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RE: slaves thread: support and girlie time - 7/2/2009 2:20:36 AM

StrictHarshB

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Ooops, wrong place. Sorry.

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RE: slaves thread: support and girlie time - 7/2/2009 2:25:25 AM

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This is her Master.

Due to real life things going on in my girls life, her profile has been hidden. This is likely to remain the case for several months, perhaps a year or so.

However she will still continue to read and post/reply on here when time permits and those of you who know who I am on here are welcome to message me directly.

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RE: slaves thread: support and girlie time - 7/6/2009 12:29:37 PM

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Here's an off-the-wall question i've been thinking about... so i thought i'd throw it out there...

Could you be your Master's second (or even third) girl? Do you feel entitled to 1st place, or is it something you feel you have to continually earn? And what if he decided that for whatever reason, he was bringing in another and putting her before you on the chain?

I have my own thoughts about it (hypothetically of course), but i think it is something worth thinking about...

~sgs

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RE: slaves thread: support and girlie time - 7/6/2009 3:30:48 PM

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Hi sgs,

Master doesn't really have places or ranks on His chain. i have been with Him longest and thus am more trained to His ways, but that doesn't make the relationship i have with Him more important or better than the one He has with y. If another girl entered the picture, her relationship would be different but not placed before or after mine.

i have said before that i am not sure that i would be able to stay if He fell in love and decided to marry, however. i think that would make me feel like 'the other woman' and that is something i swore i would never be. Now i am not sure. It will depend on His will and her response to things, in the end, i guess. i will have to continue to place my trust in His judgement.

Good question though.

g

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RE: slaves thread: support and girlie time - 7/7/2009 4:58:35 PM

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Greetings sgs,

for me, this is a very ambivalent topic.
I really like being the only slave in the house. I want, I crave to be his favorite, his pet, his favorite toy. As such, I would like to be the only slave, or be at least the first girl if he got another girl.
At the same time, I also sort of have a thing for humiliation. I crave to be kept in my place, to be kept as nothing but a lowly slave. To not be special, to not be treasured, but to be nothing but a slave. From that dynamic I would like the idea of being kept with another girl, and being placed under her. Seeing her receive the attention from him that I crave so badly.

I also see a number of practical advantages to having a second girl in the house.
I'd have a friend to hang out with, somebody to talk to. More work would get done. Master could always take a girl on the road with him and the work at home wouldn't suffer under it.
But even though all the upsides, I see downsides also. Two girls, means that each would get less attention personally then I get now already. Mistress obviously comes first in having her needs met, and us girls would have to share the left overs. Two girls also means there is a possibility of conflict where there is none now.
I think Master's, Mistress' and my personality match exceptionally well, so a new girl would have to fit just right.

Lastly there is of course the sex bit... (everything is always about sex with me you know.)

Two girls would obviously mean less sex. Less sex is BAD. One can never have enough sex, not what I'm concered at least (sadly Master feels different about that...)
But it would also open up a whole other range or possibilities (three-somes, both sucking his cock and 'fighting' over it, getting my pussy licked when I'm good, licking pussy when she's good.... well you get my drift...). I also have this odd thing, I kinda like the idea of him fucking other women... lots of women... so sometimes I feel like I want to get him a whole harem.

Because I have so many different feelings about it, I tend to worry about it whenever the subject comes up.
I don't really know if I would want it or not.
I guess, in the end I want it all, I want both.

And you know what is the good thing about all this?
I don't really have to worry about it. Because in the end, he'll just make up his own mind if and when he would find a girl he likes.
And he will just MAKE everything work out fine.

I wish you well,

ishy

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RE: slaves thread: support and girlie time - 7/7/2009 5:49:50 PM

donnaamarie

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Hi sgs,

At the beginning of my relationship with my Master I could not imagine him even looking at another girl. I of course was very new to this lifestyle and of course to him. It took about 2 years for me to get over the "jealousy" and "possessiveness." Master helped me to realize many things and I have come to the conclusion that monogamy isn't all that important, nor frankly do I totally believe it is necessary.

As g said, being with Master the longest I'd like to be first girl on his chain if he chose to ever get another, but in the end that would be his choice. The longer we are together the more I am open to the idea of him having more than one slave. We have this one last um in the house and after that it's all up to Master. We have had other girls with us from time to time, one that fit in would obviously be much more appealing to me. But in the end, totally up to him.

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RE: slaves thread: support and girlie time - 7/7/2009 7:00:16 PM

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It used to matter to me in some vague way, in fact I think I argued pretty hard on this very forum about wanting the whole enchilada..looking back on that I needed to be hit with a clue-by-four. It doesn't matter anymore, I found out last April that I'm one of three long term dynamics he has had ongoing(one over 5 years, one over 10 months). He has always seen other women but never mentioned any long term involvements to me. I'm the one of the three that is a slave( at least for now)..I didn't know about them before that because it wasn't any of my business. Ironically I still wouldn't know if I had minded my own business and focused on perfect obedience instead. So what it taught me was it -really- doesn't matter if an owner has 1 slave or 10 slaves or 10 slaves and a wife or 10 slaves and 10 wives... what matters is what you do as the individual slave.. what matters is how well you perform your duty as a slavegirl.. not your "rank". One of these women may end up in his collar, or another, or another..or they all may remain above me. It is all OK because all *I* need to do is focus on absolute and perfect obedience to increase my value and chances of being kept. It was there all along, there was nothing to defend, or protect, or feel entitled too. Sometimes really painful lessons teach the most valuable of lessons.

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ORIGINAL: sweetgirlserves

Here's an off-the-wall question i've been thinking about... so i thought i'd throw it out there...

