My Master bought a ball gag for me to use during play. I have found that I have a hard time breathing w/ it on. It feels like my throat is closing up and I panic, fearing onset of an asthma attack. Any suggestions?
Try one of the white plastic practice ball with holes. Light weight and passes air well. Also lets you drool uncontrollably. Or I could make you a gag with a length of plastic tube which would lay on top of the tongue. Write me if you want a custom gag. Namaste', LS
One thing I found with someone who was nervous about gags...ball gags in particular is not to pull them completly tight leave enough slack for the wearer to push it out if they became scared or nervous. This gives them a level of comfort with the new toy until they get used to having it in thier mouth...just a suggestion. :)
I have an issue with my jaw so Master and I can not use standard size ball gags. Try a smaller size ball gag and see if that helps. Here is a link to a site where I get mine frome. Yes, they have smiley face ball gags. They also have smaller size ring gags. http://temptatia.com/i_gags.htm
thankyou for the offer. I will ask Master about it. The gag I have has holes in it and I still have problems breathing.
Then the problem may not be physical, it may be mental. You have learn to control your breathing and keep yourself relaxed so that you don't cause yourself to go into an asthma attack. Your Master needs to take the time during play to talk to you. Sooth you by whispering in your ear and reminding you that you need to breath deep breaths and that you'll be fine. Otherwise this will happen no matter what gag you use.
If you still contend that the gag is the problem then maybe you should use a ring gag or dental gag.