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Would the world be better if it was Gorean? - 4/20/2007 3:26:54 PM   
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The crux of this question can only be hypothetical. Many in the mainstream would be horrified if this world were to be run like Gor especially the idea of slavery.  Since many of U/us have a code which W/we live our lives by  it may not be too much of a stretch to wonder what this world would be like if our code of respect, honor, etc would be world wide.Would we have a happier more honest society? Would there be less confusion between the sexes if we followed natural order? What about politicians? Would they be the same or do the right thiing? If we wanted BDSM to become more accepted what would the best way be to inform the masses it's not what they've seen in the media.

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RE: Would the world be better if it was Gorean? - 4/20/2007 3:41:20 PM   
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Define "better", and by extention "good".  Until you do that, your question in meaningless.  Whether a Gorean world, or the world you live in, is "better" depends on that definition. 

I will give you a hint.  One world values safety, social justice, presumed equality, and comfort, over freedom.  The other does not.  They are very different definitions of "good".  There isn't a right answer, only the answer that you, in your gut, feel is right.  If you answer one way you belong here.  If you answer the other way, you do not.

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RE: Would the world be better if it was Gorean? - 4/20/2007 4:43:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Leonidas   

I will give you a hint.  One world values safety, social justice, presumed equality, and comfort, over freedom.  The other does not.  They are very different definitions of "good".  There isn't a right answer, only the answer that you, in your gut, feel is right.  If you answer one way you belong here.  If you answer the other way, you do not.



Tal Leonidas,

What world is it that values these things you stated? Safety, Social Justice, Equality? The western society of earth I presume you mean? I have no doubt that certain stretches of this globe have no use for equality, comfort or freedom. Hell, just watch the News and you should get example enough of that. Certain Gorean type cultures exist on the third rock, of course the US doesn't like them very much. Then again are they all that Gorean as they insist a man live a certain way, wear his facial hair a certain way. 

Yes, I have many misgivings about my homestone, the good ole USA, but I do so little to change it, I am also part of the problem. How about you? I'd love to find a way to live as I see fit, but in our democratic free society, my way of living is illegal in parts and chastised in others. If this ole globe were Gor, wouldn't we need to do a great deal of house cleaning all the way around? Wouldn't it be best if non emotional creatures that communicated through scent were judging the good from the bad. You and I would both rule the other out, and that would just be a clash of ego's having nothing to do with our strength of character. Gor exists only in the hearts of what I see to be good men. I reckon someone else would oppose that notion though.... You see there is only Earth and there is no other place... there is only various mindsets, We have out Gorean Banner, out colors if you will. But so long as Goreans fantasize abot what if's and butt heads over what some damn Authors intentions were, the Gorean way is no more adapt and leading a planet than the one we have.

Tal Goreans,

I don't believe it would matter a single rats ass, or urt if it be, that this Globe be Earth or Gor. It is that which embodies it's population that establishes it's title. The population of this planet at times seems bent on self destruction, those that aren't blowing it up are bitching and shoving their heads in the sand. So many experts, so few applicators. So what do you do wave a wand and these people of Earth think as, as, as what, it was supposedly Earth that the humans of Gor came from.

Gor was stocked with choice individuals, the finest men and women. Earth is stocked with reality. Wow what a concept. Gor would also find a similar ruination if the fantasy creatures in the Sardars weren't blue flaming the cunning and corrupt. Gor or it's ideals isn't perfect, it would make this ball of dirt any better, only men can do that. But hell two of the strongest Goreans on this boards can't even find common ground, manage to get along. What chance does anyone else have.

Goreans can exist here so long as they aren't a threat to the existance of who ever the governing bully is. The reality is you can only exist day to day as best you can. If you find Our Gorean way suits you best, do your best to live by that. Ponder that truely beyond these cyber walls though. You can talk about hypatheticals all day long, but what achievement does that elude us too? Gor does exist, in the hearts of those that would be Gorean. If you want the western nations to evolve into what you see as better, go live that example.

Would a man in mid evil Europe ever have considered a country such as the USA would come to pass? No, and yet evolution marches on. Evolution I doubt gets all things right though. Perhaps living by example and working to be a strong community we can impress upon others that which we see they are missing. If we are Gorean, if our natural way is the best and the strongest won't we move past the weaker? Evolve as the better choice. We believe in this natural order, natural selection, so put up or shut up I say. No man is an island and survives, not here, not on Gor.

