slavekal
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Good idea. Here is a bit of the preface.
PREFACE
“You can’t get what you want ‘til you know what you want.”
Joe Jackson
If you’re reading this book, you are probably a guy like me. Ever since I was a child, I knew that I wanted to be a slave to a dominant woman. Not so much wanted, as I needed to be under the spell of a dominant woman. When I first saw images on television of women using their erotic power to seduce men, to make them do things they initially were resistant to do, I was transfixed. I instinctively knew that those were my kind of women. I had no attraction to the good girl who needed saving. You can keep Lois Lane and Sweet Polly Purebred. I’ll take Catwoman every time. I wanted to be manipulated and dominated by the bad girl, the girl who wore black, who smoked using a long black cigarette holder, the femme fatale with the eastern European accent. I know I’m not the only man with such a history. Having been involved in the female domination lifestyle for most of my life, I’ve met a lot of men with similar interests. In the internet age, I have participated in many female dominant themed message boards. I have read the accounts of dozens of men who state that they too can trace back to early childhood their desires to submit to women.
Since I was twenty years old, every relationship I have been in has been female dominant in nature. At the time of this writing I have, for over five years, been in service to a beautiful, intelligent, and accomplished dominant woman. I blog about the fantastic experiences I enjoy under her heel. I get emails and messages from guys all over the world telling me how lucky I am to serve such a wonderful woman. Even guys in the scene who I know personally have told me how fortunate I am. I agree. I am lucky. But I made that luck happen.
Some of the correspondence that I get is from men who live in cities that are much more cosmopolitan and sophisticated than the one in which I live. When I hear them bemoaning their lack of a Mistress to serve, when I hear them express the wish that they lived in the backward Midwestern city I’m from, I realize that there are a lot of guys who could use some guidance. Men from Los Angeles, London and New York, places known for their large populations of dominatrixes and their femdom parties should not envy me. There’s no reason to be jealous of the guy stuck in Smallville when you’re living in Metropolis.
Here is the beginning of chapter two...
CHAPTER 2
MISCONCEPTIONS
“You got the ill communication.”
Beastie Boys
“Woman is the dominant sex. Men have to do all sorts of stuff to prove that they are worthy of woman's attention.”
Camille Paglia
One enormous misconception a lot of guys believe is that there aren’t any dominant women out there. Or that “all the good ones are taken”. This is just not so. I will admit that dyed in the wool, to the bone dominatrixes are relatively rare, but there are still enough to go around. And that isn’t counting all the ladies who have secret fantasies they have yet to explore. Let’s assume that only one in ten women have sexually dominant personalities. If you live in a city with a million women, then there are a hundred thousand potential Mistresses for you in your local area. If we paint a dimmer picture, say that there are only one in twenty women who have Mistress potential, you still have fifty thousand to choose from. And hypothetical situations aside, I know from personal experience that there are far more closet dominatrixes out there than you would think. I read once a long time ago that the leather clad dominant woman is a mere fantasy thought up by men but nonexistent in reality. Trust me, that is not the case. There are a lot of women in this world who are either already actively living the life of the domina or who, with a
little encouragement, could be. Don’t you believe for a second that there are not women out there who would love for you to be their slave. I know for a fact that there are dominant women who are frustrated by the dearth of quality submissive men. I personally know women who would love to meet a man who wants to serve them. So don’t tell me there are no dominant women out there.
And a little from chapter six.
For your first party, just wear all black and they’ll let you in. If you happen to own a tux, that’s always a smooth move. You can be all James Bond. Please don’t try to get away with blue jeans and gym shoes. Even if you somehow get in, you will look out of place. Some Mistresses see it as disrespectful when people come to a fetish party dressed for a ballgame. Although you don’t have to spring for a whole new wardrobe right off, it won’t hurt to pick up an accessory or two. Ten or fifteen bucks will get you a studded leather belt. That’s always a cool quasi fetish item. I highly recommend stopping at a pet store and picking up a dog collar and leash. I prefer a black leather collar with metal studs. You just let that collar hang there, and fiddle with it a bit the way Jay Leno fiddles with his tie when he delivers his nightly monologue. I can almost guarantee that sometime during the night, a lady will grab your leash and pull you toward her. Sometimes she’ll ask, “Who do you belong to?” A nice smile and a “Nobody, ma’am,” will likely get you some nice kneeling and serving time at her feet.
Plenty more where that came from.
< Message edited by slavekal -- 11/25/2008 5:30:03 PM >
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