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RE: On asking and accepting advice from other girls - 5/7/2007 11:25:13 PM

cariad

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Greetings fairer:

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It is only up to her, while she is uncollared, to state who and what she is. No one can disuade her from the knowledge deep in her soul that she is slave

well said sweet fairer, and again i thank you for reminding me of this.

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RE: On asking and accepting advice from other girls - 5/8/2007 4:56:49 AM

aeaa

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Greetings Masters & Mistresses,
Greetings girls,

aea would again like to thank everyone, especially Master Graywolf Tx and also NakedGirlScout. Both have made points that had not been considered fully in this context by aea.

aea wishes everyone well!

I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness.....I dont mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh God, as a woman i want to be Dominated. Anais Nin

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RE: On asking and accepting advice from other girls - 5/8/2007 7:04:21 AM

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"On asking and accepting advice from other girls "

The garbage IN and the garbage OUT rule sometimes applies.....

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RE: On asking and accepting advice from other girls - 5/9/2007 5:39:17 AM

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In regards to the post by Cinnfulhussy...Very well said!

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RE: On asking and accepting advice from other girls - 5/9/2007 6:02:18 AM

ehmCB

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greetings Masters
greetings Mistresses
greetings kajirae

this one has made a couple of posts in these forums and did regret the things she had said for the most part. slaves in these forums do tend to judge others in here without knowing a thing about them or the situation at hand. m has thought very deeply on this matter, m wishes to thank her chain sister sabba for all of help over these last few days for m now sees without her m would be making that trip to the nut house lol...
m would like to thank also the others who gave there advice but in the end m realized that m should not concern herself with what others think of m that her only concern has to be in pleasing and serving Master for without Him m would not exist.

well wishes

m

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RE: On asking and accepting advice from other girls - 5/9/2007 6:30:37 PM

aeaa

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Greetings Master Rapture,
Greetings Masters & Mistresses,
Greetings girls,

Master Rapture wrote:

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The garbage IN and the garbage OUT rule sometimes applies.....

Another thread on this forum proves that point. It strikes aea that despite the good intentions of a scant few, more girls are interested in the opportunity to step into a false role of dominance or superiority over other females. They not only scold, humiliate, correct, and direct other girls while overtly judging them, they dare to cross the line of making judgments and accusations towards the men that own or master such girls and worse? They express them publicly.

aea realizes that in posting this she has done at least some of the above by stating it so blatantly, but truly ... she shudders at times feeling like this is a bad reality take on "slaves gone wild."

aea wishes you well.

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RE: On asking and accepting advice from other girls - 5/9/2007 6:53:34 PM

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Greetings aeaa,

pasha has noticed this as well. She thinks that with some of the regular Masters not monitoring the boards anymore, some slaves have forgotten themselves just a bit~

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RE: On asking and accepting advice from other girls - 5/9/2007 7:07:19 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: aeaa

aea realizes that in posting this she has done at least some of the above by stating it so blatantly, but truly ... she shudders at times feeling like this is a bad reality take on "slaves gone wild."

aeaa,

If you feel it is improper, why would you do it yourself? It is POSSIBLE for you to keep quiet and no post, yet you choose not to. Are you under the impression that you are somehow better than those that you criticize, so its ok for you to do so? Thus far your posts have left the impression, at least for me, that you seem to think of yourself as some sort of superior uber slave. Is the opportunity to be self rightous really that hard to pass by? You have clearly, at least on some level, grasped the irony of what you are doing here from your statement above. I am wondering how long it will take you to realize the ego and hypocircy of it as well.

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Good luck,

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RE: On asking and accepting advice from other girls - 5/9/2007 8:48:54 PM

fairerthanshe

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Greetings krys,

Good to see you posting - fairer appreciates your point of view.

Greetings girls,

To fairer, the advice she receives from other slaves is just that and it is at her discretion what to absorb and what to let wash over her. she hopes the advice she has given in the past is taken in the same manner - her opinion of the world as she sees it. If it resonates for some and supports them on their journey, wonderful. If it holds no substance for another, then ignore it.

