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RE: "What would you do to me?" - 1/29/2007 10:04:06 PM

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the long time circle of cyber friends a come a crawling. sit back and watch for a good time. cheers.

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RE: "What would you do to me?" - 1/29/2007 10:16:31 PM

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look you dropped your pompom

Thanks for watching out for my pom pom my new cyberfriend.

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RE: "What would you do to me?" - 1/30/2007 6:27:54 PM

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"What would you do to me?"

Delete. Ignore.

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RE: "What would you do to me?" - 1/30/2007 10:44:15 PM

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Denny i realize i took an overly familiar and patronizing tone that you had not earned...my error...how ever you missed the point of my post entirely, which was that when you talk all blustery with foul language and carry on like you were it is an unattractive quality... imop you appear unstable, and when you bad mouth other people you come off as untrustworthy....

i could not imagine that you already knew this because if you did you would not be making yourself so unappealing...and so my note to you although i admit dipped in avarice, was intending to offer you a suggestion on how to interact more appropriatly....but as some one once said you cant teach a cow to fly you exhaust yourself and piss off the cow..i am sorry i pissed you off...i will refrain from further comments of your decorum from here on...

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RE: "What would you do to me?" - 1/30/2007 11:05:29 PM

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I find its a hard question to answer and i dread being asked it becasue how the hell do i know what i would do to them if..... was occuring. Unlesss i am right there doing it so now i say well you would have to find out

That explains why I would never ask such a question. It gives an impression (at least to me) of trying to force someone into serving out a fantasy without any real consent, or at least trying to trick someone into consent.

Part of the wonder of these types of relationships is actually the explorative interaction that comes from actually pursuing a relationship. A previous owner used to love fantasizing out loud about the things that she wanted to do to me, but she usually did something else instead. I think a large part of her pleasure came from talking about some of the fantasies rather than actually making them happen.

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RE: "What would you do to me?" - 1/31/2007 4:16:17 PM

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I highly doubt you really care about teaching me something constructive. Lets face the facts here shall we. But thanks anyway, Ill still take your apology though anyway because you owe me one for disregarding my purpose which was to stick up for the lady dommes.

unstable. Do you draw conclusions this quicky in the rest of your life? You dont know enough about me yet. Be careful with the quick judgmemts. People are complicated and hardly ever are that easy to label into one category but thanks for thinking about me. It seems the subs that hang out in the ask a mistress section are here to passively attack the lady dommes with lectures and saracastic and rude posts because inside they really cant handle and dont like a strong woman so they come here under the guise of "submissive" or those that play the devils advocate and stick up for these rude men. I dont know why the lady dommes dont see through it all. Dont believe me. Go look under ask a submissive. theres a post there that asks them what they like about dommes. The tread is practically empty. that says allot. Where are they are at? all of them come into the "ask a mistress" section for some reason and post post post and yet these same "subs" dont go to their own section and speak up about what they like about lady dommes. what picutre does that paint. no none sees your dealing with? where are the ones that honor you lady dommes? Where?
And also just curious to know...... why the sentiment on this site when coming from subs is so negative ? It seems that there is an awful lot of bitterness being taken out unjustly toward the Dommes on Collarme. For instance, if you look through the numerous threads the negative, rude comments by the subs towards the Dommes outnumber the positive comments by 10 to 1. Perhaps I come from a different mold as a sub. I was trained to treat any and all WOMEN with the utmost reverance at all times. I realize to this effect there are going to be some Dommes, who are not worthy of such treatment. I would have to look long and hard to truly find a Domina that I would classify on this site as unworthy. So, my question .....where is the love, or at least the respect.

Funny, many of the subs here that claim to be submissives and lifestyle turn me off and I am not even remotely interested in acquiring a sub. Why would any Domina on this site care to meet a "sub" who is disrespectful, bitter, full of angst and scornful. I did not just fall off the smart truck, but common sense will tell you , DUH that is why no one is contacting you to begin with. So for a recap, if you are a sub, seeking a Domme. Start off with respect and kindness .

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RE: "What would you do to me?" - 1/31/2007 7:07:08 PM

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**Thank you Denny**
There are women here who DO appreciate you and I am not sure why
that passive aggressive behavior is okay with many here.
To each his own.
Thank you for showing Dominant women some love, and respect.

I totally agree that Doms would not go for it, but then they are men.
Women tend to accept a lot of crap.

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RE: "What would you do to me?" - 2/1/2007 4:48:14 AM

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Don't read any of his mile long posts demistress. Hes rude to alot of mistresses except his few favorites adn i know everyone can guess which ones thsoe are coz they always come running to defend the "sub". teehee. just ignore his babbles and passive aggresive long lectures. he just likes to hear himself think so he can tell himself and the rest that his really an okay guy. i think he has a lot of mad feelings inside so dont give his lectures a second thought.

I have never known Pixel to be rude to anyone, whatever gender, sexuality or orientation they are. Please could you let me know where this has occurred?

I have known Pixel to post some very useful comments - not always agreeable, but useful. He can often employ a long writing style, but he never rambles.

Yes, he strikes me as an OK sort of guy, both on the fora and on the other side. Thoughtful, sensitive and sensible.

Though I guess that means I'm one of the cheering squad perhaps, but then the way you posted the above was a variation on "have you stopped beating your wife?" wasnt it? No one could reply on your comments without being offside. Newsflash; I've been offside all my life, I dont care!

There are a small number of guys who post on the Mistress boards who are not one handed typists and assorted other trolls, and I think it would be a poorer place without their input. Chasing away these select few, of which Pixel is one, is a mistake.

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RE: "What would you do to me?" - 2/2/2007 7:08:39 PM

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of course you have never known him to be rude coz never did he show that to you but to others he has and he's been rude, sarcastic and lectures condenscendingly and since you and him are alike and cut from the same cloth I knew it was a matter of days before you came running out of the corner to defend your boyfriend. teehee.

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RE: "What would you do to me?" - 2/2/2007 7:09:45 PM

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is someone constipated? i cant tell.

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RE: "What would you do to me?" - 2/2/2007 7:09:46 PM

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Anyone else get totally pissed off when someone (even someone you've liked up to that point) asks this question?

Nope.

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RE: "What would you do to me?" - 2/3/2007 5:46:58 PM

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"What would you do to me?"

"What will i get?"

"What can i expect?"

We do get these questions alot and it can annoy you but as the HeadMistress always explains men like to know what they are going to get up front.

Do you ever notice when a movie preview shows too much and you already know the entire movie and you haven't even seen it yet? They know men want to know up front what it's about and what's going to happen.

Your right about the other reason too. Some men might not be serious enough to dive in and just want a detailed response of a scenario they can wank off to.

It's tempting to tell them "Try it and see" or "you'll have to wait and find out" but that won't satisfy them. Instead give them the basics and hope they take the bite. If not let them go. Some are too scared to try it and prefer to run in circles and keep it a fantasy. Those ones will only waste your time and his own.

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