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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/21/2008 8:26:56 PM   
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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/21/2008 8:30:57 PM   
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*mutters something about pulled pork*

The boys can go play video games and kills lots of pixels.


Gwyn,
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Hmmm I seem to have created an addiction for da pregnant one...

Oh...No bugging BlackPhx..he is sworn to secrecy and won't tell you what I have up my sleeve.  I am plotting...just not telling.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/21/2008 8:37:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: auroraborealis


*mutters something about pulled pork*

The boys can go play video games and kills lots of pixels.


Gwyn,
Hormone induced woman


Hmmm I seem to have created an addiction for da pregnant one...

Oh...No bugging BlackPhx..he is sworn to secrecy and won't tell you what I have up my sleeve.  I am plotting...just not telling.

poenkitten



addicted I tell ya *Addicted!*

Hmm does it involve the Cross? *muhahahahaha*

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Gwyn,
*running off to bed, and passing out huggles on the way*

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/21/2008 8:46:42 PM   
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Hug him tight sugar and I know it is not going to get any easier...are they able to do anything to help even him out some? Have a friend whose son is also manic with more than a few other problems tossed in, violence is almost a daily occurrence in their home, by him. I know it is not easy and hope that each night as you rest, you know despite all they put you through, they love you as much as you love them.


I hugged the stuffin' outta him and rocked him to sleep like a wee one.  (He's still my wee one, even if he is just a few inches shy of being as tall as me, and dammit, I'm almost 6 feet tall, lol).  He's under treatment, but sometimes we get blindsided by Mr. Hyde.  Tonight was one of those nights.  He hates it as much as I do, which is the saddest part, because he can't help it when the dark side rears its ugly head.  It makes him nuts and he cries and begs me to help it go away.  I do what I can, but mostly, I just have to keep everyone safe, and ride it out until we can make peace again.

It's slowly getting better as he gets older and can (after it's all said and done) verbalize what he's feeling and how the rage takes over, and how he struggles to get it under control. 

When all is said and done, everyone is exhausted and emotionally spent, but if the mommy and Thing 1 have anything to say about it... it's going to be made right before we go to sleep.

< Message edited by Daddysredhead -- 9/21/2008 8:47:30 PM >

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/21/2008 8:56:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		Love Shown In Silence

A love shown in silence
Gives the
Strength and hope
A mother needs
To carry on

You can see it
Any time you look
In their
Eyes, a smile or a touch
It is always there

In the
Most difficult times
A mother always
Knows it's there
Somewhere

Even during a rage
There often times
Is a look of desperation
In their eyes
That says "Help me!"

A glance or touch
May say it too
These desperate children
That don't understand
What is going on in their own brains

It can be said
With a desperate hug
After words said in
Anger and haste
"Help me!"

Tears may say what
The mouth cannot
"I'm sorry
For what I've done"
"I love you. Do you still love me?"

It is this silent love
That keeps us going
No matter how tough
It gets
A mothers love never dies


cmail red

< Message edited by KMsAngel -- 9/21/2008 8:58:01 PM >

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/21/2008 8:58:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		im so sorry Red my ex was the same way, it broke my heart. unfortunatly he had a high tolerance of meds, so about the time they started to work they stopped working and we'd start a new one. it was so hard for him and so hard for family and friends. My son has it now at 7, and to tell you the truth i havent done a thing about it after the nightmares i went through with his father..... wishing there was a better plan of action
hang in there red kisses ~t~


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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/21/2008 9:37:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		Angel...  this is exactly what I was talking about.  Moms of BPD Things must all know what this is like.  A group experience, experienced alone.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/21/2008 9:44:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		Tammy, I'm sorry that you understand all too well what I'm talking about.  My ex has BPD (rapid cycling) and Thing 1 does, too.  My ex never stayed on his meds because he preferred to drink heavily and self-medicate.  Oh well, he doesn't live with me anymore, and I think he may have slowed down on the drinking some, but he'll never admit that he has BPD because he sees that as an imperfection for his "image."  Anyway...  I wish you much success with your Thing.  If you think that he may benefit from treatment, all I can say is don't put it off.  If I wouldn't have gotten him help when Thing 1 was 8, all I would have left of him now is a headstone.

