None of us are blank slates and one person's catharsis is on a couch while another's is on all fours under the falls of a flogger. Each unto their own and all with potential validity. --Me
May you live as long as you wish & love as long as you live -Robert A Heinlein It's about the person & the bond,not the bondage -Me Waiting is 170NZ (Aka:Sex God Du Jour) pts Jesus,I've ALWAYS been a deviant -Leadership527,Jeff