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RE: Breaking in the kajiri - 4/7/2007 5:53:41 AM   
kajjirus


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Status: offline 		With greatest respect to Master Malkinius,

Your procedure for breaking in a new slave sounds perfect, Master; it addresses the need for the slave to immediately understand slave manners and to see if the slave really does want to be one or need to be one.

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RE: Breaking in the kajiri - 4/7/2007 6:54:17 AM   
patina


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ORIGINAL: Radasham

When I first bring a girl into my home...it will have generally been after some time of "getting" to know each other....so the absolute fist thing she does...before stepping into the house actually is strip(weather permitting) and kneel at the doorway (yay for country lots). And beg permission to enter. Which she does on her knees if I allow her in. Her indoor collar is attached, and her clothing removed. where upon she stays in the landing on display for as long as I see fit.

Slave rape as Bull put well is a way to control the wench, so if needed or I want to...she gets it. Beyond that depends on my mood and the imp.


Greeting to all


May this girl ask a question about this procedure Sir?  I am new to the Gorean ways waiting on my books to come in and have been reading the posts.  You state this is Your procedure is this just Yours or is it the norm for most Gorean houses?   Also do You ever make a girl wait for a time before allowing her admittance?  How is it handled for other males to see a Masters girls naked or does that not matter? Is she to be viewed by any and all who enter or reside within the house?

I apologize for asking so many questions, and if You reprimand me for being a pest i understand and will not bother You again. 


peace be to you

patina

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RE: Breaking in the kajiri - 4/7/2007 8:15:55 AM   
nephandi


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From: Cold and magickal Norway in a town near Bergen!
Status: offline 		Greetings.

For me it is very hard to adjust to my new life as a slave and we have to take it in baby steps. i am lucky i have a Master that is kind and patient. For us smal steps towards acsepting my place has been what ahve been working.

May i wish you all well.


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RE: Breaking in the kajiri - 4/7/2007 12:40:15 PM   
captainblack


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Status: offline 		It is important to properly break in your slave for maximum service life and trouble free operation.
Please observe the following recomendations for the first 6 months or 6000 miles.

1. do not exceed 4500 rpm during the breakin period

2. make sure to change the lubrication fluid every 2000 miles

3. inspect before each use to assure there are no hidden problems that could
affect proper operation

4. Do not insert any foreign objects that are not approved for use with your model slave.

5. If you have a male model be sure to once a month release the fluid preasure in the
prostrate by pumping the rod on the front of the unit. Failure to perform this step
could result in malfunction of the prostrate and failure of the whole unit.

If you follow these simple break in rules we are sure your slave will give you many years
of pleasing service.

Acme Slave Company
http://www.streetofbrands.com/

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RE: Breaking in the kajiri - 4/7/2007 1:25:29 PM   
mystiquenz


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Greetings Masters, Mistresses and slaves,

Happy easter to A/all

quote:

It is important to properly break in your slave for maximum service life and trouble free operation.
Please observe the following recomendations for the first 6 months or 6000 miles.

1. do not exceed 4500 rpm during the breakin period

2. make sure to change the lubrication fluid every 2000 miles

3. inspect before each use to assure there are no hidden problems that could
affect proper operation

4. Do not insert any foreign objects that are not approved for use with your model slave.

5. If you have a male model be sure to once a month release the fluid preasure in the
prostrate by pumping the rod on the front of the unit. Failure to perform this step
could result in malfunction of the prostrate and failure of the whole unit.

If you follow these simple break in rules we are sure your slave will give you many years
of pleasing service.[/quote]

Master Captainblack, thank you for the early morning Sunday smile.  Have you ever read a poem written by E.E. Cummings
"she being brand" your post bought back the memory of that poem that was very well written, in this girl's opinion.

If you are not familiar with the poem, and cannot find it, but if you are interested i would be happy to type it out for you. 


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RE: Breaking in the kajiri - 4/7/2007 1:30:43 PM   
mystiquenz


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Status: offline 		In fact, google gave the link as being:
http://www.sex-geek.com/Poems/brand.html 
if you are interested ...

Something about poetry, that never dies ... and how we can read things and not see things, clearly ...

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RE: Breaking in the kajiri - 4/7/2007 1:38:19 PM   
captainblack


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mystiquenz

In fact, google gave the link as being:
http://www.sex-geek.com/Poems/brand.html
if you are interested ...

Something about poetry, that never dies ... and how we can read things and not see things, clearly ...


Thank you for the link kajira. It made me smile this new york afternoon!

CB

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RE: Breaking in the kajiri - 4/7/2007 1:46:23 PM   
mystiquenz


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Status: offline 		Master Captainblack,  re-greetings,

Master Captainblack is more than welcome.  It's good to see the sun out and a Master somewhere ... is smiling ...



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RE: Breaking in the kajiri - 4/7/2007 3:46:46 PM   
nephandi


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Status: offline 		Greetings Master Captain Black

Thank you for making me laugh to night. :)

May i wish you well.


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RE: Breaking in the kajiri - 4/7/2007 6:07:41 PM   
Radasham


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quote:

ORIGINAL: patina
Greeting to all

May this girl ask a question about this procedure Sir?  I am new to the Gorean ways waiting on my books to come in and have been reading the posts.  You state this is Your procedure is this just Yours or is it the norm for most Gorean houses?   Also do You ever make a girl wait for a time before allowing her admittance?  How is it handled for other males to see a Masters girls naked or does that not matter? Is she to be viewed by any and all who enter or reside within the house?

