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release - 1/31/2004 2:46:32 PM

twinklestar45

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This might not be the place to ask but here goes if you had a sub and found out her son molested your daughter would you keep her or release her?

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RE: release - 1/31/2004 4:10:01 PM

lanette

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First, being Dom or sub, has no bareing on the issue. So, then the question becomes, if a girlfriends son molested a Boyfriends daughter, do you break up... I don't think there is a clear answer... But A LOT of dynamics... But always keep in mind, doing what is best for the children is more important than a Boyfriend/girlfriend situation.

Depending on the ages, one might consider calling the police. It is illegal. At the very least, both of them need counseling. Molestation can be something that generally gets passed one... following the it was done to them thought... ( there is some debate on that one)

The couple should work together to help both children and deal with it appropriately and not try to hide it or pretend it hasn't happened... It HAS to be addressed.

Bottom line , no matter what Protect the children!

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RE: release - 2/2/2004 10:31:02 AM

Voltare

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I agree, this isn't a D/s issue, but rather a family issue. It would depend on the age of the individuals involved i.e. an eight year old son, six year old daughter, or a 17 year old son and a ten year old daughter would have two very different outcomes: the former being therepy for all involved, the latter jail time for either the boy, or for me. Other issues involved would be if I was living with the sub (I'd have to be, in order to release her, I dont' collar for non-24/7 relationships.) If I was just 'dating' the submissive and this happened, I think I might be less likely to be around that woman, but again it really...really depends on a lot of the other issues.

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