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ORIGINAL: SavageFaerie I can relate to that, my two oldest had lots of problems because their father totally deserted them. After the 3rd was born there was jealousy the he had a real in person dad. Several years ago said deadbeat come down to Texas with his 3 girls and they finally got to met, he did the whol 12 step crap and asked if there was anyway to make up for it...told his 18 years child support would be great. What was sad is that the older of the other 3 never found out she had a borther and sister till she was 18. And it was never about family feuds, he just up and left leaving me with the kids.Kids heard from him 1 time in all those years, he sent my son a letter with a small coin collection, my daughter didnt get squat. Its kills me to no end how um are the victims of it. Adults and cope, ums just cant understand. Yeah... he just up and left is what happened with us. He knew I existed because my Aunt would talk to him occasionally over the phone but that was it. The really sucky part, for me, is that the pain just doesn't seem to end. My mother and her sister were abandoned but I also feel abandoned because somewhere out there my grandfather didn't want anything to do with his granddaughter. Which sucks. I think sometimes people really underestimate how nice having loving grandparents is for a kid and I never really had any. The positive side is that Val's grandparents have taken a shine to me and I make sure that he sends cards, letters and calls since I know how lucky he is to have them. Which is probably part of why they like me!
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Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me Member:Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair
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