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new to this bare with me - 12/1/2006 12:27:00 PM

tml721

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I'm43 ,never married, no kids. I've posted a photo. I'm not sure why its showing up.I'm 5' 9" tall and 190 lbs.I live in Dayton, Ohio.

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RE: new to this bare with me - 12/1/2006 1:36:46 PM

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Photos are approved by different folks than the profilers. It will either show, or it was rejected (and they don't give you a reason why)
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RE: new to this bare with me - 12/1/2006 3:03:53 PM

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Hello and welcome. I hope you enjoy your time here.

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RE: new to this bare with me - 12/1/2006 4:00:36 PM

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nice panites

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RE: new to this bare with me - 12/1/2006 10:14:51 PM

tml721

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THANKS!!! If I see more phpotos like your's I KNOW I'll enjoy my stay!!! hehehhehehehee

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RE: new to this bare with me - 12/12/2006 8:43:52 AM

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I still can't figure what I'm doing wrong and why I can't get a photo posted.None of my photos are provocative so I don't see why y they don't post.

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RE: new to this bare with me - 12/12/2006 8:59:38 AM

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Welcome to Collarme...I hope you enjoy your stay here, wonderful place to make new friendships

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RE: new to this bare with me - 12/12/2006 12:58:15 PM

tml721

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Interesting you should use that verse.

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RE: new to this bare with me - 12/12/2006 8:09:55 PM

tml721

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I hope God gives me something. I've been waiting long enough!!!

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RE: new to this bare with me - 12/13/2006 3:44:08 AM

tml721

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I've given up trying to post a photo. I just send 3 or 4 along with a letter anymore.

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RE: new to this bare with me - 12/15/2006 3:00:26 AM

tml721

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OK New Question. The people that have been here for a while can you offer any tips on biulding a better profile???

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RE: new to this bare with me - 12/15/2006 3:09:39 AM

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tml,

The best part of this site isn't the profiles - it's the forums. If you spend two or three weeks making a couple posts a day, you'll generate more responses from interesting people than anything you could write in your profile.

Having said that, your profile looks fine to me. Welcome to the site!

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RE: new to this bare with me - 12/15/2006 3:55:01 AM

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The display picture has to be approved, and that can take a day or two.... just wait a lil more and it should show up :)

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RE: new to this bare with me - 12/15/2006 4:52:14 AM

tml721

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I've been waiting WEEKs for the pic to get approved so I've given up and just send it in emails. If my profile is OK, Then I won't worry about a pic. I'll be on the message boars more often if that's what it takes.
Thanks for the advice.

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RE: new to this bare with me - 12/15/2006 6:45:24 AM

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See, the thing with the message boards is that it gives you a chance to show who you are more than your profile might. Instead of the cyber curious crowd who use matchmaking services like some people use television, you're exposed to a group that's genuinely interested in the lifestyle. People see a thoughtful post by you, click your name, see your profile, and then email you. It also gives you a chance to identify subs/slaves that are interesating to you, based on what they say and not just on the quality of their headshots. In fact, there's a pretty sizable group of folks who don't use the search feature at all (outside of seeing who's local) and rely almost completely on the forums to find people.

Good luck.

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RE: new to this bare with me - 12/15/2006 8:13:50 AM

tml721

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Thanks Voltare. I'll start finding forums I like and start posting.I agree that a profile is just something shows a little on the surface but notihng in real depth.Personaly I like to use as many features on a site as I can to maximize my search.

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RE: new to this bare with me - 12/22/2006 3:48:06 AM

tml721

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UP DATE: After comparing notes with another member of this site we came to the conclusion my lady friend is a European fraud.[:****] She calls herself a pain slut. Well she never met a RENGANCE SLUT!!She will face my rath and its not going to be pretty.

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RE: new to this bare with me - 12/22/2006 6:43:10 AM

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ummm tml721, a friendly word of advice, if you are intending to make use of the message boards as a way for others to learn more about you maybe use a little less of the vengeance and wrath towards others. I wish you well.

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RE: new to this bare with me - 12/22/2006 7:48:47 AM

tml721

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I only meant to up date what's happeneing. Sorry if I came across too strong.

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RE: new to this bare with me - 12/22/2006 9:31:07 AM

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