I apologize for asking so many questions, and if You reprimand me for being a pest i understand and will not bother You again. 

peace be to you
patina


Never a problem girl

Each man breaks in his slaves in differently TBH. As there are a few factors that dictate what

A) They can do (IE: Do they live in a secluded area, or in an apartment?)
B) What they feel works best (Usually based on past experience)
C) How experienced is there new slave

As for waiting to gain admittance, I'll speak for myself. I will often stop a slave from entering my home if they appear to act as if they have a right to do so, for get to ask/beg. Or as a for of punishment. (weather dependent of course). It is yet another form of control, it shows the slut that this is not her home, she is again at my whim for her comfort, existence and well being. If she does not please me, then she has a very real danger of having these things removed.

As far as other Free viewing my slaves, what care I of how they are viewed? I find there forms and movements best displayed without being covered. I don't put throw covers on my couch or table for the same reason. The exception is unexpected visits from Friends and Family not in the Gorean or D/s lifestyle (now there’s always a fun mad dash to the clothes).

As with a lot of Gorean life, its a constant battle between what we believe to be true, and what we can do in modern Western culture. Vs. what others believe, and what’s been written about in the novels. Its something we all have to come to terms with, and determine on our own how we feel best exemplifies being and living Gorean. So Ask questions, listen to different points of view. You'll understand in time.

Ok Rant over...back to the Chocolate!

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RE: Breaking in the kajiri - 4/7/2007 6:10:55 PM   
Radasham


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mystiquenz

In fact, google gave the link as being:
http://www.sex-geek.com/Poems/brand.html 
if you are interested ...

Something about poetry, that never dies ... and how we can read things and not see things, clearly ...


Ok thats getting bookmarked....that's great girl

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RE: Breaking in the kajiri - 4/7/2007 8:52:03 PM   
FelinePersuasion


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Status: offline 		you can not remove her clothing if she's stripped before coming in on knees.
quote:

ORIGINAL: Radasham

so the absolute fist thing she does...before stepping into the house actually is strip(weather permitting) \

Which she does on her knees if I allow her in. Her indoor collar is attached, and her clothing removed. where upon she stays in the landing on display for as long as I see fit.



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RE: Breaking in the kajiri - 4/7/2007 9:01:45 PM   
Radasham


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Status: offline 		As I said weather permitting...if it doesn’t then she takes them off indoors. My bad for not clarifying that.

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RE: Breaking in the kajiri - 4/7/2007 9:20:16 PM   
mystiquenz


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Status: offline 		Greetings Master Radasham,

You would be very welcome for the link. *smiles* always a pleasure to share something and to watch others enjoy.



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RE: Breaking in the kajiri - 4/8/2007 12:50:42 AM   
Aswad


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Stephann

I'm brutal, but anal rape for me would border on dangerous.

Just me.


Just FYI, I'm assuming that you take "rape" in this context to mean sexual contact that is consented to by the terms agreed upon, but where there is no consent present at the time of the event. I'll assume this meets the criterion for legality unless someone tells me otherwise; I'm not from the USA.

Anal sex, even with the use of force on a currently unwilling partner, needs to be pretty brutal to cause any lasting physical damage. Unless you're the new Holmes and not shy about it either, in which case I don't want to know.

The main risk with this, AFAICT, is the legal one. While you can technically give prior consent to something that overrides your absence of consent at the time (ref. stuff like mental health directives, etc.), you might have a hard time selling it to the judges if things ever go sour, or if external parties report it. (Bearing in mind that a judge is a political appointment, not an avatar of Lady Justice.)

Anyway. In my experience, at least, it gets painful for the penetrating party before it gets risky for the penetrated party. YMMV.

If I missed your point, I'd sincerely appreciate if you elaborated on what you see as the danger.


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RE: Breaking in the kajiri - 4/8/2007 12:54:03 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aswad

If I missed your point, I'd sincerely appreciate if you elaborated on what you see as the danger.




I will not speak for Stephann, however I will point out that in a Gorean context "slave rape" is SSC.

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RE: Breaking in the kajiri - 4/8/2007 12:56:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		Morning,

    So that means we are supposed to "ask the females permission" before we fuck her in the ass?

    Wow........and after all these years I was under them impression that unlike bdsm...........In Gorean relationships it was the MAN who was in charge. Silly me.

Raven

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RE: Breaking in the kajiri - 4/8/2007 12:59:14 AM   
FukinTroll


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ORIGINAL: RavenofPK

Morning,

   So that means we are supposed to "ask the females permission" before we fuck her in the ass?

   Wow........and after all these years I was under them impression that unlike bdsm...........In Gorean relationships it was the MAN who was in charge. Silly me.

Raven


Raven,
 
I will assume you are being obtuse because we share a mutual disdain for one another.
 
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RE: Breaking in the kajiri - 4/8/2007 1:01:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		Morning,

       Actually, I was being further disgusted at the continual insistance to soften the realities of Gorean slavery to make it more like bdsm.

Raven

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RE: Breaking in the kajiri - 4/8/2007 1:07:37 AM   
FukinTroll


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quote:

ORIGINAL: RavenofPK

Morning,

      Actually, I was being further disgusted at the continual insistance to soften the realities of Gorean slavery to make it more like bdsm.

Raven


Raven,
 
Then by all means begin your rapist career with a non-consensual partner(s). I am sure your future roommates (inmates) will find your objections to anal rape quite exhilarating.
 
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