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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/11/2007 11:36:34 AM   
cuffnspankme


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Status: offline 		I need some help here, both from the Dom/mes and subs.
In the last two days I have been presented with the opportunity to take a friend of mine as a sub to myself. He is totally new to submitting. I planted the idea in his head when we met. Not to be sub but about the lifestyle. I rarely hide this side of me from partners or new friends that are vanilla. He wasn't into it and that was fine, we still had fun. The man can make me squirt. *sigh* About a year ago we were playing around and I turned him onto the pleasures of anal stimulation during a blow job. He loved it, wanted more. I am guessing that may have really triggered his thoughts of submission. He says hes looked at and read things on the net and wants to try this with me. We are set to meet at a hotel tomorrow night and he has asked me to bring a toy to use on him. I am so very excited, I already have him not cumming until I say he can tomorrow night.
 
As of right now he does not have access to the internet so I can't have him research things. So I guess I am looking for some good book titles that I can have him buy to read. I am also looking for help in negotiation. The last time I topped someone he was my Dom and we just swapped roles. He says he is open to anything but being leashed and being peed on. I know that he does not realize the enormity of all this lifestyle is and I have tried to get him to understand that in our talks via text message. He keeps asking what I want him to do and what rules are, etc... I tell him he will find out friday night. I have a few rules in mind. I think that starting small and slow here is the thing to do. Sort of ease him in. He wants to jump in with both feet though. Thoughts? Opinions? Lay em on me. I am somewhat nervous about me doing something wrong here and totally screwing things up.
 
Thank you for your help in advance. I am also posting this in the Ask a Master Board.

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/11/2007 11:53:20 AM   
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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/11/2007 11:55:37 AM   
divi


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Status: offline 		soooo Ghita.. do share about you and Jacob ?? lol

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/11/2007 11:59:20 AM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		oooh..I thought everyone here knew already? Jacob is the current crush of my life.....although he currently resides in another country so I know my dreams will never be realized....sigh....anyway, he's hawt and I really enjoy my chats with him on the other side....my Daddy refers to him as the other man in my life....grins...Daddy also refers to Donna as the other woman in my life...lol....

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/11/2007 12:01:38 PM   
cuffnspankme


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Status: offline 		Jacob is hawt. My major crush as been MIA for weeks now. I miss him and b.
I do have D~ and e01n. They are also a crush of mine and oh so much closer then ME...

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/11/2007 12:03:51 PM   
divi


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Status: offline 		its all good.. I'm always the last to find things out lol..He is a cutie and lucky hehe !!

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/11/2007 12:05:39 PM   
divi


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Status: offline 		okay girls you pulled it out of me ... I have a crush !..god you bitches are so mean lol

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/11/2007 12:07:05 PM   
cuffnspankme


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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/11/2007 12:08:11 PM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		cuffs you can chat with them at the other site....

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/11/2007 12:09:23 PM   
cuffnspankme


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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/11/2007 12:09:55 PM   
divi


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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/11/2007 12:13:23 PM   
cuffnspankme


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Status: offline 		You know you want to tell us divi. Ghita and I have said ours...

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/11/2007 12:13:26 PM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		yea...uhm...Divi.....did you really think that was a secret??

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/11/2007 12:14:51 PM   
NewJustlookin


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Status: offline 		*Slips in to hear Divi Secret* Then *Slips right out*

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/11/2007 12:15:00 PM   
cuffnspankme


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Status: offline 		Oh geez, DUH I am slow.Other things on my mind, heh.

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/11/2007 12:15:09 PM   
divi


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Status: offline 		yes omg !!

anyway it was mine till he just made me mad.. so he is so not my crush no more ! lol

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/11/2007 12:18:10 PM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		LMAO...you know what they say..easy come easy go....lol....oh well....

My crush has yet to make me mad...so he is definantly still a crush....although he hasnt yet acknoledged my crush yet so *shrugs* oh well..a girl can dream cant she....

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/11/2007 12:19:09 PM   
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< Message edited by beargonewild -- 10/11/2007 12:20:03 PM >

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/11/2007 12:20:20 PM   
divi


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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/11/2007 12:20:50 PM   
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< Message edited by beargonewild -- 10/11/2007 12:21:09 PM >

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