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RE: "Aftercare" Question - 4/1/2007 10:14:05 PM

RavenofPK

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Evening elise,

First off......to answer your question I never "scene". Nor do I beat a girl for HER pleasure, because SHE likes it. If I am to beat a girl, then she has displeased me. Thus, I do not see the purpose to reward her then by patting her on the head afterwords. She screwed up, and she has to deal with the consequences of such. It she wants a more caring hand, then it would be in her interests to be more pleasing, eh?

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RE: "Aftercare" Question - 4/2/2007 3:16:02 AM

Malkinius

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greetings stella.....

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ORIGINAL: StellaByStarlite

Hello, Master Malkinius. =)

The fact that I'm more likely to get blunt truth from you or other members of this forum is precisely why I enjoy asking. ;)

Okay, now for the question: Was this instinct you mentioned built up over time, and was there a method behind it employed by you? In other words.. how does a slavegirl get to that point?

Thank you for your time. =)
Stella

Hhhmmm....I am not certain what instinct you are talking about. Are you asking about the instincitve reaction of a person with fear to the level jump or are you talking about getting to the slave to that place where it happens? I do not understand your question. Clarify.

be well....

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RE: "Aftercare" Question - 4/2/2007 4:54:52 AM

StellaByStarlite

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Malkinius

Hhhmmm....I am not certain what instinct you are talking about. Are you asking about the instincitve reaction of a person with fear to the level jump or are you talking about getting to the slave to that place where it happens? I do not understand your question. Clarify.

be well....

Malkinius

Good morning, Master Malkinius. =)

Oop, sorry about the vagueness. =) I meant the impulse to obey automatically when you're not present to enforce it. Or rather.. her will being taken over by yours. I'll assume there is a willingness on the slave's part to bend to your will, but is it a process that takes a while?

Thank you again, and cheers. =)
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RE: "Aftercare" Question - 4/2/2007 5:13:13 AM

Malkinius

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greetings stella....

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ORIGINAL: StellaByStarlite
Good morning, Master Malkinius. =)

Oop, sorry about the vagueness. =) I meant the impulse to obey automatically when you're not present to enforce it. Or rather.. her will being taken over by yours. I'll assume there is a willingness on the slave's part to bend to your will, but is it a process that takes a while?

Thank you again, and cheers. =)
Stella

Now I have a question I can answer. <smiles>

It does not start as an automatic impulse by any means. The slave learns this over time as the Master's will supercedes and replaces her will. In many cases, the slave does not see this happening until she looks back and sees where she is compared to where she was. It can take a variable amount of time. Many factors come into play. The achieving of such things is a goal of mine. It is something that I work on in training a slave. She knows that is my intention but the slave doesn't usually see what is happening when it is happening. As I said, they see the change when it hits them or when looking back. I do not work with unwilling slaves. Not on a serious basis. I don't count posting to forums like this to change someone's mind to be working in that way with the other person...willing or not on their part. Or willing..because they willingly read what I wrote. If it affects them in a way I wish.....<evil chuckle>

be well....

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RE: "Aftercare" Question - 4/3/2007 7:58:03 AM

Leonidas

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Slave management is just management. Time spent on the task that does not result in improvement is wasted time. If you treat a slave with the kindnesses that you describe and it results in a slave that better suits you, you have spent your time well. If it sends her off in the opposite direction, or makes no difference, you might as well have spent your time doing something you like. If you happen to like slave hugging, then no harm, no foul. At that point you're indulging in something pleasurable to you for it's own sake.

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