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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/3/2007 6:38:00 AM   
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crazy were you at folsom?

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/3/2007 6:40:41 AM   
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oh I didnt mean that to sound like i never have trust issues ocilla...lol....i have them all the time. i usually try to talk to the person about the issues im having and if im not happy with the answers or the feeling im getting i walk. i guess i have gotten alot more cynical also with all the internet subs that want to try to immeadiately become "collared". in my experience( and this is just mine) i have found that most of these people tend to be "playing" at this and its not truly who they are.

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/3/2007 6:42:07 AM   
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oh and angel im going to hold you to that 5 minutes of nibbling just as soon as i can lift my head<weg>

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/3/2007 6:44:20 AM   
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Yep...:).

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/3/2007 6:49:43 AM   
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I have known what it's like to wear another's collar. Prior to me being collared at the time, I had been in constant daily contact with my former Master for 8 months before he brought me into his house. After I was there for 2 weeks, he made the choice to place his collar around my neck. Looking back, I feel it was too soon for hm doing that but it wasn't me decision  and I hadn't asked for his collar. When the time happens where I do find another Dom, it'll be a long time yet before I'd feel comfortable enough to want/need to wear a collar again.


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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/3/2007 6:50:52 AM   
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Trust is a huge issue of mine. I don't think there is anyone who isn't just we have diffrent ways of dealing with it.

I tell people i trust them tell they break that trust, and in daily friendships this is true. The minute i am in a relationship...they have to prove they are trust worthy. I know....it ass backwards.

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/3/2007 6:51:50 AM   
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Sounds like to me it's your way of self protection on an emotional level.

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/3/2007 6:53:41 AM   
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yea this is why i was trying to stress that it was my opinion only....i dont judge others on when they do or do not collar, and im sure there have been cases where it feels right from the first day...but for me thats just not the case.......lol......maybe im just a grumpy old fart lmao...but the net people that want it right now those are the ones i really have a hard time not only believing but even talking to.

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/3/2007 6:53:41 AM   
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It is....but it also keeps those who would have actually really cared for me at bay.

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/3/2007 6:54:59 AM   
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yea cc that can be a real problem...and i think its happened to all of us at some point

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/3/2007 6:57:22 AM   
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Ditto to that.  I don't think I've ever met anyone who didn't have some semblance of a trust issue.

Some days, I feel like I am the poster child for trust issues.

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/3/2007 6:57:50 AM   
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Yep!  Been there and done that many times over the years! 

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/3/2007 6:59:41 AM   
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yeah cc..I have this tendency too.  As to the collaring...imo that is a big deal and should have reciprocity.  If someone wants to collar a sub there has to be consent by the sub as well.

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/3/2007 7:01:07 AM   
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thanks yall...I feel better already.  I am in good company. lol.  I trust everyone of you...how fucked up is that. lol

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/3/2007 7:05:33 AM   
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I am constantly suprised by the volumes of male subs that are married and their significant other knows nothing.  Why on earth do these men think that being in a relationship with them would have any appeal to me?  I mean I would always be at the very best of times 2nd and most of the time probably further back on the list than 2nd...

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/3/2007 7:05:53 AM   
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scifi, we do have this back ass time thing, don't we?

hello ocilla *hugs*

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/3/2007 7:07:57 AM   
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I gotta go to the bank - business is calling.  Crazy I hope to hear some folsom stories from you!

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/3/2007 7:09:43 AM   
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hugs to Angel!  I think you are making serious progress lady.  Seems like you are slowly but surely getting that elepahnt eaten.

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/3/2007 7:12:51 AM   
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lol damn right we do angel lol......ahhhh the phone once this dumb ass client finishes ranting i can snooze in angels lap lol.

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/3/2007 7:17:14 AM   
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hugs to Angel! I think you are making serious progress lady. Seems like you are slowly but surely getting that elepahnt eaten.


hehe, i'm eliminating elephant from my diet as soon as possible!!!!

thanks ocilla. making strides.

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