Apa4u2nvntn -> RE: to be a switch is... (2/25/2005 5:57:16 AM)
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Greetings webeeknky, pixieunleashed and anyone else browsing this thread. I do not wish to offend anyone, so I will apologize up front if what I have to say offends. I did not give myself the label switch. It was something that my exgf labeled me after we had a lengthy discussion about the "scene". And, truth to tell, I believe she was right. Depending on how YOU approach me, depends on which side (D/s) I show you. For example:(and this may not be the best analogy but it makes sense to me) My work. My manager is much, much younger than me. I play submissive to him. Anything he asks me to do, I do without question or second thought. You may say to yourself - that's what you're supposed to do at work - but it goes deeper than that. The other assistant managers are roughly my age and they will rag and criticize him over things, but I do not. I will not tell him if he's wrong even if I know it to be true. He has a very beautiful wife and the other assistants always kid him about sleeping with her when he's gone. When she's there I acknowledge her presence, then pretend she's invisible. I've found that because I play submissive to my manager, he trusts me more. I am the one he will come to if he needs something done and done right. Now, to anyone else there, including the other assistants - I am the alpha male and they ALL know it. I do not take any crap from them and I have no problem letting them know when I am displeased. I do not ask for things to be done - I TELL you they are to be done and how you are to do it. And if you don't care for it, I have no problems letting you know that you can turn it sideways, pour barbecue sauce on it, and cram it up your candy ass. I'm sure I get talked about behind my back, but they do not have the balls to do it to my face like they do the manager. So, in short, I agree with you webeeknky. The point is choice, though AT a point may be truth to tell. Again, I do not wish to offend anyone with my ignorance - just my 2 cents =)
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