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RE: Single Femdoms - what was lacking? - 4/22/2007 1:30:19 AM

MsRose

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Usually what has been lacking in quite a few of my encounters with submissive men, was shared goals. I know what I want, and he thought he knew what he wanted. After discussion, it became rather easy to figure out that our expectations were quite different. You learn, and you move on.

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RE: Single Femdoms - what was lacking? - 4/22/2007 1:33:42 AM

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.....though i think the best approach and most realistic and practical is when i see a Domme who advertises that She is looking for a sub/slave who will fullfill a multitude of roles including friend, servant, lover, slave, companion, sub, confidante, slut, etc.--- as that's in reality what any relationship is going to require and depend on in the longer run anyways.

Sounds exactly like my profile. I had no idea I was so practical :)

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RE: Single Femdoms - what was lacking? - 4/22/2007 9:41:04 AM

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Twice in my life I've had what I consider the Ultimate Ride. Lightning strikes, perfect chemistry, meeting of the minds, a man in hopeless thrall just because I EXIST. I don't mean just in submission, but enslaved heart, body, soul, mind. I was genuinely his ideal.

To be engaged on every level by another human being is heaven. Nothing else satisfies after knowing that, having that. You can't fake it, you just have to get lucky. I've spent years analyzing the how's and why's and the consequences of allowing fate (and chemistry, that fickle bitch) to guide me, but it's like sexual crack and I don't wanna put down the pipe. I've had hundreds of hour's worth conversations about this with friends and it's good debate fodder, especially in regards to chemisty being inconveniently unreliable.

I give up on someone when he can resist me.

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RE: Single Femdoms - what was lacking? - 4/23/2007 4:12:07 PM

Wickad

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undergroundsea,

Thank you for your comments.

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RE: Single Femdoms - what was lacking? - 4/23/2007 4:26:36 PM

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Thank you for your last post and your contribution to the discussion :)

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RE: Single Femdoms - what was lacking? - 4/23/2007 7:15:07 PM

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I think most men are not submissive outside the bedroom too.

I made a mistake and wrote this wrong. I think submissive men (whom I have known) are submissive only with their mistresses (both in and out of the bedroom) and not in other areas outside their relationship, e.g., work, social circle, etc..
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