To fairer, the purpose of the slaves threads are to further us on the path to enslavement, not to dissuade or judge each other, and certainly not to cast aspertions on any of the Free involved. Gorean slavery is not an easy row to hoe. Were it not for the support, correction, affection, and overall generosity of spirit offered by her sister slaves in this venue, perhaps she would have walked away. There have certainly been days that have tried her soul. May she thank each and every one of the slaves who post and help her daily.

well wishes,

fairer than she

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RE: On asking and accepting advice from other girls - 5/10/2007 4:52:21 AM

aeaa

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Greetings Masters & Mistresses,
Greetings fairer and krys,
Greetings slaves,

krys, you wrote:

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I am wondering how long it will take you to realize the ego and hypocircy of it as well.

krys, aea made certain to point out herself the hypocrisy of her post. So it took her no time at all to see the hypocrisy of her words. Ego? Hardly.

Yes, she could have remained quiet. Sometimes one takes a risk rather than to remain quiet. It's what aea chose to do. It's what each one of us does, just as you did, when you made your post.

aea doesn't not think of herself as anything more or anything less than she is, a female desirous to be owned and mastered by a Gorean man. Needless to say, but said nonetheless, you are certainly entitled to your own impression of her.

fairer, aea enjoys your posts very much. They are very down-to-earth and filled with common sense. Your optimistic and positive attitude is something for aea to aspire to. Thank you.

aea wishes everyone well.

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RE: On asking and accepting advice from other girls - 5/10/2007 5:02:56 AM

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Greetings aea,

i completely agree with krys. My first reaction to your OP here was one of gee i hope it doesn't rain cause that girl is going to drown in her superiority of how good and perfect she is as slave. I have wrote a couple posts regarding the same but choose not to post them as i am pmsing and figured i may be seeing something others were not. Which was why i haven't responded before now.

You seem to be the pot calling the kettle black. Have you never heard the concept people in glass houses? I don't know if you think people just won't see it or what, but in another thread you jumped right on the bandwagon of critizing and the superiority concept of ohhh i would never do such a thing as being done here idea. You seem a smart intelligent woman, however, i have to agree with krys you do seem awfully superior and my leavings don't stink idea going on.

All Men don't micromanage their slaves so the concept of it will be done the way the Man wants it done is flawed. Many Men want a result and they don't care how a slave really gets the result. Therefore, sometimes talking to others helps a woman get done what she needs to get done or get a different perspective.. And sometimes there are only things women especially women who are actually slaves understand about what a woman is going through. While becoming a Man's slave is found at the feet of a Man, the Man is not a "all knowing" god, he is simply a Man,. It will only be done his exact way if he wishes it that way. Most Men as far as i know like a result with some direction but rarely do they give step by step concepts of programing because many don't have the time, many realize their slaves may know how to accomplish the result without their direction and some don't give a damn lol as long as the result is there..

angel

revised to sound better.

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RE: On asking and accepting advice from other girls - 5/10/2007 4:03:34 PM

aeaa

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Greetings Masters & Mistresses,
Greetings barelynangel,

aea appreciates your candidness and again, aea believes she was the first to point out her own hypocrisy in the post she made. she knew it, she risked it nonetheless.

Again, as for whatever views and or impressions each make of aea, that is theirs to do.

Each of our mileage and experience may vary as a manner of speaking. aea's experience perhaps has not been to be micro-managed, but neither to seek out an answer someone else has worked to find. aea was taught to learn things and find things on her own, of her own merit, not someone else's. she has usually been given ample time to do just that.

For aea, that doesn't make one way right or one wrong, one better or one worse necessarily, however, for aea it was something new to learn about and to seek to understand better. she has seen a lot of positive responses which have made her consider the positive points. she has also seen those that have left her with some doubt.

aea wishes you well.

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