hisannabelle
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Joined: 12/3/2006 From: Tallahassee, FL, USA Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl The point is, when most people see the word straight, they think a person has only been involved with those of the opposite sex. If someone didn't know that "straight" male subs are sexual with men, they may not think to specifically ask. Some women don't like the idea of being with a man who has engaged in sexual acts with other men. What happens if she finds this out 2 years into the relationship and is totally grossed out by it? Then she would be as frighteningly closed minded as you are. Maybe she could help you carry all your baggage? ~stef Being straight and wanting a partner who is straight does not make me closed minded. Are you saying anyone who is not bisexual is closed minded? no, anyone who has as narrow a definition of bisexuality as you do (or as wide, rather), and fails to see that it's pretty flawed in a lot of ways is closeminded - at least, i think that's what she was going for. i don't think your partner was in the wrong if you said from the get go that you would not like to be with a straight man who had ever at all had any sort of sexual encounter with another man, and he said he had, and you got involved anyway. now, if he did anything outside of the boundaries of your relationship while he was with you, then he's in the wrong, or if he lied about his sexual history, then he's in the wrong. but if he was honest when asked about his sexual history and he showed no bisexual tendencies while he was with you, then it seems to me that's just about all he could do. that said, it doesn't invalidate the fact that you seem to be taking out your frustration over the matter on any other straight man who's ever had any sort of sexual encounter with another man.
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