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acctonthelook -> Wanting Time? (1/18/2007 7:44:16 PM)
When starting a relationship, how much time do most sub's/ slave desire when starting a new relationship?

shadevarr -> RE: Wanting Time? (1/18/2007 7:45:43 PM)
From what I gather, all of it.

demistress -> RE: Wanting Time? (1/18/2007 7:53:09 PM)
Depends, the ones I like don't want much at all, and the ones I do not like want every waking second LOL.

whisperedsighs -> RE: Wanting Time? (1/18/2007 8:04:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: acctonthelook When starting a relationship, how much time do most sub's/ slave desire when starting a new relationship? Are you asking how much time a sub wants you to spend with them, or how much time before moving into action?

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Wanting Time? (1/18/2007 8:18:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: acctonthelook When starting a relationship, how much time do most sub's/ slave desire when starting a new relationship? Umm a lot? But I actually want more now than I did in the beginning. Your questions seem to be seeking something that your questions won't really give you the answer to.

Zsuzsanna -> RE: Wanting Time? (1/18/2007 8:44:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: acctonthelook When starting a relationship, how much time do most sub's/ slave desire when starting a new relationship? I have just kind of started a relationship with a Dom. I find that I want to feel His control over me all the time. I want to feel His power and direction at all times. It's weird, I think, but I do.

SimplyMichael -> RE: Wanting Time? (1/18/2007 9:02:58 PM)
He is a huge jerk, doesn't care about you, and you should leave and find a "true" dom who will devote every waking moment to making you obey in the exact way you have always dreamed of.

juliaoceania -> RE: Wanting Time? (1/18/2007 9:17:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: acctonthelook When starting a relationship, how much time do most sub's/ slave desire when starting a new relationship? That would depend on the interaction between me and the other person. It also depends on what you mean by starting a new relationship? Do you meaning 24-7 living together? Or are you talking about how long until I feel comfortable playing with someone?

darksdesire -> RE: Wanting Time? (1/18/2007 9:56:16 PM)
Sigh. I want it all...every waking moment. I could never get enough. I'm sooo hungry for him. Doesn't mean I get it all.

Celeste43 -> RE: Wanting Time? (1/19/2007 5:09:41 AM)
Are you asking how much daily contact? Or even if it is daily? Because some people want to touch bases with each other twice a week and others find twice a day not too much. There is no right answer, the only important thing is that you find someone who thinks the same way with whom you are compatible. See, if I need contact three times a day and he only wanted it once a week to confirm meeting times then he would consider me "needy" and I would consider him "emotionally distant". Now either or both could be true but there would not be any way of knowing without a great deal more detail. What is true is that I would not be compatible with someone whose needs were diametrically opposed from mine.

littleone35 -> RE: Wanting Time? (1/19/2007 8:56:09 AM)
iIwant him all the time i see him every day but i still want more. I guess i am just greedy. Matt's littleone

littlespike -> RE: Wanting Time? (1/19/2007 9:41:12 AM)
...how long until I feel comfortable playing with someone? [/quote] That is a very interesting question.........

juliaoceania -> RE: Wanting Time? (1/19/2007 10:30:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlespike ...how long until I feel comfortable playing with someone? That is a very interesting question......... One that hopefully one that I will never have to ask again, as I only play with one[:D]

scarlettuk -> RE: Wanting Time? (1/19/2007 10:55:22 AM)
Being at the very start of my journey with Master am happy for any time he has for me. Not living together means that between visits he stays in touch with me with phone calls, emails and messages on here. No two people are the same so our needs and wants vary greatly. Personally all I can say is that since the very first time Master contacted me till now I have found a deeper longing to spend time with him. As for the question of starting sexual relations that is only something the two of you can decide. If the time is right it will happen.

SlaveAkasha -> RE: Wanting Time? (1/19/2007 12:30:30 PM)
I don't ask anymore time from Master than I would from anyone I was building a relationship with. I am his slave..yes, but I am also his girlfriend and soon his wife. I expect us each to have our own thing, but I also expect both of us to take time for just each other whenever possible. Kasha

acctonthelook -> RE: Wanting Time? (1/19/2007 3:09:23 PM)
i guess i feel i need more than the average sub, so it prompted me to ask others of their feelings on the subject. ty all for sharing. i let someone go that i cared for deeply because our need for time together was different. it still hurts.

agirl -> RE: Wanting Time? (1/20/2007 7:07:27 AM)
In a new relationship it'd be unlikely that I'd have any expectations or care that much. It's pretty impossible for me to be able to prescibe what an acceptable amount of time is, as it'd depend on too many factors. Unless I have an established relationship , I don't care that much as my feelings aren't involved in any significant way. It takes years, literally, for me to pine for someone and wish for their company. Having said that .......I doubt I'd be particularly bothered about anyone unless they were a friend, at the very least. agirl

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