Stand and hold yourself accountable as a man..Stand and hold your politician accountable as man... Stand as a community and respect life and nature. Gor is here, if you make it here. Its about men and the way they live. Don't wish it here, live it here. It doesn't matter what you title the rock. Go out and live as a Gorean. Gor is not a chunk of claimed soil, it's the blood in your veins, the heart that beats within you. The disciplines within your mind. So would it matter if this were Earth or Gor? You tell me.....

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RE: Would the world be better if it was Gorean? - 4/20/2007 4:51:23 PM   
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Greetings to all. ~smiling~

Master Bull, that was quite a statement. Bravo.

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RE: Would the world be better if it was Gorean? - 4/20/2007 5:46:57 PM   
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Tal Bull and Leonidas
My thanks for taking time to give thought to my question(s). Leonidas I never said better. Methinks you should take another look if you are so inclined.
Bull I do appreciate the thought you gave to your response. It is my opinion that the way worlds are changed start first with an idea. Christianity started with an idea, non violence. Then others saw this as a better way than what their current philosophy was. So the size of the group grew as one person told another about a new way to deal with their world.
So this is an idea that each of us (as you said) must carry inside them and behave accordingly. But if we believe then maybe we should take it one step more and talk to others and help them put this in their hearts and minds. Wouldn't that be something,  holding people accountable, acting with honor and honesty. What a nice vision.

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RE: Would the world be better if it was Gorean? - 4/20/2007 6:05:58 PM   
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Did you title the thread?

Who's definition of honor?

Who's definition of honesty?

My honor, my honesty, my life.


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RE: Would the world be better if it was Gorean? - 4/20/2007 6:55:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Totalmaster4you

 It is my opinion that the way worlds are changed start first with an idea. Christianity started with an idea, non violence. Then others saw this as a better way than what their current philosophy was. So the size of the group grew as one person told another about a new way to deal with their world.
So this is an idea that each of us (as you said) must carry inside them and behave accordingly. But if we believe then maybe we should take it one step more and talk to others and help them put this in their hearts and minds. Wouldn't that be something,  holding people accountable, acting with honor and honesty. What a nice vision.


Greetings Totalmaster,
 
i believe this quote is very appropriate here...
 
You must be the change you want to see in the world.
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it is my humble belief that the best leaders lead by example, whether they be Master or slave~
 
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RE: Would the world be better if it was Gorean? - 4/20/2007 6:58:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Totalmaster4you
 Christianity started with an idea, non violence. Then others saw this as a better way than what their current philosophy was. So the size of the group grew as one person told another about a new way to deal with their world.


Actually, Christianity became the dominant culture in its region by much more traditional methods - specifically, war, genocide and the enslavement of other peoples.  Conversion by force was the historical norm.

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RE: Would the world be better if it was Gorean? - 4/20/2007 7:04:57 PM   
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I was hoping someone would point this out thought out.

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RE: Would the world be better if it was Gorean? - 4/20/2007 7:20:20 PM   
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Tal and Greetings , I have been Gorean for 9+ years and continue to see the ""new "" use this path as a way to abuse the power they are given yes i am strict but dominance in any form should  be done with love and nurturing . I tolerate no disobediance from my girl ,but in the same token we still have a relationship, she knows her place. If this world where to turn gorean some woudl love it ( myself ) maybe men woudl actually live by honur , and others woudl try to destroy just as mankind trys to destroy everything else it does not understand  , there are too many "" suits "" and not enough true warriors for anything with honour to ever take place. Plus ther are far too many that are far too young to ever have a clue what true honour really . I see it everyday disrespectful little twits that you woudl love to just run your through . anyhow tal and have a good evening

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RE: Would the world be better if it was Gorean? - 4/20/2007 8:00:46 PM   
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Greetings,

Define what it means to be Gorean, for you.


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RE: Would the world be better if it was Gorean? - 4/20/2007 8:09:36 PM   
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a simple answer to a simple question, without resorting to 40 layered semantic wranglings over subjectives... maybe :-P

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RE: Would the world be better if it was Gorean? - 4/20/2007 8:18:56 PM   
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RE: Would the world be better if it was Gorean? - 4/21/2007 4:44:04 AM   
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ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf

Did you title the thread?

