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The reactions were mostly in support of or in judgement of one or the other. I didn't see where she at any point she questioned or judged her Master or his reaction. I did see her ask if this was a method other Master's employed and supported her question with the impact it has on her. And asked if it had that impact on other slaves. Fair and reasonable questions!!

i was wrong in my actions that night...and was punished how HE saw fit...and it, indeed, was fitting for THIS slave.  my punishment was taken with grace and the lesson was learned.  Nothing has been said about the incident since then, nor is there reason for it. 
The post was merely to speak with others, as i thought was the reason for boards such as these, about the happenings in our lives and how we react to them.

Yes, dehana, this was the intent of my original post.  i did not mean to start a heated debate over "who's the better slave" or "my Master's harsher than yours".

Again, please forgive if the proper words fail me.

In loving service,
an'jelle{DPK}

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Hi Chewsie,

To be honest I had to go back and look for your post to know what it was you were referring to. No, your post had nothing to do with any of the comments in my posts. And no, I don't see some blossoming conspiracy in effect either though the reference did bring a chuckle. It's been some since I've seen that phrase used.

I will tell you what spurred the flurry of recent posts on my part though since it seems to be at issue. And this will no doubt get a little long winded.

I read an'jelles initial post which began this thread and saw in it nothing more than a recount of an experience she'd had. her post was well put together. she began with an outline of the days events which lead up to her reaction. Didn't whine in any sense of the word. A very simple and clear retelling. she then explained what happened and  commented on her reaction to it with no mention or suggestion of any negative feelings toward her Master or his choice of reaction or action on her part. In fact, quite the opposite. she noted where she had been wrong, a brief self chastisement of sorts (there was no need for more) and noted the lesson she had learned.  she ended with a couple reasonable questions about others which might have had the same or similar experience. From either side.  What I saw in her words was more a amazed wonderment at how well her Master knew his slave .. and knew exactly what would.. hit the effective mark.. so to speak. He knew exactly the method to employ to place her head back where it needed to be. An effective reminder of both her obligations and boundaries. she was very clear in presenting her intent in my eyes.

What followed shocked and to be quite honest, angered me. I watched as person after person reprimanded her for her sigh. she already knew that was her mistake and had noted .. then later acknowledged yet again as much.
What I saw after that wasn't posts aimed at being the least bit friendly or helpful. More were posts that nit picked at each opportunity words she used. The nit picking only enabled  by ignoring the balance of what she said which in essence denied her the opportunity to explain herself further. When the only thing being offered is a deeper hole.. why would anyone jump?
The example: suck it up. That can be taken in a negative manner.. or in a positive manner. The automatic assumption was the negative. And before long it was altered more to mean sucking up when it came time to pleasure her Master. she had used that term in the context of no matter how tired she is.. and no matter what is required of her she would pull herself up by the bootstraps and do what she needs to do. Never once did she mention anything about doing this with anything but joy. That got added in later by someone else not by an'jelle or by anything she had said or inferred.
Soon that was joined with another phrase she had used. Only the context each was used in was left the missing and most important ingredient. By doing that the entire context in which she had used both was completely altered.
And that is but one example.
I saw an'jelle give up at one point. her words and intent having been twisted and turned until they were
unrecognizable.
This thread had an initial basis.. a theme.. a very definite purpose set in place by the initial poster. What I saw was her asking others to share their experiences when their Master 'Hit the mark' when it came to a punishment.
I watched as pat me on the back and call me perfect slaves made some pretty hard and damning responses and criticisms but were totally left field of the purpose and intent of the whole basis for the thread they were responding to. No wonder she backed away.. everything she said was getting used against her. It.. was.. ludicrous.

I don't agree when someone posts here the responders have the right to twist the OP's words or take the thread in any direction they want. Want a thread to address something else.. fine.. start one !! To me that's applying a 'right' but neglecting the responsibility which goes hand in hand.

I won't say all.. but there were some that appear to have been more like vultures landing in attack mode. Some more subtle.. some more blatant.  That, to be quite honest with you is what disgusted me enough to dig my heels in and move forward on this thread.

Judge a person and hold them accountable for what they say.. not what you can create from it.


It seems interesting to me that given she was punished and had learned what her Master wished her to, some felt it their place to go beyond his lesson and teach her further.

Dehana

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This thread had an initial basis.. a theme.. a very definite purpose set in place by the initial poster. What I saw was her asking others to share their experiences when their Master 'Hit the mark' when it came to a punishment.


Dehana