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UK-based dom looking for California fun - 2/23/2016 7:02:07 AM

northwind1234

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Hi,

I am an experienced dom living in the south-east of the UK. I'm in a LTR with my gorgeous sub and very happy. We are monogamous, except sometimes I take the opportunity to play and learn more when I travel for business. This has benefits for both of us - I learn more as a dom through new experiences and when I get back my LTR seems a little, well, newer and exciting.

I'm going to be in San Jose in May 2016 and will have 2 days free to drive up the coast to SF, explore and enjoy the scenery, food and anything else. I'm looking for a willing and appreciative submissive partner to come with me.
I'm looking for someone who is interesting, talkative and fun as well as compliant, open and keen in the bedroom.
I want someone who I can build an online relationship with before meeting up in a few months. I will explore your needs and limits online, as well as sharing my own expectations before we meet so that we can make the best use of our time together.
Whilst I'm not looking for any financial involvement as an old school gentleman I expect to cover the cost of our travel, accommodation etc.

If this sounds like you, lets talk. I will be happy to share photos by email and lets take it from there.

NW

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RE: UK-based dom looking for California fun - 2/24/2016 5:57:02 AM

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I'm not sure if I understand you. Monogamous means you do not have any sexual partners other than the one you have. If you are seeking other partners while on business trips without her knowledge while saying it is for her benefit, that is called cheating. You are such an experienced Dom. I would hate to think you are lying and being dishonest with your partner. That goes against what a D/s relationship is about.

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RE: UK-based dom looking for California fun - 2/25/2016 2:39:52 AM

northwind1234

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Hi Peppermint,

I think we have both got this wrong - I have not been clear and you have made a rather big assumption. What I should have been clear on is that my travel 'playtime' is with the full knowledge and support of my partner. She agrees with the sentiment and benefit. I was wrong not to make that clear in my original post.

No harm done.

Still looking for anyone up for a bit of causal fun. No offence intended for those who have different values.

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RE: UK-based dom looking for California fun - 2/25/2016 3:35:47 AM

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Here's what I would do if I were you...

There is a kink scene in San Jose. I would research munches, clubs, and major kink events to attend. Contact the organizers for attendance assurance. Say "hi" to folks.

Right now, you're trying to be a "drive-by," which most people aren't going for.

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RE: UK-based dom looking for California fun - 2/27/2016 3:14:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: northwind1234

Hi Peppermint,

I think we have both got this wrong - I have not been clear and you have made a rather big assumption. What I should have been clear on is that my travel 'playtime' is with the full knowledge and support of my partner. She agrees with the sentiment and benefit. I was wrong not to make that clear in my original post.

No harm done.

Still looking for anyone up for a bit of causal fun. No offence intended for those who have different values.

This is why I said I didn't understand you. I wasn't sure what to believe. So glad you cleared it up. Online can be so difficult sometimes to make everything understandable.

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Yes, I am crazy about feathered creatures. I have a dozen chickens, 3 ducks, 5 geese, and 2 parakeets.

Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.

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RE: UK-based dom looking for California fun - 2/27/2016 6:11:40 PM

Spiritedsub2

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Oh, undoubtedly your monogamous partner is all in favor of your travel playtime. Absolutely believable. Most women are like that.

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