you might find a number of people on here who have had/been slaves for 24 hours, days, months, hell, I can think of one who's been for at least 24 years, unless I am mistaken. I would imagine that a game of 24 hours would be very different from 24/7. 24/7 would really not be much different than what you have now - She says, you obey, then you both wander off and do your own thing, she wants a glass of water, you put down your book and get it, go back to reading, watch a movie together, except you're at her feet, etc.... Life goes on, even if you're a slave. Yours, benji PS: Having said all of this, I would like to say that I am not now, and have never been, a member of... I mean, a slave.

thetammyjo -> RE: 24 Hours of "real" slavery... (11/23/2006 5:52:48 PM)
That's pretty much it, gooddogbenji. Fox has been my slave, 24/7, live-in now for over 5 years -- for two years before that he was in training or he lived elsewhere most of the year. I'm going to say some things that I want to make perfectly clear are my opinions on this matter. Anyone who wants to be a "slave" 24/7 and wants every movement, every action, everything controlled and their life ordered constantly is not being a slave. In those cases it is the dominant that has become the slave because she must constantly be monitoring, guiding, punishing, etc, basically giving up her life to run that fantasy for another person. An owner is served and they use the person who has entrusted himself as her slave as she wants and needs. You, the slave, don't have something to do right this minute? Get over it! Your owner has a life she's trying to lead. Figure out something to do until you are needed. Better yet, look at her life and see what you can do for her to make it better and easier without being ordered or dictated to. Now to the OP: If you both want to play at the slave-owner thing for 24 hours you can do it two ways. The first is the fantasy -- get some chains and wear them, she can make a list of things to do and check on you every half an hour or so, basically stay on top of you. The second is a taste of the reason deal of 24/7 -- come in, put on your collar or whatever ritual you have, and then just live together. When she says "do this" do it. Bring a book with you for those times you aren't needed or be proactive in doing some times around the house. Go to the grocery store together and just enjoy the subtly of being in that heirarchy you'd set up. Go to the movie she wants, make sure you do what she wants, just try and focus on her for that 24 hour period. I think a lot of being a 24/7 slave is really just being comfortable with the fact that someone else has the authority and is at the center of your life. It isn't giving up everything, it isn't having no will or no mind or action of your own. It's putting the other person first in everything you do and obeying best you are able and with a smile even if you hate the task. That's how it works for us quite successfully.

slavejali -> RE: 24 Hours of "real" slavery... (11/23/2006 6:40:11 PM)
quote: I think a lot of being a 24/7 slave is really just being comfortable with the fact that someone else has the authority and is at the center of your life. It isn't giving up everything, it isn't having no will or no mind or action of your own. It's putting the other person first in everything you do and obeying best you are able and with a smile even if you hate the task. Well said.

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