Gwynvyd
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ORIGINAL: LadyRainfire Gwyn, I hate to sound like a bitch but I'm not even sure I want my ex with a decent person. Well, the fact that he hasn't even looked at another woman since our divorce (2001), hasn't dated anyone, makes that kind of moot, doesn't it? That was one of his "things" - that I'm actually involved with another man, let alone left the states for Canada to move in with said man and that we're getting married. (And he owed $11,000 in back support, which is what he was trying to get out from....) I hope your ex, even if he is an ass, gets out from that woman. Drugs are nasty stuff and Lumus will tell you that I have zero tolerance for them. Seen the damage they do firsthand way too many times. Well I am usualy friends with all of my exes... it is an odd odd thing for most I guess.. but *shrugs* just how I am.. He is one of the 2 I am not. She has made it impossible to be even in contact with him for his ums sake. ~ she rips the phone away from him.. and would get verbaly abusive to my um. ~ totaly not acceptable. I have never allowed drugs to be around me.. or any of my friends.. I was a bloody K-9 officer. I *know* what they do to people. His gf simply has a drug addled brain.. and the personality to match. When we go to court she gets thrown out of the courthouse each time for her behavior. It is so sad. I think if he had a decent woman she would keep him in line. When I dated him I made sure he paid his 1st wife's child support.. and went and saw his um with her. I forced him to do the things he should have done. *shrugs* oh well. Gwyn
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