*hugs for the momma*

(edited for major typo)

< Message edited by Daddysredhead -- 9/21/2008 9:46:04 PM >

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/21/2008 9:45:54 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: KMsAngel

Love Shown In Silence

A love shown in silence
Gives the
Strength and hope
A mother needs
To carry on

You can see it
Any time you look
In their
Eyes, a smile or a touch
It is always there

In the
Most difficult times
A mother always
Knows it's there
Somewhere

Even during a rage
There often times
Is a look of desperation
In their eyes
That says "Help me!"

A glance or touch
May say it too
These desperate children
That don't understand
What is going on in their own brains

It can be said
With a desperate hug
After words said in
Anger and haste
"Help me!"

Tears may say what
The mouth cannot
"I'm sorry
For what I've done"
"I love you. Do you still love me?"

It is this silent love
That keeps us going
No matter how tough
It gets
A mothers love never dies


cmail red



That was beautiful and perfect angel  kisses


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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/21/2008 9:54:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

Tammy, I'm sorry that you understand all too well what I'm talking about.  My ex has BPD (rapid cycling) and Thing 1 does, too.  My ex never stayed on his meds because he preferred to drink heavily and self-medicate.  Oh well, he doesn't live with me anymore, and I think he may have slowed down on the drinking some, but he'll never admit that he has BPD because he sees that as an imperfection for his "image."  Anyway...  I wish you much success with your Thing.  If you think that he may benefit from treatment, all I can say is don't put it off.  If I wouldn't have gotten him help when Thing 1 was 8, all I would have left of him now is a headstone.

*hugs for the momma*

(edited for major typo)


Thanks Red!! Your always so sweet! Even when Your going through the hardest of times!
My fear is that of putting a child on ridiline type thing. My fear is that sometimes the meds make things so much worse, but i do agree and fear the headstone in the future as that is how his father went at age 34. He too self medicated and drank, got in with the wrong bunch after i left him and started the oxycotin cocaine thing along with enough beer to get us all wasted, and they found him one morning dead in his truck so sad. and i can tell ya its the worst feeling in the world to get that phone call and have to tell the kids, a day ill never forget a funeral ill never understand and still haunts me to this day.
My mom had to tell us that our father passed away three girls ages 12,8,4 me being the youngest and i still will never forget the sights the sounds the smells the thoughts. Its been hell worrying about the kids knowing what theyve been through andthen for their mom to go down so hard with the damn fibro....but they are doing ok especially my lil girl the oldest, even though she still cries alot about her daddy she is amazing beyond belief, my son is a prankster, but again serious issues, throwing things at my door when he doesnt like what i say, rages fits constant crying and whinning, all still at the age of 7. im at a lose to know what to do, therapy meds.... sometimes its to surreal to believe, but i know ive been thinking nothing but of late as to what to do which will include a doctor first....sighs
thanks dear red your so awesome hang in there girl !!


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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/21/2008 10:10:27 PM   
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I'm so sorry that you have had to live through such terrible circumstances in your life.  Bless you for being so strong, and coming out on the other side.  If you think your Thing needs to see someone, talk to someone, do it.  It has been a really long road for us, but I don't regret any of it if it means that Thing 1 will be better in the long run.  Depending on the (or any) diagnosis, any meds prescribed will be closely monitored as you know.  Lord knows I'm familiar with many of them, but the current "cocktail" seems to be doing better than anything else we've tried.  If you want, please contact me on the flip side, even if it's just to vent.

