Headhoncho65
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Well I am not sure what to say about the above reply, but many people have more then one profile on here. My slave has one and I have our cpls one. As for living arrangements, did you once think they could have moved......duh! Anyway, on to my reply........My slave (wife) and I have been together many years and have been in this life before meeting. We enjoy a wide variety of play, but that is not all this is about. For Me, it is about the love I feel from her submission and the love I have for her that is probably more so then any vanilla relationship, especially a married one. My suggestion is to read, read and do more reading to start with. Learn the basics of a M/s relationship, learn about the huge bond between 2. Then take the next step and learn about the training, think about what You desire from Your slave and what she needs and desires. Goto conferences, semenars, munches, they are a wonderful way of learning about the life, Yourself and Your slave. Learn the mental part of the life. Your slave needs Your Dominance, she needs Your training, and she needs the structure. I do tend to micromanage somewhat and My slave is just perfect for Me. Tasks, journals, etc. I even journal and at times do allow My lil one to read some of the entries so that she is aware of My feelings especially towards her whether it be pleasing or displeasing. Networking teaches much, although You must be careful who You network with. Some great places are Dark Connections and Fetlife I find. Just remember, there are many so called sub/slaves, especially on here, or those that are only submissive to a point then want to do their own thing. There are many who collar and uncollar in the blink of an eye (all fakes), make this life seem a joke. Do not be one of them. One thing I will say is that once You do find that true sub/slave, which it appears You have, You will never ever find anyone more loyal and dedicated to You as she is, so hold on and work at building. My slave and I did not need to get married, we knew who we were to one another, but as her Master that was the only way to make sure she was taken take of properly financially, mentally, emotionally, and physically, if anything was to happen to Me. That and I am a bit on the jealous side and made sure I had the ultimate hold on her, lol Headhoncho65
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