slavebrandyj
Posts: 35
Joined: 12/31/2006 Status: offline
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Being one that is suffering the same lose of being released on good terms, I can relate to your plight. I am stuggling with protocals too. Some I elect to follow just for myself. Others just do not seem right. She had me doing daily journals witten for myself to reflect on my day, growth or current issues. They were not intended to be written by me for Her, but I was instructed to mail them to Her each day. I see no need for mailing them to Her and it seems it would be out of line to do so. But I continue to write them for me. No, not everyday. I just can't right now. But it seems important to me to journal my emotions and pain thaty I am going through so that I might be able to sort things out in my head as to where I'm going in life without Her. It's the "without" Her that pains me. I know deep down that She is perfect for me and I for Her. Just wish She saw it that way. God luck in your dealing with your lose. I have found some help in coming here and reading. The worst thing I did was start a thread on Collarme that She totally mis-interpreted my meaning. Also feared that others woudl know who I am even with my new ID. She is a private person and does not like Her life out there for the world to see. I think only Her closest friends might know that thread was about Her and I. Who else would even care? I never exposed Her name or my old ID that She was mentioned in earlier this year when we forst met. You did not say You were in love with Your Mistress. I was. No, I am, so maybe some difference in the way you are dealing with things from the way I made mistakes early on in my pain. I wish you well. Listen to the advice from some of the Ladies here. Some are very wise and really do try to help us subs in out time of trouble.
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