Love, Red

< Message edited by Daddysredhead -- 9/21/2008 10:12:46 PM >

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/21/2008 10:18:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		im always sounding like a greek tragedy...sorry, my life is filled with wonder and laughter and fun... take for example my son who cant stop getting in trouble at school the latest;

SKIPPING  (strictly prohibited) down the hall, sneaking in the girls bathroom just to flip the lights off ditto for the boys room and for a couple of classrooms all as he was coming back from the principals office for playinga prank on the teacher!!!

tonight at dinner with his huge monkey strapped on his back while my back is turned to him, he is standing up in his chair at dinner table, singing a pirate song, and eating his steak with his fingers!!!   i asked him to try and use his table mannors, didnt your mother teach you anything son?  what i have a mother, no way, is she nice, does she like pirates and monkeys and cute lil boys?  NO she doesnt! lol

always always doing something always  o and today learned to take a half bottle of water and drink it and push it up through his nose in a giant raging water fall....how in the world????

invest in natural instincts mom, ya really need it!


in all seriousness thank You very much and the same goes for You always love, and i will get to the doctor with him very soon.


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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/21/2008 10:28:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		Such wonderful tricks they learn.  *sigh*  I'm glad that you are able to laugh.  That's my number 1 coping skill. 

Well, I need to get some sleep.  Good night and God bless, you all.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/21/2008 10:37:37 PM   
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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/21/2008 10:37:56 PM   
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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/21/2008 10:42:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		i know this is the hate it thread, but i just gotta say this is one amazing group of women here...i missed a lot today, but i just read every word that i missed & i am awe-struck by all of you...Red, you touch my heart with your strong faith & capacity for love...tammy, you have such difficulties & you still find the silliness, which keeps the spirits up...poen, thank you sooooo much for reminding me how to deal with the pain...it's been with me in some form or another for over 25 years now & it sometimes takes over & i forget because i just become nothing but the pain...when i read of everyone else's stuff, that also reminds me how incredible we women are...for those i didn't mention, i feel the same about you all...what poen wrote about us the other day said it best......i'm so glad i found you & hope to meet all of you in person one day for real life hugs......

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/21/2008 10:43:32 PM   
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i know this is the hate it thread, but i just gotta say this is one amazing group of women here...i missed a lot today, but i just read every word that i missed & i am awe-struck by all of you...Red, you touch my heart with your strong faith & capacity for love...tammy, you have such difficulties & you still find the silliness, which keeps the spirits up...poen, thank you sooooo much for reminding me how to deal with the pain...it's been with me in some form or another for over 25 years now & it sometimes takes over & i forget because i just become nothing but the pain...when i read of everyone else's stuff, that also reminds me how incredible we women are...for those i didn't mention, i feel the same about you all...what poen wrote about us the other day said it best......i'm so glad i found you & hope to meet all of you in person one day for real life hugs......



This is why I am so proud of this thread.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/21/2008 11:28:27 PM   
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i know this is the hate it thread, but i just gotta say this is one amazing group of women here...i missed a lot today, but i just read every word that i missed & i am awe-struck by all of you...Red, you touch my heart with your strong faith & capacity for love...tammy, you have such difficulties & you still find the silliness, which keeps the spirits up...poen, thank you sooooo much for reminding me how to deal with the pain...it's been with me in some form or another for over 25 years now & it sometimes takes over & i forget because i just become nothing but the pain...when i read of everyone else's stuff, that also reminds me how incredible we women are...for those i didn't mention, i feel the same about you all...what poen wrote about us the other day said it best......i'm so glad i found you & hope to meet all of you in person one day for real life hugs......


darling if ever you need a friend to call and scream at during the most difficult of pain , i am here always, as i know pain, i live pain , i breath pain...ugggg and i love it when my doctor tells me ibuprofin 800mg BID, like that would touch the pain in my freakin; lil toe....but than again i am the one refusing the pain clinic cause the moment i got there there was nothing but prescriptions and narcotics everywhere, and 400 pages to sign saying i wont sell em i wont take too many i wont take too little i cant give them to my kids (i added that one, besides nyquil works better, JK) blaah blaah blaah

love all of you bunches!! i can come here and know im welcome (sometimes) and lubbed!!  i think it was you lucious who created this thread and for that i thank You you sexy thing you!!!!


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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/21/2008 11:32:28 PM   
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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/21/2008 11:35:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		so does this mean i can have your number so before i write a really ridiculous letter to Master explaining 500 reasons why He shouldnt be with me and goodbye, i can just call you and scream for an hour?  ok how about 20 minutes....ya can scream back


(hell ya can put the phone down in the closet and run)     smiles and kisses


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