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You know if it was the D/s side that had the problem with the fibro, i could deal with it, and do MOST of the time. Its my boring day to day life that is in question. I hear all the time, i work so and so hour a week do this and do that, YOU have plenty of time to get this or that done!!!!! o my God i want to scream at them and remind them of who i used to be working 90 hours a week (no exaggeration) with the kids at work with me, etc etc.
Sometimes it does get in the way of "play". That really sucks, i end up crying because my body betrays me.
thanks everyone! massive hugs!
Ahhhh... Tammy...... from one person with Fibro to another.... I feel ya! It sounds like yours is worse than mine, but then mine is secondary to the Lupus.
It truely, without exception or doubt, positively Absolutely SUCKS to not be able to do what we used to do, what we Want to do, and a lot of the time what we NEED to do - because if we do, we pay for it with pain that makes even die hard masochists like ourselves able to do nothing but lie in bed in a fetal position and cry, wishing someone would just stop by and randomly shoot us, to put us out of our misery.......
I hate it when my idiot, alcoholic, mysogynistic, piece of rotting dog shit brother calls me up, whining for money because he's to busy drinking and partying on his to pay his friggin bills, expecting me to go without something in order to pay to have his vehical fixed...... and then actually has the unmitigated gall and audacity to ask me to consider letting him move back in with me so that he won't have bills for living expenses because "the economy makes it to hard to keep my rent and utilties paid on my apartment." Yes, the stupid asshat called me Again informing me that he felt it should be My responcibility, because HE never got around to having the title transfered from the Trust to himself for his truck!
The sumbitch makes $2500+ a month as a welder. His rent is $400 a month, his utilities are $300 a month, he carries only minimum insurance on his truck which costs him $130 a month (to many DUIs to get decent rates) he makes payments on a single loan that he got even though he didn't need it that are less than $200 a month. That's not even half his income....... which leaves plenty for groceries, ciggs, gas in the truck, incidentals, and emergencies.... but he's whining that he can't Afford to pay for the maintainence on his own friggin vehical, because if he does, it means he has to Not put money away for a couple of months towards a Harley in his own name, even though he has no intention of replacing the property of the trust (MY Harley) that he got stolen in his drunken stupidity??? I don't fucking think so, especially when he tells me that it's "none of (my) business" where the rest of his money is going. Sorry shitforbrains - but if you expect me to cough up cash to pay for something for you, you're going to account for EVERY PENNY OF YOUR FRACKING INCOME to prove it's not being spent on drugs and booze. He already owes the Trust $8000 he has no intention of paying back, and claims not to owe - $6500 that it cost me to buy the used Harley he got stolen (which he wasn't even supposed to have possession of, but refused to return.. and dad threw a fit when I started to press charges against him for theft for refusing to return it) and $1500 in back utility bills that he refused to pay because the property where the utilties were was owned by the trust (according to him, that made the Trust responcible for the utilities, and it "isn't fair" that the trust is set up to pay the living expenses of the Trustee, but not His living expenses as well.)
I think, when he calls back on the 1st (I told him I'd think about it - to call back after payday on the 1st, and I'd give him my decision)..... I know what I'm going to tell him.
(a) When he agrees to account for every cent of his own money - with proof via reciepts for Legitimate expenses that do NOT include any bar tabs or illegal substances, I'll concede that he possibly legitmately needs assistance.
(b) When he quits thinking that him saving money to buy himself a motorcyle he doesn't need is more important than paying his own maintanence bill for his current vehical, I'll concede that he possibly legitimately needs assistance.
(c) When he's started making an effort to re-pay the Trust for the money he already owes, to the tune of $8000, and is asking to put off payments to the trust for that debt so that he can cover such an expense, I'll concede that he possibly legitimately needs assistance.
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. So we do that. The police show up, verify I do have insurance by calling my insurance( I really have to put a copy in the car, please remind me). Makes no report or anything and we are on our way. But I am 45 minutes late. students all notified but waiting for me as I explain. Then the students point out that my sweater is inside out and I have one brown gyn shoe on and one white gym shoe on.
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