Who's definition of honor?

Who's definition of honesty?

My honor, my honesty, my life.


Orion


Tal Orion,

Would also this deep thought of life be along the road of why there can't be a Gor island?  I think there can't be, because then why  would one type of council have the decisions, unless there were about 5 different councils, like many cities upon Gor.  The different cities had their own council, and so the civilisation then settled in their city to which best suited them. 

You words of living your honour, your honesty, your life is the bottom line of how you can live life to the fullest of your true self.  No crap, no bull shit, just you and your life.  The island would be big.  The thought of this is because your life would have others seeing fit to live it just like yourself, others seeing fit to live by their standards from the books in another part of the island.  No one would be right or wrong in their interpretation of the books, because it would be just living how best THEY can live it, simple.

Your words from the post are just simple and straight forward.  For that is how they should be, and that is why  questions in the forum would have many varied and wide answers from many people.

Be well.

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RE: Would the world be better if it was Gorean? - 4/21/2007 6:44:07 AM   
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Tal Frank,

Excellent! You are correct. Each as an individual would be true to themselves but they would also be drawn to others with common values. These would be communities (city states) that would have their own laws and regulations. Once the homestone is established for the community, an individual would then decide on whether to swear to that homestone. That vow should not be taken lightly because if two people hate each other within a community, they should still stand shoulder to shoulder when defending that homestone.

Many complexities within simple statements but one of my favorite philosophers is Lao Tzu, so I believe simple is often best.


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RE: Would the world be better if it was Gorean? - 4/21/2007 8:34:16 AM   
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What world is it that values these things you stated? Safety, Social Justice, Equality? The western society of earth I presume you mean? I have no doubt that certain stretches of this globe have no use for equality, comfort or freedom. Hell, just watch the News and you should get example enough of that. Certain Gorean type cultures exist on the third rock, of course the US doesn't like them very much. Then again are they all that Gorean as they insist a man live a certain way, wear his facial hair a certain way.


I was assuming that he was using "world" as some folks do, to mean culture.  Since he's standing behind a big Marvin the Martian, I figured it was a pretty safe bet he lives in the west, rather than Afganistan or some other place where the values I mentioned don't hold much water.

The fictional Gor was fictional, so it was possible to have many different cultures with basically the same underlying values and ethics.  So, you can compare "Gor" as a whole to a single society here on Earth.  Here on Earth, values are very different depending on where you are, as you pointed out, though there are some common themes, so it would be very difficult to compare "Gor" as a whole to "Earth" as a whole in the way that the OP was intending.


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Yes, I have many misgivings about my homestone, the good ole USA, but I do so little to change it, I am also part of the problem. How about you? I'd love to find a way to live as I see fit, but in our democratic free society, my way of living is illegal in parts and chastised in others. If this ole globe were Gor, wouldn't we need to do a great deal of house cleaning all the way around?


I live very much as I see fit.  As long as I don't infringe on anyone else's right to do so and conform to some basic requirements of the society around me, I can.  What I do to change it consists mostly of posting on these boards, to lend whatever support that represents to others who are trying to live similarly.

Societies run in cycles, Bull.  They rise, they prosper, and they fall.  Always have, always will.  It's because prosperous people become self-absorbed and complacent and are eventually supplanted by those who are hungrier.  In that way, success is its own worst enemy.  There is nothing that you or I are going to do to change that.  To the Gorean way of thinking, the Home Stone in your house is the most important, followed by the one that represents your village and so on outward.  What you and I can do is be good soveriegns over that Home Stone, and maybe contribute in some way to our neighbors out there who share our values.  Further from us than that is a foreign country.

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Wouldn't it be best if non emotional creatures that communicated through scent were judging the good from the bad. You and I would both rule the other out, and that would just be a clash of ego's having nothing to do with our strength of character.


The Priest Kings were in the books as a philosophical stand-in for the Will of God.  Unlike the gods folks worship here on Earth, though, they would actually strike you down if you pissed them off and kept a pretty tight reign on what was and wasn't allowed.  There is a line of philosophical thought that asserts that since we can't forsee the ultimate consequences of our actions, we cannot, as men, define right and wrong by what seems to us to be good (pleasant, beneficial, etc.) or bad (unpleasant, unfair, harmful).  The Priest Kings were in the books to resolve that philsophical question by making some choices that men would surely make (like inventing fire-arms) off limits.  Dr. Lange cheated, in other words.

