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Would you go Vanilla if it felt Right?? - 5/11/2004 6:12:38 PM

knees2you

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Hello All You subbies/slaves
Just wondering if any of You feel that You would leave the Bdsm lifestyle If You meet the perfect Vanilla. Not that You would expect them to change?
You would though have to become 100% Vanilla. Would You leave the lifestyle???

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RE: Would you go Vanilla if it felt Right?? - 5/11/2004 6:33:27 PM

sub4hire

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Nope, nope and nope. There is always a D/s dynamic in any sucessful relationship to me. Always someone to take control. So, in my mind it would never cease to be to begin with.

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RE: Would you go Vanilla if it felt Right?? - 5/11/2004 6:57:13 PM

sweetobsession

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well that is a good question because an old Master of mine told me to quit being a slave completely once because he felt as if i was getting too hurt with the M/s world but all in all i dont think i could give the lifestyle up completely altho you can maybe tone it down somewhat meaning that you can venture out and not always think along those terms when you meet new people

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RE: Would you go Vanilla if it felt Right?? - 5/11/2004 7:54:10 PM

perverseangelic

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i don't think the person WOULD be perfect if he/she denied my submissive side/nature.

i guess my situation's a bit differnt though, because i have a (mostly) vanilla primary parter and a dominant couple as secondary parnters--so i sort of have both. all the same, i couldn't give either of them up, and wouldn't choose partners who would ask me to.

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RE: Would you go Vanilla if it felt Right?? - 5/11/2004 8:38:57 PM

laguna

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Sure.

One of the most endearing relationships I thought was vanilla. As it turned out, it wasn't I was just too blind to see the progression.. :) But, I've also met someone who just made me so happy that being with them would be enough in of itself. Unfortunately, it never worked out but we are still the best of friends. So yes, there was a time when I wouldn't have believed it but I can see it now.

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RE: Would you go Vanilla if it felt Right?? - 5/11/2004 10:54:48 PM

darbyib6ub9

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No. I dont think I could leave the lifestyle completely. I think about my lifestyle everyday, At least one a day. However I am confident I could teach my new vanilla babe the pleasures that come along with the lifestyle. After that there shouldnt be a problem. If there was a problem then I would have to chose the lifestyle I would imagine.