BeingChewsie
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Hi all :) Well now for my happy happy joy joy post! I celebrate 7 years in his ownership this weekend. I'm blown away that I have been kept this long. I often feel like much more of a burden then I'm worth, I also have an unmentionable with Aperger's syndrome, a form of autism..and he unfortunately has the atypical type where the child is aggressive/often uncontrollable. I have had health issues this year that are no closer to being over and both of those things sometimes make my position in his life more difficult. Despite that he still calls me his oasis, he is still as strict and demanding( I would be devastated if he backed off me). When things have overwhelmed me the last year he has interrupted his life to help me sort things out into manageable chunks. He has gone to the wall with my child's school system to get him the services he needs, and we are about to file suit( he is paying all the fees for a child that isn't his, he pays all the psych doc fees too). He takes my kiddo to karate, floor hockey, golfing. He hired a nanny to help me out too. He is always there when I need him. He has never told me he loves me, last night as I was thanking him for keeping me all these years, he told me "I adore you, *you* make me happy, I have not been happy like this since before my mom died in 1976..I have gone through the motions, through relationships, through life, but until *you*, I have not been happy." He is the best thing that ever happened to me, I am blessed each and every day that I wake up in his household, I try to practice an attitude of gratitude and to always think from my knees in interacting with him. I hope to continue to improve in that area this year and will hopefully be celebrating 8 years this weekend next year. Thanks I just had to post my own happy happy joy joy!
< Message edited by BeingChewsie -- 3/11/2007 4:58:26 AM >
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"In fact, it is my contention that most women are accepting of way less than optimal circumstance constantly, and are lucky to be 'snagged' by the right man, if ever. But it is more by happy accident than by their design. " ~Ron and Hup
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