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ArgoGeorgia -> RE: how much is "too much" aftercare? (3/5/2007 4:34:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Noah quote: ORIGINAL: Phoenix2raven is there any such thing as too much aftercare? Depends how long I spent beating the crap out of her, I suppose. Usually I'm cool with just a blowjob and a footrub. Holy crap bourbon and coke hurts like hell squirting out of your nose. But thanks for the damn good laugh.

pagansub77 -> RE: how much is "too much" aftercare? (3/5/2007 4:49:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Noah Depends how long I spent beating the crap out of her, I suppose. Usually I'm cool with just a blowjob and a footrub. I'm cool with the BJ but footrubs are a hard limit....[;)]

jadein -> RE: how much is "too much" aftercare? (3/5/2007 5:07:17 PM)
The few real life experiences I've had the aftercare needs were all very different. Since you have actual medical concerns that need tending to I would say that those AT the very LEAST need to be tended to whether you want it or not. I have arthritis in my knees and fingers so I do understand the pain that can come with it. (it's also why kneeling for long periods of time are a hard limit ... LOL j/k) ... In my experiences there were times where I didn't want any aftercare at all ... I wanted to be left alone laughs. Which we hadn't discussed that at all because it didn't occur to me that I would want to be left alone, so it caused some confussion which was worked out later. But there was another time where it brought up alot of emotional crap and it took me a long time and a lot of journaling and him discussing things with me to get through it.

ownedgirlie -> RE: how much is "too much" aftercare? (3/5/2007 6:13:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Noah Usually I'm cool with just a blowjob and a footrub. People laughed, but this is quite relaxing for me afterwards (to give to my Master, that is, lol). It is very soothing and intimate for me to dote on him and touch him this way. We're touching, we're enjoying it, what more could I want? If I've just experienced something that takes serious emotional processing, I might ask to curl up at his back as he lays resting.

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: how much is "too much" aftercare? (3/5/2007 7:19:11 PM)
Well, what I am understanding is that "too much" aftercare is when the Dominant gets weary of providing it..At least as far as some of the responses I have seen on this thread and another...[&o]...Tempting

ownedgirlie -> RE: how much is "too much" aftercare? (3/5/2007 7:29:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub Well, what I am understanding is that "too much" aftercare is when the Dominant gets weary of providing it..At least as far as some of the responses I have seen on this thread and another...[&o]...Tempting In my case, yes, he makes the rules and I happily adjust to them. It's my job to make him feel good, and I feel good as a result.

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