So, would the world be better if we were an order of magnitude more intelligent than we are, and were able to forsee all possible ends to the actions that we take, and so could, therefore, truly judge right from wrong and then actually act on those judgements even if they weren't in our short-term interests? Yeah, probably.  We aren't so lucky, so we do things like inventing nuclear weapons because nuclear weapons solve a problem that we happen to be facing at the moment and so it seems a good thing to do.  Whether it was ultimately right, or wrong, to do so, we don't know yet, and depends some on your definition of "right" and "wrong".

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Gor exists only in the hearts of what I see to be good men. I reckon someone else would oppose that notion though.... You see there is only Earth and there is no other place... there is only various mindsets, We have out Gorean Banner, out colors if you will. But so long as Goreans fantasize abot what if's and butt heads over what some damn Authors intentions were, the Gorean way is no more adapt and leading a planet than the one we have.


Gor exists, or not, in what you choose to do, and not do, every day.  The Gorean way is not a model for leading this planet, and cannot be so.  As you pointed out, we have no priest-kings to sort out for us what the things that we shouldn't do, just because we can are, and enforce those judgements.  The Gorean way can only be a model for personal ethics and conduct.  It's enough.

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RE: Would the world be better if it was Gorean? - 4/21/2007 8:39:48 AM   
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Tal Bull and Leonidas
My thanks for taking time to give thought to my question(s). Leonidas I never said better. Methinks you should take another look if you are so inclined.


Sorry.  It looked to me like you asked if the world would be better if it was Gorean.  I'm getting pretty old, and my eyesight is admittedly not what it used to be.


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RE: Would the world be better if it was Gorean? - 4/21/2007 8:49:34 AM   
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That's because that's what the name of the post is.  "Would the world be better if it was Gorean?" 

I don't feel I know enough about Gor to agree or disagree with any of this.  Interesting topic, though. 

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RE: Would the world be better if it was Gorean? - 4/21/2007 1:49:14 PM   
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Tal G/goreans
G/greetings to others just visiting.
pineapplesub you are right about using better in the name of the post but it wasn't part of the actual questions in the thread. It's somewhat difficult to creat a title that expresses what you are writing about with the space limitations, so the questions (multiple)are, in this case, in the post not the title.
Leonidas your eyesight may not be what it once was but in the way you present your ideas and yourself make you more of a complete man than those who live every day without being the best they can be.
Najakcharmer-In the beginings of christianity the focus was non violence, turn the other cheek. The start was in Judea and then spread to the Roman world. Christians were persecuted for their non violent beliefs as well as having a G-D that slaves could pray too. It wasn't until Emporer Constantine became a christian that this changed and then christianity was spread as much by violence as it's teachings. Because that was the Roman way, to conquer, bring their culture to the conquered and absorb whatever was best about the conquered culture. But in the begining when the foundation of the religion were being placed it spread through non-violence.(I'm not completely positive the first Emporer to adopt christianity was Constantine so if I erred mea culpa)
My intent in tis post was to have people think how they as individuals can have an impact on their surroundings and by extention their communities etc. As well as to learn how others think about these questions. I wish you all well and thank you for sharing your thoughts with Me.

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RE: Would the world be better if it was Gorean? - 4/21/2007 4:41:15 PM   
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i have previously been trained in the gorean lifestyle and i was a real time gorean kajira for a while.  well if the world had to switch so to speak from the way it is now like overnight i would see that as an issue...i would think of it like this, someone starts telling others about it, then it spreads, like a religion (the previously posted christianity).  now, just to get rid of all the holy rollers that are like "that is a sin!  that is wrong!"  as if that will ever happen.  right now i think from personally experience, even telling someone in public that you have a Master they look at you funny.  i even used to wear the collar i had to work, and let me tell you i got some funny looks and a crap load of questions.  i looked at it as interest in the lifestyle although they probably just thought i was weird.  anyways, uh....do i think it would be better? hmmmmm....i think it would be a lot more civilized well, except for the constant battles, raids, and what not, but we have war and such now so that doesn't really matter lol.  okay, enought with the rambling.  carry on :P

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