Could you be your Master's second (or even third) girl? Do you feel entitled to 1st place, or is it something you feel you have to continually earn? And what if he decided that for whatever reason, he was bringing in another and putting her before you on the chain?

I have my own thoughts about it (hypothetically of course), but i think it is something worth thinking about...

~sgs

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RE: slaves thread: support and girlie time - 7/7/2009 7:12:46 PM

BeingChewsie

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quote:

At the same time, I also sort of have a thing for humiliation. I crave to be kept in my place, to be kept as nothing but a lowly slave. To not be special, to not be treasured, but to be nothing but a slave. From that dynamic I would like the idea of being kept with another girl, and being placed under her. Seeing her receive the attention from him that I crave so badly.

I can relate, this sums up that side of me as well..ya know the death camp side :). The irony is that even when they treat you special or treasure you, you are still just a lowly slave in their eyes. Coming to see that by what happened to me over the past several months was probably one of the most valuable lessons I have learned in my collar. It changed me, it brought my vulnerability and helplessness in the face of him to the forefront and re-confirmed(as if their was ever any doubt) to him that my rightful place is in a collar. I find his lack of respect for me and the way he -really- sees me like a warm blanket that I can't snuggle far enough into these days.

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RE: slaves thread: support and girlie time - 7/7/2009 7:15:57 PM

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The unfortunate part is that one can be warned many times, but until it occurs, they will not learn this most valuable lesson. I am glad for you that it was not a lesson learned too late.

take care,
Orion

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RE: slaves thread: support and girlie time - 7/7/2009 7:19:00 PM

BeingChewsie

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quote:

Lastly there is of course the sex bit... (everything is always about sex with me you know.)
Two girls would obviously mean less sex. Less sex is BAD. One can never have enough sex, not what I'm concered at least (sadly Master feels different about that...)
But it would also open up a whole other range or possibilities (three-somes, both sucking his cock and 'fighting' over it, getting my pussy licked when I'm good, licking pussy when she's good.... well you get my drift...). I also have this odd thing, I kinda like the idea of him fucking other women... lots of women... so sometimes I feel like I want to get him a whole harem.

It is like a kindred spirit! I like him fucking other women, lots of other women, lots and lots of other women. Now that I know he is fond of keeping some of them long term too, I'm even more turned on. He tells me that it "takes a village" to meet all his various needs and desires :). I kiddingly quip back, while moving swiftly from the room "Could you have the village come do the laundry and/or clean the bathrooms once in a while?"

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RE: slaves thread: support and girlie time - 7/7/2009 7:28:56 PM

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quote:

It is like a kindred spirit! I like him fucking other women, lots of other women, lots and lots of other women. Now that I know he is fond of keeping some of them long term too, I'm even more turned on. He tells me that it "takes a village" to meet all his various needs and desires :). I kiddingly quip back, while moving swiftly from the room "Could you have the village come do the laundry and/or clean the bathrooms once in a while?"

*PERK* clean!!! OoOoOooo! i so love cleaning! wish you were closer Chewsie! and laundry? omgosh! i love the whole process of laundry...the taking of time to seperate things, to carefully fold them, toooooooo....omg! lets not even go into Ironing! *drools*

Happy Tuesday!
-smilezz-

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RE: slaves thread: support and girlie time - 7/7/2009 7:45:00 PM

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Omgosh Chewsie and smiley one...

twinkle "bout giggled herself off the treadmill.

Warmest wishes to both of you

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RE: slaves thread: support and girlie time - 7/7/2009 7:47:54 PM

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*grinz* at the beautifull twinkle...

my warmest to you toooooo dear friend...

-smiley-

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RE: slaves thread: support and girlie time - 7/7/2009 7:51:41 PM

Hiskajirah

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smiles to the hot and sexy smiley one...

Sends a hug your way....

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RE: slaves thread: support and girlie time - 7/7/2009 7:52:23 PM

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Hi Orion,

You and me both! Luckily I had a cache of lots of really good behavior and had never come close to anything like this before. He acknowledged ownership of some things he wished he had done differently in regards to the whole thing. We are both human and imperfect, good and positive things came from it, I shut-up and submitted like he told me too and he was right, everything ended up being A-OK. I came to see and understand things about myself and about him that I didn't dare accept before this.

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I am glad for you that it was not a lesson learned too late.

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RE: slaves thread: support and girlie time - 7/7/2009 8:04:06 PM

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quote:

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*PERK* clean!!! OoOoOooo! i so love cleaning! wish you were closer Chewsie! and laundry? omgosh! i love the whole process of laundry...the taking of time to seperate things, to carefully fold them, toooooooo....omg! lets not even go into Ironing! *drools*

Happy Tuesday!
-smilezz-

We are like 15 minutes from the Orange County airport if that helps :). Everything is close, relatively speaking..:)

Separate? Iron? ....

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RE: slaves thread: support and girlie time - 7/7/2009 8:09:18 PM

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Separate? Iron? ....

greetings Sue,

Isn't that what Dry Cleaners are for?

sabba is glad you're doing much better....you certainly sound happier. Acceptance, whenever it comes, is a wonderful thing. At least she keeps telling herself that.

well wishes,
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RE: slaves thread: support and girlie time - 7/7/2009 8:27:08 PM

smilezz

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*starts taking notes on Orange County Airport*

-grinz-

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RE: slaves thread: support and girlie time - 7/7/2009 8:28:51 PM

Hiskajirah

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Am about 8 hours from Orange County Airport.

Hm

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RE: slaves thread: support and girlie time - 7/7/2009 8:29:18 PM

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LOL!! sabba!

Dry Cleaners?

Take care dear one...good to see you!

-smilezz-

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