SamKeithsslave
Posts: 322
Joined: 11/7/2006 From: Melbourne, Australia Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Ceru hello... i'm lost on this one. how do i find a dom? i don't know anyone in person who's into the lifestyle, & i don't know where to find people who are, either. this is my 2nd time starting up a profile on this site [i got nervous & deleted the 1st one]... i love talking to people online, but so far it hasn't turned up anything that might materialize for me, & i'm feeling a little impatient. i currently am in oakland ~ are there any clubs/bars/whatever that anyone really likes or recommends? someplace a girl won't feel too awkward showing up alone to? Well I am sure if you hang around this time you will get to meet many contacts etc If you are nervous etc then take it slowly, although I can understand your impatience I'm not sure a BDSM club or bar would be the right way to go if you are new, alone and nervous, though there may be someone here who is in your area who might be able to help out there. If you love chatting online then I'd stick with what I love and know. Make sure your profile here is complete and write about yourself in your journal section etc You are bound to catch the eye of people and they hopefully will initiate which will help, especially if you are still harbouring any nerves etc Building a relationship online may or may not be your cuppa tea, but it can be a good way to meet people whom you might then wish to meet face to face. Whatever you choose to do, good luck with it and I hope you stick around this time
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