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RE: Why are so few women interested in cuckolds? - 2/17/2009 12:25:25 AM

MommyFiercest

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he biggest issue I had was not so much the slut or who aspect. But I felt like he was pimping out MY body. It's one thing for him to have his kink that involves HIS body, like trying forced bi...but it's another thing to fulfill his fantasy with MY body.
I prefer to look at it as Yes it’s HIS kink…

Wow, I couldn't have summed it up better myself!

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RE: Why are so few women interested in cuckolds? - 2/17/2009 9:43:56 AM

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I think a cuckold is a great idea.

x3 although that is exactly what I'm looking for.

I would hate the idea of another woman being all over my boyfriend... but me, with two men? Damn straight.

Bring on the Doms!

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RE: Why are so few women interested in cuckolds? - 3/24/2009 6:05:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

As well, merely having your partner have sex with others doesn't make you automatically a cuckold.

I agree, but I do think the meaning historically refers to someone unaware of his victimization (in the vanilla world most partners who have sex with others do so duplicitously) but in this context, at least in my experience, most cuckolds enjoy the humiliation aspect.

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RE: Why are so few women interested in cuckolds? - 3/24/2009 6:08:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: NYCCuckold

That said, for women who don't enjoy those strings, of course they add nothing to the relationship. I hate to use the analogy of sadism/masochism again, but for a Domme who isn't a sadist, whipping her sub is just "strings attached." But, for some, they get as much out of the scene as their subs.

I don't understand why a (true) Domme who isn't a sadist would whip her sub unless she's a Pro-Domme or fetish provider, in which case what she is getting out of the scene is obvious.

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RE: Why are so few women interested in cuckolds? - 4/2/2009 9:47:00 AM

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Lots of subs ask me to join them in a cuckold relationship. I'm not interested in being a slut wife, or slut partner for that matter. I consider sex a very intimate and sacred thing. I have no desire to go out and fuck Tom, Dick, Harry, or Malik for entertainment, nor do I consider myself insatiable. I would love to find a partner who could dominate subs with me, but that's not a function of fulfilling the sub's fantasy to see me get pleasured by a superior man, clean me, or service my stud lover. I can't imagine being in a relationship with someone who considered themselves cuckold, that is not the sort of partner who arouses me outside the bedroom, let alone within.

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RE: Why are so few women interested in cuckolds? - 4/2/2009 10:36:50 AM

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In theory, the cuckolding scenario has some appeal, as it reaffirms my right to do as I please while the boy suffers. But in reality, I am not a person who has many sexual partners because I have no desire to mingle fluids with anyone who does not meet my fairly high standards for respect, integrity, personal grooming, sensitivity and so on. Part of the reason I'm dominant is that I am completely turned off by the idea of rewarding some random asshole who didn't take the time to treat me properly with sex. That and like so many of you, I do not exist to fulfill a do-me type's kink. If his and my kinks happen to coincide, great ! I'm happy that he's happy. But I'm not going to go out of my way to make his wet dreams come true at the expense of my own dignity. I am more likely to let the boy be f***ed by a large hairy alpha male than myself.
All that said, perhaps someday, after a long and happy D/s relationship, I will become open to other things. I don't morally object to the practice, and can see why some are into it.

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RE: Why are so few women interested in cuckolds? - 4/2/2009 10:42:47 AM

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I may have already commented on this, as this is an old thread.
Why don't cuckolds appeal to me? Because I view it as inherently unmasculine and I like masculine men, regardless of the side of the kneel or lack there-of.
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RE: Why are so few women interested in cuckolds? - 7/20/2011 7:34:33 AM

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I am new here...Hi everyone and thanks for all these amazing posts! I am also very new to the lifestyle. My husband has confided in me with some of his kinks and fantasies so we have begun to explore them within the confines of our marriage and I have to say...I have never felt eroticism like this before. It has sparked something in me that I don't ever want to turn off! Hubby is a very masculine love maker but on special nights he enjoys being submissive and I get all the power. This is something I have always known I possessed in my non-sexual life, but never tried it with my man and it is an amazing feeling! I'm learning all I can to be a good/safe/sane domme and he and I have discussed his fantasy about being cuckolded.

This is a fun fantasy for now with the dildo and I will remain open to the idea of it but it's something neither of us are ready for. In 5 years...that could be a different story! I think the longer you're with someone and the more you are open to exploring with them, anything can happen...and it should be fulfilling for both parties.

In the meantime, I love teasing him about needing a man that can really satisfy me and telling him how I would need him there to get us going and help clean up, yada yada...and that's all cuckolding is for us right now. Sometimes, if you allow your mind to open up and be part of the act, you don't even need a real bull in the room...

I have joined this forum to learn how to express my dominant side. I started this journey about six months ago and I am loving it! I have learned so far that I am a sensual domme who likes to reward my sub just as much as I like to punish him...and I prefer lace over leather...I love to feminize this masculine man and make him feel pretty. This is all just the tip of the iceberg, I'm sure!

Glad I found this place!

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RE: Why are so few women interested in cuckolds? - 7/20/2011 8:41:40 AM

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This thread is locked because it is over three months old.

However, HotWife101 wrote an awesome post so I am hoping she posts in the Intro section??

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